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Are Polish Ladies Interested in Marriage to American Men?


Floridian 1 | 9  
28 Jan 2007 /  #1
Folks:

I am a new visitor here to your forum, and would like to ask a few brief questions, if I may please.

I remember back in Graduate School (Anna from somewhere in Poland) was a very attractive, extremely kind and sweet - short strawberry blond with green eyes.

With so much spam out there with relation to RU & UA ladies, and having been to both places before, I wish to ask a simple question:

Are Polish ladies interested in marrage to foreign men, and life in another country - similiar to those in UA & RU?

Can anyone make a recommendation to me, to point me in the right direction for potentially meeting such a candidate - say in Warsaw or surrounding areas? Like a web-site, maybe similiar in nature to aforeignaffair.com or even a dedicated Marriage Agency in Poland - or do sites like this not exist for this European country?

The reason that I ask, is that I now have an opportunity to travel to Warsaw with an elderly gentleman, whom is my neighbor, and advises me that ladies there are unique in terms of their personal attributes and characteristics.

Your personal recommendations are valued.

TIA,

Edward

Direct Replies are welcome:

florida_edward@yahoo
oh dear  
28 Jan 2007 /  #2
Dude, get a life... You plan on visiting Poland and bringing back a wife? This is not a visit to the supermarket for a snickers bar. Where do you get these dumb ideas?
krysia 23 | 3,058  
28 Jan 2007 /  #3
oh dear...
OP Floridian 1 | 9  
28 Jan 2007 /  #4
Yo Doosche, I got a life, and a nice one - please forgive my interuption of you stuffing your fat face with that snickers bar.

If you read my post, you will see that I *simply asked for advice* on "potentially meeting such a candidate"

GPS.
feral belcher  
28 Jan 2007 /  #5
You plan on visiting Poland and bringing back a wife?

Why the hell not?

Are Polish ladies interested in marrage to foreign men, and life in another country

Yes they are, but you must be careful whether they truly go for you or the ticket to the USA.
krysia 23 | 3,058  
29 Jan 2007 /  #6
It's similair to adopting a child from a foreign country. Some go to China, Russia to get a child, why not a wife?
But it's not so easy, because the woman has to love you back and not do it for the money. Maybe if you meet someone you like, don't flash money around but instead be humble and get to know that person well, and once you think she's the right one then try to get her over. But be careful, people change.

If you know Polish, you can try: sympatia.onet.pl
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
29 Jan 2007 /  #7
If you know Polish, you can try: sympatia.onet.pl

I looked at the website. Thanks for the link. My favorite is loveboy5. :) just kidding. I wonder why there are so many Polish men who can't find women. Do the women not like them?
krysia 23 | 3,058  
29 Jan 2007 /  #8
No I think the women are hoping for rich Arabs.
OP Floridian 1 | 9  
29 Jan 2007 /  #9
Again, this concept was recommended to me by my neighbor whom is an elderly Polish man. Thanks to all for your "constructive" replies.

Again, do such "Marriage Agencies" exist for ladies from Poland, or not?

I personally know ~ 6 men that have had sucessful ventures with women from countries East of Poland (FSU countries).

Krysia, it was my belief that the majority of the population of Poland was Catholic?

Catholic + Arab = Major Incompatability

Tks.
Matyjasz 2 | 1,544  
29 Jan 2007 /  #10
Again, do such "Marriage Agencies" exist for ladies from Poland, or not?

Not.
miranda  
29 Jan 2007 /  #11
I personally know ~ 6 men that have had sucessful ventures with women from countries East of Poland (FSU countries).

ask them how they meet, also google dating sites such as MOB-Mail Order Brides - there are plenty
oh dear  
29 Jan 2007 /  #12
If you read my post, you will see that I *simply asked for advice* on "potentially meeting such a candidate"

I am the doosche? Dude, if you have game you don't need marriage agencies. I do my own macking thank you... If anybody here is a loser it is you my friend... hahaha can't find a girl in his own country and thinks that he will have better luck in Poland. I wonder what kind of prize you will find there... hahaha... I am sure the intelligent and attreactive Polish women are all vying for a loser who needs a marriage agency.

It's similair to adopting a child from a foreign country. Some go to China, Russia to get a child, why not a wife?

Krysia... You are an embarrassment. The reason you adopt a child is because they are in a desperate situation or unwanted. The child really does not have a choice. Big difference between marriage and adoption sister. Poland is in the EU, I am sure attractive and intelligent women can find very good men in Poland. They don't need red neck Floridian with his double wide...

Freakin joke you people are!
Zgubiony 15 | 1,553  
29 Jan 2007 /  #13
Are Polish ladies interested in marrage to foreign men, and life in another country - similiar to those in UA & RU?

Not the same as Russian brides. Anyway, she'd most likely have visa issues, unless you meet someone that already has one. But, for what you have in mind, stick to the Russian brides. I think their pimps get them visas.
krysia 23 | 3,058  
29 Jan 2007 /  #14
Krysia... You are an embarrassment

Yeah, I know. Sorry.
I've also heard Polish people telling Americans to get a Polish woman because they make better wives than Americans.
But I don't agree with that.
I've met some really nice American girls and not so nice Polish ones.
oh dear  
29 Jan 2007 /  #15
Krysia,

I didn't mean to be rude... I just think that comparing adoption to marriage is a huge mistake. Do you want a women to love you because you saved her from a bad situation (in Poland I don't even think the economic situation is so bad) or do you want a women to love you because you are a man? Sorry, real men don't look for women through marriage agencies. This shows neediness and lack of standards. This is a big mistake when it comes to meeting girls.

I think Polish girls make better wives. I am a Polish guy and I live in the Northeast of the US. There are not too many Polish peole here. I usually date and my girls friends have been Irish-Italian-American girls. Although they may be good to look at, unfortunately, they are not so family oriented and down to earth. So I would like a Polish gir,l but I work with what I have here in the North East.

I would never ever consider going to Poland and buying a Polish wife because that is just very impratical and to be honest, I don't think I would find a girl at my level who is willing to leave Poland on a drop of a dime. I think the girls that are willing to do that are rather ignorant and needy. Not very attractive qualities.

Generalizations, but this has been my observation from going out and meeting girls in Warsaw and Kracow
krysia 23 | 3,058  
29 Jan 2007 /  #16
You're right, I didn't mean to compare those two. That was really dumb of me.
These women who post as mail-order brides want to leave their surroundings, some are hoping to find their "prince" and a chance of better life.

You have to find that "right' person any way you can.
oh dear  
29 Jan 2007 /  #17
Right, but Poland is not a third world economy. Are there really that many intelligent and attractive Polish girls that need to marry a foriegner to get out of Poland? Jesus! Poland is in the EU, if it is so bad in Poland, they can take the $100 dollar flight to the UK. Problem fixed. Why would they need to marry some redneck to get out of Poland

Another thing? Polish girls looking for Arabs? The polish girls I have met are definitly not into Arabs... The only girls that are into arabs are called prostitutes hahaha...
miranda  
29 Jan 2007 /  #18
but Poland is not a third world economy.

unfortunatelly it is:)
krysia 23 | 3,058  
29 Jan 2007 /  #19
There are a few that do leave Poland to marry an Arab because they 'supposedly' treat women with greater respect and are rich, but after a while their marriage falls apart because of the cultural and religeous differences.

Read that somewhere.
oh dear  
29 Jan 2007 /  #20
unfortunatelly it is

Miranda from Canada says Poland is a third world economy... Well Miranda, the ECONOMIST Newspaper and every other major economic resource says it is not. I will go with what they say. Infact, ex-bloc countries were once considered second world... Please open a book and read it before you make dumb comments. Thanks...

Also, go back and visit Poland. I have been to Poland, Egypt, and China. BIG DIFFERENCE BETWEEN POLAND AND THE LATTER TWO SISTER!!! Poland is much closer to Germany than China is to Poland. Check the GDPs.

here are a few that do leave Poland to marry an Arab because they 'supposedly' treat women with greater respect and are rich, but after a while their marriage falls apart because of the cultural and religeous differences.
Read that somewhere.

Yeah but that happens here in America as well. Happens everywhere. Money talks, ******* walk... As Ali-G says.
krysia 23 | 3,058  
29 Jan 2007 /  #21
Poland belongs to EU but the standards of employment and income are not the same as in other European contries, that is why Poles go to neighboring countries for employment, because they can make more money doing the same job as in Poland.
oh dear  
29 Jan 2007 /  #22
Right Polish people are leaving Poland for financial reasons. Not because they are under an oppressive dicatorship or because they are starving.

My point was that it is not a third world economy. Infact, the economy is doing very well. GDP expected to increase by 5.5% in the first quarter of 2007. In twenty years, if at least some of these poles come back, Poland may be as strong economically as Italy or Spain.
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
29 Jan 2007 /  #23
Do you want a women to love you because you saved her from a bad situation (in Poland I don't even think the economic situation is so bad) or do you want a women to love you because you are a man?

This is just my opinion but it's easy to fall in love with a man. I don't think Floridian would automatically find himself in a situation where the woman doesn't love him and is only using him. But I can see how this might be a possibility if she's just looking for foreign citizenship.

My advice to Floridian is to act like he's planning to live in Poland and see who remains interested.
miranda  
29 Jan 2007 /  #24
ECONOMIST

I purchased one 3 weeks ago at the London aiport -thank you very much:)

Also, go back and visit Poland.

I did 2 weeks ago - thank you again:)

Please open a book and read it before you make dumb comments.

likewise if we are to use your vocabulary:)

Check the GDPs.

I did -it's in front of me:) 4.1% last year - Russia 5.9%, Romania 5% Latvia 7.5%, ukraine 6%, China 9.8%
oh dear  
29 Jan 2007 /  #25
Well Foridian... Shewolf says that you should lie to Polish women about your intentions to stay in Poland. Thats not exactly being a man either. But maybe you are right, these Polish girls may not be looking for men after all... Just needy, dishonest children, with no standards haha...
shewolf 5 | 1,077  
29 Jan 2007 /  #26
Shewolf says that you should lie to Polish women about your intentions to stay in Poland.

Floridian hasn't said if he's planning to live in Poland or bring her back to the US.
oh dear  
29 Jan 2007 /  #27
I did -it's in front of me 4.1% last year - Russia 5.9%, Romania 5% Latvia 7.5%, ukraine 6%, China 9.8%

hahaha 5.9% of what... Maybe you bought it, but you don't know what it means... That is the increase in GDP. Poorer countries usually grow faster then richer countires.

Here let me help you...

Polish GDI per capita: US $7,100 (World Bank, 2006)

China GNI per capita: US $1,740 (World Bank, 2006)

India GNI per capita: US $720 (World Bank, 2006)

Russia GNI per capita: US $4,460 (World Bank, 2006)

So basically Poland is well above China and India and above Russia.
Plus, all of that GDP in Russia comes from resources like oil and minerals... Poland is far more service based. Much better off...

So please explain to me how Poland is a third world economy?
Moralny 1 | 60  
29 Jan 2007 /  #28
wonder why there are so many Polish men who can't find women.

I checked it and the number of seeking women is the same as seeking men (over 600) so maybe you shouldnt be wonder so much.

Some people here havent been probably in Poland for a long time. Communism is over!!

and as I know Krysia you are now with one of this bad polish guy. Wasn't You married with one of this fantastic USA citzen? I really dont know why do You help these foreing loosers so much, translating polish-english texts etc. Some of them are simply a cheater.

These women who post as mail-order brides want to leave their surroundings, some are hoping to find their "prince" and a chance of better life.

What? :)

Krysia etc, You are living in USA, Canada etc havent You got there any Polonia problems?

I have 2 weeks ago - thank you again

Go to Ukraine, hehe:)

Szczecin is a **** hole, guess why :)
oh dear  
29 Jan 2007 /  #29
The reason that I ask, is that I now have an opportunity to travel to Warsaw with an elderly gentleman,

Travel does not mean permanant stay... The doof probably can't even speak Polish. Sorry hun, you need to read closer.
miranda  
29 Jan 2007 /  #30
So please explain to me how Poland is a third world economy?

I would never dare to waste my time explaining things to such knowlegable person as yourself:)
Which one is worse: arrogance or ignorrance?:)

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