In this case the basic question boils down to who wouild make a better wife: an unspoilt, God-fearing, hard-working young woman with a pro-family orientation (which does not mean she has no education or professional career) or a party girl 'po przejściach'*?
No, your question is where he can find such women. Answer: nowhere. Why would any young woman like to be a servant to an old guy?
an unspoilt, God-fearing, hard-working young woman with a pro-family orientation (which does not mean she has no education or professional career) or a party girl 'po przejściach'*?
Both are extreme abstract concepts. In fact people are in between. The basis mistake "your friend" is doing is having a type who he looks for. It'll be easier for him to hire a maid. Does he actually want to fall in love at all? If so, it'd be better for him if he at last started to see an individual person instead of a "kind" of a woman.
Why would a man over fifty want to marry a young woman?
But again, some young lady in a remote village might be so thrilled at the prospect of going to America
...and having a better life, right? Then where's the difference between her and a gold-digger?
that she might make a good wife.
Again, what you imply is that the only thing your friend has to offer is an opportunity of living in a wealthy country, and the girl should be thankful, grateful and on her knees... Where's the love from the man's side? Is that a Christian approach?
Polonius, if you had a daughter aged 20 who wishes to marry a 50 years old good-Christian American, wouldn't you be upset? I can't think of any sane people who'd accept such marriage, except those who shamelessly wish their daughters to marry for money.
Another might be an old stick-in-the-mud bachelor whose only diversion is the telly and might like a young live-wire wife to introduce him to fun things and places.
You still don't get it. It's your friend who should list what he has to offer, and I don't mean money, green card or estates. Is he carrying? Is he kind? Is he good? All you wrote so far make others think of him not well.
He is even toying with the prospect of a checking out Ukrainiania mail-order brides. Any PF-er had any expeirence wtih that arrangement?
I've seen a full-lengh documentary and few parts of series about that. The guys were individuals of repulsive nature, women insincere.
Don't you really see anything wrong with your friend's attitude?