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gay guys in London seek surrogacy female [134]
If this had been uk_ spouting his usual trash about, oh lets say: Poles shouldn't have kids as they make bad parents, you'd have been all over him like a rash. But "uh oh" a gay guy asks a question about having a kid and suddenly, quicker than you can say turker baster, they'll be having sex with them and taking them into male toilets.
If a now life, krysia would probably join uk- saying something about her bossy polish mother. :) Just kidding krysia. :)
It is interesting though that people suspect gay's of pedophile tendencies, but not do the same thing with lesbians. What’s even more strange, for some people gay is a synonym of pedophile. I wonder why is that? :(
but is it gay males that cant have children adopted or otherwise or the female gay (lesbians) that cant or both??
Both. Although lesbians don't have to adopt a child in order to have one. :)
Basically when it comes to parenting men and women compliment each other in that role and both of their presence is crucial in order for that kid to have an optimal upbringing. A mother loves her child for it’s sheer existence, while a father loves his child for whom it is. It makes a perfect balance: a child has this comfort that whatever will happen it will be loved by it's mother, and at the same time it knows that it has to try to earn it's fathers love. In most cases, when one of them is missing, problems occur. Let’s face it, people brought up by a one parent in most cases have some problems in the future . Boys that grow up without the presence of a father figure tend to be more “feminine” than their peers that do grow up in it’s presence. Even such issues like women domination in the teachers profession has a big negative impact in the learning capabilities of young boys. I can only imagine what would be the result of upbringing without a mother. And don’t tell me that it won’t have any impact on the child’s psyche, because I wont believe you. Family is the first and the most important environment where we learn about the world and how to interact within the society. Even if the homosexual parent’s wouldn’t force their children to be gay, I’m sure in the end those kids would be seriously confused what way they should take; their parents or society’s. Basically we don’t have a clue what would happen to them. Why experiment with their psyche if the current family model is OK?
Mr F, if she is not attracted to women then she's not going to be lesbian, I think people are born the way they are.
Yeah, many homosexuals explain their state that way. I have no problems with that. It's a pity though, that they don't have problems accepting that nature made them gay, but they do seem to have problems accepting that because of the same nature, they can't have children. Somebody was talking something about selectiveness of perception? :)
no... but it might well make you a member of the catholic church...
I always could have ended up worse, right? :)