Love / I cheated on my girlfriend (I'm British, my gf is Polish) [167]


no it didnt dont worry:)


yes very true. men can have sex with no emotion. women do it to show love mostly cos lets face it most of the time its not ecstatic.it becomes a chore in marriage sometimes

Love / I cheated on my girlfriend (I'm British, my gf is Polish) [167]


so basically it one rule for a man but another for the woman. men just wanna have it all. If your gonna play the game then play fair!

Love / I cheated on my girlfriend (I'm British, my gf is Polish) [167]

its a toughie im tryin to make sense of it myself. firstly I wouldn,t be with 2 men its hard enough to keep one happy but its tryin to figure out human nature here,

Iv seen for example men havin affairs on their wives and thinking thats ok but if another male oays attention to his wife the husband loses the mind. Why is all i,d like to know.

Love / I cheated on my girlfriend (I'm British, my gf is Polish) [167]

ok so lets see in muslim culture its ok to have more than one woman but is there any such thing as a culture where women can have more than one husband ?

And also if its not human nature to stay with one person then why do people get jealous?

Love / Question: Do Polish girls prefer married men? [59]

im glad this is very entertaining for you!

Love / Question: Do Polish girls prefer married men? [59]


Iv been there done that and wore the T-shirt my friend. your situation is vert simular to yours. the woman involved stalked my husband out of it but he secretly enjoyed it. I hold my hand up i took my husband back 3 times for the sake of our son but i just wasted more years and put up with more emotional torment.

he turned out to be a serial cheat so i had no choice to end my marriage or go on like this forever and now a year down the line im happier and more content than i have ever been in my life. hut i struggled to get here its not easy

my advice to you would be to leave him or your never gonna have peace in your life.

Love / I cheated on my girlfriend (I'm British, my gf is Polish) [167]

men tend to cheat a lot easier too because from what im makin out , is that most times sex is just sex for men, where as us women are more emotional about it

we put a lot more feeling into it and see it as an emotional bonding process.
Now obviously this can happen with men too when they fall in love etc but men can switch off and just shag the nearest available person when they feel the urge!

Love / Question: Do Polish girls prefer married men? [59]


well you cn say then that its a speciality for married men to like polish women. there,s a few ways to look at it.

Love / Question: Do Polish girls prefer married men? [59]

when its offererd on a plate most men will take it.Your never gonna be able to trust him now.And that kind of damage to a marriage is irrepairable in my opinion .he will do it again especially now that you,ve let him away with it first time or is it only the first time he got caught?

Love / I cheated on my girlfriend (I'm British, my gf is Polish) [167]


nope normally its the man making us think its our fault!!!!!

Love / I cheated on my girlfriend (I'm British, my gf is Polish) [167]


no your right i think. when anything goes wrong we tend to blame ourselves. why i dunno probably lack of self asteem

Love / I cheated on my girlfriend (I'm British, my gf is Polish) [167]


im happy to hear that now you have some serious making up to do!But remember what i said. things will never be the same again and you need to cop on and dont ever do this to her again. your very lucky she has given you a second chance:)

Love / Is She Doomed to be miserable and have her marriage fail? [41]

It does bubba but we are helpless to stop this ,all we can do is learn something from it and try to move on, peoples hearts are getting broken here but its a sad fact of life..:(

Love / Is She Doomed to be miserable and have her marriage fail? [41]


i agree with bubba here all nationalities have these people. its unfair to just accuse Polish women. My Polish boyfriend had a woman all along in his own country. But i couldnt accuse all polish men of this.


I agree with some of your points 2 patty an e-mail once a week is not enough to sustain a relationship so its all pretty much doomed anyway

Love / I cheated on my girlfriend (I'm British, my gf is Polish) [167]

Since its all males giving their input here i said id give my happeny,s worth here.
you guys got it right she will never forgive you and never forget.
If her love is strong and you can convince her to stay NOTHING WILL EVER BE THE SAME AGAIN. Its just one of those things your gonna regret for the rest of your life.

Once a cheater always a cheater.! you have a weak flaw and if you loved her as much as you say you would never have disrespected her in this way. I just hope you learn from this and my sympathy,s lie with your girlfriend.Her whole world has come crashing down around her,

Love / Is She Doomed to be miserable and have her marriage fail? [41]

i agree bubba the correct title for this thread should be "HE IS DOOMED"!

Love / Is She Doomed to be miserable and have her marriage fail? [41]

Maybe but the idea im getting is that she thinks he couldn,t cope with life without her if she leaves him or doesn,t marry him.

But what way will he cope if he finds out she doesn,t really love him AFTER they are married. Thats like rubbing salt into the wound!!!!

Either way this fella,s gonna get hurt!

Love / Is She Doomed to be miserable and have her marriage fail? [41]

sHE IS MAKING A hUGE mistake.she,s only marrying him then because she feels sorry for him not because she loves him and she obviously doesn,t love him because she has cheated.This marriage will end up in the divorce courts She needs to wake up and smell the roses,

Language / Question about Polish questions ^.^ [4]


hi and you should be able to ask a few anyway,s.most people here are friendly and obliging. you have to stick to different thread,s for different subjects tho. so fire away and have fun :o)

Love / A Story of mine [47]


Nothing funny about gettin your heart broken:(

Love / A Story of mine [47]


Im very glad to hear it and i know the logical way for you to think would be "Women,their all the same" but believe me their not. The world would be a better place if you could believe people were telling the truth and i often wonder why people lie so much and treat people the way they do and iv come to the conclusion that its themselves that they are unhappy with. you had a lucky escape. Can you imagine how her boyfriend is gonna feel when he finally learns her true self.!

Love / A Story of mine [47]

Hi there and welcome to the forum. sorry to hear you,ve had your heart broken and you were treated really badly but at least you found out sooner rather than later.your still pretty young and have plenty of time to settle down, I know this is no consulation for you but its an experience and one you can learn from.

Dont give up there are plenty of nice girls out there would be to happy to call you their own. I was in egypt myself its a fabulous country with a lot of magical qualities.

I wish you well in your quest just dont wear your heart on your sleeve and give it time before you let your guard down again. Its a big bad world out there but still a lot of good people too. just harder to find. good luck!!!!:o)

Life / Divorce rates in Poland [26]

Yea its a sad state of affairs really.not many marriages lasting these days so one wonders why people bother in the first place then. seemingly and sadly people are not taking their vows seriously. its only one mad party then reality sets in and couples cant cope.

Life / Divorce rates in Poland [26]

Thank you. was just wondering as poland seems to be quite a religious country as was Ireland but divorce is on the rise big time here.A lot of couples choosing just to live together. Is it hard to get a divorce in poland?

Love / What kind of person did your parents or guardians tell you to find? [38]


Good im glad to hear it. sowould you marry just for money?

Love / What kind of person did your parents or guardians tell you to find? [38]


Theres a deep sadness i feel in you Witek.Dont hate the world because you have had sadness in your life.
We need sadness to make compassionate people. there is a reason for everything, and everything has a reason my friend....:o)

Love / What kind of person did your parents or guardians tell you to find? [38]


You got it all going on Daffy.Its a breath of fresh air to know true love does exist and whats even more special is when it works both ways:o) ((((thumbs up)))))

Love / What kind of person did your parents or guardians tell you to find? [38]


All this and be your best friend.I think frienship between lovers is very important

Love / How to approach a tall and good looking Polish guy? [15]

Dont give up Lisa there,s loads more polish men to savour. theres always next week. did you have a good night though regardless:o)