What kind of person did your parents or guardians tell you to find?

My father told me to find a woman who will accept my dreams. He almost married a woman who didn't believe in his dreams. What did your parents or guardians want for you?

tolerance...

Mother = woman who can cook, sew, clean, and take care of kids

Father = nice legs, nice @ss, big boobs, f^cks like Helen of Troy with her @ss on fire

Grandmother = see *mother*

Grandfather = mix of father and mother

Cousin = whoever you can get (he's what I like to call an @sshole)

Godfather = a rich woman

Godmother = smart but basically house wife

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That enough? They all want someone different for me. Great help I get from them....

I try not to listen to what parents say. My sister is looking for someone rich.
I prefer someone poor, but who's nice and loves me.

Krysia, so your sister must be pretty if she looks for a rich guy (she prefers Polish or American)?

She's very pretty. I think she would prefer an American or something else, because she has this image of Polish guys wanting a woman to do the cooking and cleaning.

She has a Polish friend who says he's looking for a wife to cook because he's sick and tired from living on cans.

my dad always told me i had detemination to succeed in anything i truly put my mind too.

But i guess they never told me what sort of person to look for ... just to be happy in myself and my choices.

Judging from the few personal ads I can read before I succumb to hysterics, I think most women's ideal man can be summarised as Prince William. Anything less that a perfect man who is extremely rich and under constant guard to prevent him ever cheating, is just not good enough.

Why on earth women think that 'Prince Charming' will be scanning the internet for missing diamonds, instead of beating them off with a Shi*** stick in real life.

Not surprisingly I've never attempted to reply to personal ads and the world is full of miserable single women in their thirties.

My Mum used to send me out to find my Dad quite a lot...........

I'm in my mid-thirties. When I was much younger, my grandmother told me to marry a girl that would also be caucasian, catholic and not from "too low a social background otherwise she would love me only for my money".

My mother simply recommended that similar education would be better, to improve mutual understanding.

My father just said I should stay with whoever I feel happy with.

At that time, my grandmother seemed so conservative to me because my parents gave me a more liberal education. Today, when I contemplate the society, I think she was right. So-called "Tolerance" is a very noble intention, but I believe it mostly resulted in huge failures.

It's not racism, it's atavism ;-)

Mom- says find someone who knows how to paint, and who makes enough to
keep food on the table.

dad, stay away from the boys, they only want one thing, dont get married till your
at least 30 and dont let anyone get near you at all. lol..

I will look only for the sex talent

very ambitious

witek,

my mom was very caring, she was kidding around, shes no longer alive. so I
suggest you shut up!

she happened to be very caring and loving mother, that would only want the best
for their children, so Back off, everything is sarcasim and a joke to you.


Let me also say, she wasnt a gold digger, my mother was happy no matter what
life gave her. she didnt need to be happy with money, people struggled back then
and life wasnt easy, but they worked thru it together.

she was content and thats all that matters. she died of cancer in 2002

why do you mention gold digger?

Because she wasnt all about finding someone rich , she fell in love with my father
who was working as laborer, they met thru mutual friends.

usually most mothers want their daughters to find someone rich and can give them
everything , but money doesnt buy happiness and love. you can have all the money
in the world, but without that someone special, all that doesnt mean anything.

thats what I mean about being content. more isnt always glorious.

Someone who would love you. look after you, forgive your failures, support your successes.
someone you can confide in and confide in you. mother to your children, someone who you respect and respects you. never a liar or dramaqueen.

Thank you Daffy, well said and well put, this is what its all about!!

Well i was very luck Patrycja19, ive found someone who loves me and puts up with me :D
I can be a child sometimes, serious, argementative, headstrong, passionate, considerate, caring and so many besides and she puts up with all this :)

you need $$$ to live. i am sure your mother would advise you to marry a man with $$$ as opposed to a poor boy. it is just common sense.

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All this and be your best friend.I think frienship between lovers is very important

she is my bestfriend too AE ;) i think this is why i love her to level i wouldnt attempt to describe id do it so much injustice!

witek, yes, you need money, but it doesnt buy you happieness or love. i would not be with a person for money. id be with them if i loved them.

love is not common sense

You got it all going on Daffy.Its a breath of fresh air to know true love does exist and whats even more special is when it works both ways:o) ((((thumbs up)))))

would you be with a person who has no $$$?

if i loved them, i love them. I wouldnt be so shallow as to deny my love for money
it just means i must work

It is disgusting and disgraceful to marry only for money and not love. heaven forbid you'd have children in a loveless marraige, pity the children.

Money is not the deciding factor in love and marraige. if you love - you find a way to make it work.

so you are saying that my mothers comments ( joking around) was not common
sense ?

I knew what she meant, but I want to see what kind of jerk you really are witek.
go ahead and say some more bad stuff about someone who is passed.

but, I do say this and let me tell you,. I believe in Karma, your day will come witek
when all the mean things you have said and done, will come back full force.

don't worry Patrycja. i have gone to Hell and back.


not trying to be mean

then what witek?

I hardly find this thread something you would discuss heated debate on. but
you seem to turn things into that by lack of respect.

as for being to hell and back, I dont doubt that, this is probably of your own doing
maybe you need to change something??

Theres a deep sadness i feel in you Witek.Dont hate the world because you have had sadness in your life.
We need sadness to make compassionate people. there is a reason for everything, and everything has a reason my friend....:o)