you don't need to make me feel any better A J.
It doesn't hurt to try.
If you read my other posts, you will find that I enjoyed the rest of my stay in Rotterdam.
I can't always read everything. I'm sure you've frequented PF long enough to understand that there are always a few fanatics here who will take any comment and blow it out of proportions, so that's why I felt like speaking my mind.
Then, maybe it's because our men are more tough and actually know how to fight? Hence Polisih men get in fight rather than get beaten up, while the delicate foreigners rather get their fragile butts kicked?
Haha! Well, in that case, I'm happy to tell you that I've never seen a Polish guy win from a Dutch guy.
thanks for telling me, I didn't notice when lived there...
I'm sure you realize there are people from all over who read this forum, and since far from everyone lives there..
The situation is, men fight and justify their fights on the basis of their manhood, something I don't profess to understand.
Well, I'll help you understand. If a man doesn't defend himself, he'll be viewed as a weakling, and more guys (Usually cowards.) will come along to take advantage of that whenever they feel like they have to prove something. Also, he'll be viewed as a weakling or a complete doormat by most girls and women if he doesn't respond. (Don't even try to deny it!) So whatever you call trivial, the consequences of not responding to a guy who's trying to make you look like a homo aren't always so trivial. (Especially not in the smaller communities, where everyone knows everyone.)
But out of observation, it's usually something very trivial that sets guys off (in most cases) and I imagine they wouldn't be able to explain why they get so agro anyway...
You could say that in most cases, men are trying to dominate or to compete with eachother to make themselves look better in front of the girls, and since most of the girls do everything they can to keep it this way, men will stay this way. (Congratulations!)