Genealogy / Bulas Family Search [7]

does anyone have any kind of old documents with town names?

when doing searches, you need to have specific information.. otherwise you are
looking for a needle in haystack so to speak. :))

by all means this is one of the hardest and longest projects .. you must gather
information on your specific family in order to verify

lots of bulas that came to America..

Love / Divorced Polish women [63]


this is what I said ,, I agreed with you on the small percentage being willing to take
on this so called baggage as you put it.. then you fire up with


so you throw the stone, im supposed to sit here and take it ?
you made huge assumption and you have no idea about me from the start.
so its not ok for me to think you are bitter once you throw a stone?
I didnt direct that at you. if you took it personally, then you have issues..
I did come back at you once you came at me.. truth is, you dont know me,
so there for all your statements only show a bitter person in my opinion..

forieigner4.. yes we have had our run ins.. so your making assumption based on
his of what kind of person I am .. judging are we?

I was making a point as well. I think my point was understood.. plk I fogot to add
thank you..

also would like to add. that in my studies, i found many women who divorced
along my history finds and have re-married and had more then 6 children and had
6 more along with the new husbands all Polish and my grandfather was a step son
too, as when I found his manifest for him coming to America he was going to see his
step father who was already in the USA..

my grandmother remarried because her first husband was a alcoholic and never
brought home and money for food.. so she has two sets of children from two different
fathers. does this make her character and suggest what kind of woman she is because
she has children from two different men one being lesser the man because he let
alcohol lead his life. its her fault???

so your saying that because I have two different fathers ( not knowing the circumstance of my life) would suggest automatically that I am what???? not a good

mother or parent for that?? again.. throwing a stone, judging...

Love / Divorced Polish women [63]


I read back . it started off with the real man post.. to which was taken a step further
I dont refuse to believe it, I know it happens, and thats why I made my statement
about real men, thats how US married women view real men, any man willing to take
on such responsibility is real, theres nothing fake about him, not everything is perfect
but you climb the obstacles together, if you accept someone, you accept everthing
or nothing..

and just to let you know, theres only maybe four agreements with you so thats not
all the men in poland ,and some of these guys live in America I think? so I would
say the only one who can say it is greg, but he is one of millions of polish men who
are catholic so I dont even think he is representing well on his own.. and I dont
really think that it matters truely if you find someone you really love, your going to see
past this as so many do..

what about the baggage of the ex old man? that sometimes can be bigger then the baggage kids.

your right too. because there are divorced parents who will never agree. and
in some cases that is a very large obstacle to over come.. one which is more
a worry for the divorced woman more so then the kids, because he poses a problem
to the new man..

but that goes with any ex boyfriend/husband.. you dont have to have kids
to have a crazy stalker on your hands.. good point PLK single women can have
this type of baggage too .. and it isnt their fault.. as can single men.

Love / Divorced Polish women [63]


good for us both.. I dont need to say anymore, you said it all ..

The sad fact of the matter is that to many single men, the idea of an unmarried woman with children is that of one who will at least "put out." Maybe it's a lack of empathy or introspection or even just not attaching a "face" to the concept but that is how many single guys feel.

yes I know there are plenty of men who feel this way.. one of them is my
husbands best friend.. hes still living at home with his mother, still drinks /smokes
and comes over here and there.. no children, and says the same things. I want
a woman with no children.. yet hes been saying this for about 10 years or more..

again, examples show alot.. its by choice of course.. and I guess your right.. its
his opinion and he is entitled to it..

I only say what I say because I feel its necessary to point out that some instances
cannot be controlled or helped.. fathers leaving, fathers dying etc.. so a child should
not be thought of as baggage, or should that statement ever be heard from by a
child. its hard enough for a child to face issues of their fathers leaving for whatever
reasons or being hateful and spitful towards children by referring to them as baggage.. I dont know if marek grew up in a hateful setting. but it appears hes lost

something in his life that makes him so bitter..

I wont change my views on how I feel. he dont have to change his. nor do you.
so with that.. good luck.

Love / Divorced Polish women [63]


again, I am married.. more then 10 years.. husband standing next to me thinking
your a jerk

.(quote=Foreigner4] not that i disagree with your sentiment but that's such a silly way to say it, we could just switch the words dad and father and come up with the same thing, it's hardly an arguement on its own. [/quote]

ok, maybe i was so angry i said it wrong...

anyone can father a child, but it takes a real man to be a dad...

yes, to me this makes alot of sense, because there are alot of deadbeat ( animals)
if you will who run around getting women pregnant, then leave..

then marek comes along saying I and a bunch of other guys agree that we dont
want someone else's baggage, well then i say, keep your pecker in your pants

it takes two to tango, but again , like you said there are situations beyond our
control and hes making it sound like men are repulsed and these women and
children are nothing /meaning less ... baggage, but in reality, it could have been
his own mother who was widowed at some point and would he feel like baggage
as a child ??? WTF... grow up

Love / Divorced Polish women [63]


yes those are the ones ( like marek) who lose the women they have and end up
dying a drunk old man with no one who cares about them...

and no marek, I am not divorced, my husband just saw your post and said what
a arse, so you are calling my husband of more then 10 years not a real man?

my older daughter isnt his, he came along and took on her as his own, as well as
having one of our own.. he is more man then you will ever be.. judging by your
threads and how hateful you are, the above said that you will be a lonely old fart
wondering if someone will come along and love you..not with your attitude..

Love / Divorced Polish women [63]


coming from a real man..

what if the father died at a young age of heart attack... would a man as you say
turn up his nose to two young children who have no father because his life was taken
so quickly...????

do me a favor,, shut the F up.. you are prime example of a closed head injury!!

Life / Damn proud of being (half) Polish [77]


take your own advice, your remorseful for something beyond your control which
is pride/being proud.. your actually telling others how you feel in another thread
about this same peticular subject..

polishforums.com/sick_people_being_proud_they_x-16_16322_0.html

your sick with remorse? why let it bother you so much, that leads to health issues
and of course we dont want that now do we ..

Life / Damn proud of being (half) Polish [77]


in a conversation , if someone says my father served WWII or WWI and told of his
heroics, he is carrying on the memories of his familys accomplishments, one should
be remembered , especially after they have passed along, and its ok to say he is
proud and or admire in your statement, none of its wrong in my opinion, your just
being anal and trying to dip into the human psych of it all but your argument holds
no merit, because you know as well as I do that the only person who is having
the problems with it is you ( on a personal level).... so go ahead and anal-ize
what you want.. have fun..

I wish you would come back down like you did yesterday, I really thought that was
mighty gallant..

Love / Divorced Polish women [63]


you said it,, small percentage, but they are the real men, any man who is willing
to step up and take over is a real man in a womans eyes,, hes definately someone
to be cherished because anyone can be a dad, but it does take a real man to be
a father.

Life / Damn proud of being (half) Polish [77]


if I say, my dad served in WWII, I am proud of his accimplishments

Where or how and WHat part of this sentence is so dilusional that I have no right to
make this statement?? SHow me where I take his pride away????
he did it, I state he did it.. I am proud of my father, therefore I am proud of the
man he is/was and what he did so that I am alive....

you are dilusional..... imho

Life / Advice on speed limit in Poland! [12]


mike jackson im sure someone will help. but what town are you talking about?
not every town/country has same speed limits etc..

there is a solution.. just drive safely :) then you dont have to worry about speeding
avoiding speed traps etc :)

Life / Damn proud of being (half) Polish [77]


hes saying he is proud of his grandfather and he is proud to be polish..

hes not taking the credit for it,, thats already with his grandfather who did wear
the medals proudly!!

he still carrys the right to be proud and to brag so to speak about his familys
accomplishments,, as you would with your families, unless of course you have
nothing to be proud of!!!

I have to go to work.. but know that I am and always will be proud of something
and theres nothing you can do about it.. ;)

Genealogy / Bulas Family Search [7]

what country does your bulas family live? what country did your bulas family
used to live?

if you go to the links, they might help in some searches for bulas surname.

Love / Marry the Polish Girls [17]


I agree King..

that wasnt dicussion at all.

how can you want to marry a polish girl, that he doesnt even know yet,

when I was growing up, I was taught that first you meet, decide if you like the person
enough to date ( chemistry) then you get to know each other.. little bit more, little bit
more, then you know them alot, and decide that you really want to know even more
and want to share your life with this person, so you then ask for their hand in marriage

did I miss anything in there?? somewhere?

his post sounds like a desperate I want to leave my country proposal....

Genealogy / searching for wnek family relatives in chicago ill [6]

yes they do, and microfilmed alot in Poland, but ya have to know where your family is
from to get help.. takes out alot of the guess work :)) LOL

Genealogy / searching for wnek family relatives in chicago ill [6]


you can learn more about your family thru relatives, ask first of all
locality, where all the children were raised, the local church etc..

ask family for more info on the surname, is /was this the actual surname , was it
changed?

ask family if there is any specific documents they have, immigration, marriage,
naturalization, old docs of any kind that could be helpful..

there are various links in the genealogy thread which may be helpful.
ellis island , if they immigrated, or if they are from another country you need
to specify..

you need to find out which direction your going first.. :)
good luck with all your history :)

Life / Damn proud of being (half) Polish [77]


WOW>> there is a decent guy in there after all.


ww2.pl/The,1939,Campaign,22.html

I came back to edit and say, well you must have become educated all of the sudden
thats good :))

Life / Damn proud of being (half) Polish [77]

and you.. without him, you wouldnt even be here, he not only saved others, but
himself, so that you could be born. you think he fought only for Poland, he fought
because he knew that if he didnt, your future in the UK would be nothing..

who was going to take over all of europe??

Love / Marry the Polish Girls [17]


Im only expressing my concern, I know relationships start for some..
but we all know that there is those who do *rush* and or want * other*
then marriage..

I know of one case ( not Polish) none the less, made it here to the United states
and was married for 2 years and divorced and married one from her country.
the man she choose was devastated.. thats where Im coming from.

Life / Damn proud of being (half) Polish [77]


I sense someone didnt get a chocolate santa for christmas.. :(

on the brite side, he has one, but I have two Polish parents to be proud of..
and yes, even though they are in heaven, they raised me, they taught me right
from wrong, and I love them.. and I will always be proud of my parents no matter
who, or what.. because I do have something to be proud of.

I am proud of my life,
I am proud of my accomplishments
I am proud of my heritage
I am proud of my children
I am proud of my dog
( he protected our house the other day with a stand off with the water guy :) LOL )
I am proud of my job
I am proud that my dad fought in WWII and saved alot of arses.. he and so many
of my mom and dads first cousins all served in the war to make sure we have
a future.. I am proud to say I am proud cause I know it annoys certain people but I
will stand against his negative ninkompoop rants because people have the right to
be proud :)))

peace and love be with you all... and be proud.. doh!

Love / Marry the Polish Girls [17]


alot of girls from alot of countries will marry to get out of that country, it doesn't mean
they will stay with with these guys that seek so desperately.

unfortunately they dont think carefully .. hopefully
these girls will think carefully and not so desperately..

to add to this, I mean those who post on websites to meet someone and are
willing to marry etc etc.. marriage is supposed to be sacred..not commercial..

Love / My best New Year's in years or "Polish ladies are simply the best!!!" [11]


best of luck to you both sternik.. sometimes fate has a way of showing us a new
light.. :)

Love / I got married to a Polish wife; Polish family advice needed [45]


you dont need that, how would you be responsible for her parents debts?
set your pride aside and ask her to work.. she should , unless she is with
child, theres no reasons for her to sit home while you bust your butt to pay off
her parents problems.... thats not your responsibility, only she is now your responsibility and your children if you two have any or going to have any..

how can you save for a future when her parents are taking it away?
no, they are responsibile for their own problems.. if they are handicapped then
they need to apply at the appropriate offices. if they arent, then they need to also
get a job, even if its not paying a whole lot, at least its paying something!!!!

and they also need to stop drinking and smoking ( wastin their money) and work
on putting their ( rest of their lives together) whats left..

no one should be responsible for someone else's bad habits and thats what they
are and if you cannot support them yourself, then dont do it..

im on your side gunner. it sounds like they are expecting help. which to me is
wrong.. the whole purpose of raising children and sending them off to college
is to make sure their future is stable.. not to take it away.. and even if I had nothing
to give my children, I would still never expect them to pay my way..

Genealogy / Has anyone taken Genealogy DNA tests? [87]


you spend more then that on a cell phone with all the gadgets and accessories..

UK, Ireland / Anti-Polish sentiment of England [253]

Well. I wish you to have a very * ahem* wonderful day..

;)

UK, Ireland / Anti-Polish sentiment of England [253]


its supposed to be your day off isnt it? its only the day after Christmas.


;) thanks.. as all of us Americans dont feel that way about British , or Polish
it is a small representation..

UK, Ireland / Anti-Polish sentiment of England [253]


so you feel all americans are idiots? generally speaking? hypocritically speaking too?

I thought you were so against generalizing. hmmm we do some surprising stuff when
were angry dont we :))

he may not have known they joined since then, i agree, he shouldnt say such things
without concrete evidence or knowledge.


good save ;)

Life / Hollywood is built by Polish people! [18]


jealousy

must really suck to put your socks on when you yearn to wear someone elses :)

Life / Hollywood is built by Polish people! [18]


hey I like pirates of the carribbean...... and they incorporated orlando bloom :)))))