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I'm pregnant by my Polish boyfriend but he wants me to abort it! [132]
You have two options, both of which i'm sure you have considered:
1. have the baby, be a single mother and have no support from him or contact off him, as difficult as it sounds right now, you will be surprised at how much support you will receive from your family and your friends, as for finances, as long as you work you can claim family tax credits, im not going to go all anicdotal on you, but I have friends that have had husbands walk out on them and they've raised children and worked and done better than manage, so it is possible.
2. you can come to the UK have an abortion and try to forget about it, you may or may not regret your decision, that's the chance you take with an option that is irriversable.
If you are 2 months pregnant then you need to make your mind up pretty quick or you may not have option no.2
This is going to sound really harsh, but this man wants nothing to do this pregnancy, he has been clear about that, so don't expect anything from him if you decide to continue with the pregnancy, emotionally this could be very difficult for you, so you have to be sure that you could cope with your childs father not wanting to be a part of his / her life.
Good luck.
