Love / My husband going to Poland after gotten his green card. Dreading his visit home to mom. [20]

Any guy who would voluntarily spend two months with his "mom" is mentally defective. Same with a guy who tells everybody how he loves his mom.

men want women to remain the way they were before they got married. Conversely, women want to change men after marriage.

That was pure genius. Before - a lover. After - a mother, version 2.0

Love / I want my Polish gf to live with me but she says life here is too hard [31]

Here is the difference. Men lie about how much they make or have. That is victimless fraud, easy to discover and walk away from.

Women lie about being raped or beaten. Multiple times over many years. Too stupid to realize that the longer the period, the weaker their case. Their victims have their lives ruined.

Huuuuuuge difference.

Love / I want my Polish gf to live with me but she says life here is too hard [31]


Never, ever import a wife or try to convince this one to stay. The more you say "stay", the more she will like that mind game.

This case should conclude with: You want go? Then, go. I will miss you.
And shut up.
If you succeed, get her pregnant and she stays, for the rest of your life you will hear that you ruined hers. Not because that would be true. She would use it as a weapon during each and every argument.

Remember two things: (1) women fight dirty, and (2) they always lie.

USA, Canada / How long a Pole can stay in the United States? I need clarity on immigration laws in the US and Poland [8]


It shows you never belonged here. I gladly started shedding my Polish heritage before I left and was 100% done in 1974 when I got my US passport and switched to English everywhere. Polish restaurants included. Yes, I am repeating myself.

Contrary to what JR just said, I was at full speed on Wednesday when I got my first job. I came here on Sunday. No, it was not washing dishes in the basement of a Moscow orphanage. And it paid $10.6k a year. Not bad back in 1967. My first brand new car: Chevrolet Caprice in September 1967, or three months after arrival.

BTW, it's 1.5, not 1,5. And color, not colour.

Language / Spelling of a Polish name? [38]

Naming a child The Odor should be illegal.

Life / Why are young Poles turning away from Church and religion? [25]


If you are referring to me, then quote me without ifs and paraphrasing. If I wanted to get into "Creationism" vs. "Evolution", I would have done that.

So, I will repeat my main point:

What they kept is not our religion, Christianity, as a moral compass, but teaching ABOUT religions.

John Scopes, brave enough to challenge bigotry and ignorance:-)

That's a conclusion. I need the specifics to pay attention to those meaningless words.

Life / Why are young Poles turning away from Church and religion? [25]

Wrong. What they kept is not our religion, Christianity, as a moral compass, but teaching ABOUT religions. The difference is the size of the Grand Canyon. You are free to pretend that chasm is just a little groove in the sidewalk.

Life / Why are young Poles turning away from Church and religion? [25]


Let me guess. Where people are rare, the next guy is my friend who can help me or I can help him. In the cities, the next guy is a criminal or at least a competitor for space everywhere - on the road, on the sidewalks, in the stores, at the parking lots, in hotels, restaurants, or at the DMV office. Hence, I hate him.

JR, thanks for that comment. I am capable of saying something like this once in a while.

Life / Why are young Poles turning away from Church and religion? [25]

No religion is better than the next if your (editorial) basis is the craziest crap in their books. It's what the followers do with the crazy staff: ignore it or apply it is written.

Like the Muslims who are stuck somewhere in a single-digit century.

The gospel of Rich Mazur.

Travel / English cigarettes - where to buy in Poland? [41]

Is it right next to the Lung Cancer Treatment Center?

Life / Why are young Poles turning away from Church and religion? [25]


We learn 99% of things elsewhere - by instruction, observation, and experience. I paid 100 bucks for violating the red light right turn enough times to know the cause and effect so I don't do it anymore. No sermons, no nothing, just common sense and the relatively mild pain of parting with the money.

Every time I raised my voice to my wife, I suffered the silent treatment.
And so it goes. No priest involved.

But, even as an atheist, I strongly believe that removing religion from the American schools was a mega blunder of biblical proportions. Humans need core values. God-free schools removed them, offered nothing as a replacement, and we have been paying dearly ever since for this act of stupidity.

Life / Why are young Poles turning away from Church and religion? [25]

Religion and church are not required to believe, observe the ten commandments, and be a moral person.
I wouldn't be surprised if some treat going to church and making a donation as some form of credits for the past or future bad behavior. Like that line: he paid his debt to the society, so all is cool.

USA, Canada / I have an OLD Polish passport (live in the US now) [13]


The same way you do. Like with that PESEL number. That was a good one.

USA, Canada / I have an OLD Polish passport (live in the US now) [13]

You are lying. You have to be Polish to get it.

USA, Canada / I have an OLD Polish passport (live in the US now) [13]


I just did it. The first thing the consulate demanded was the new version of my birth certificate available only from an USC office in Poland. I have no idea how to get it from here. I went to Poland in 2017 so it was really easy.

If you got married here, you will have to give them an apostille certified marriage certificate issued by the State of Illinois.

The consulate will demand your wife's presence several times. After the application was submitted, I had to wait for the PESEL number.

The most maddening thing was that there was no such thing as calling them and talking to a live person. Everything is by appointment, which means a trip to their office on Lake Shore Drive, and a 15-buck parking. Once inside, it goes fast.

News / Does democratic Poland guarantee it's LGBT citizens respect for human and civil rights? [1169]


Did you learn why being mentally ill and biologically useless is a reason to be proud?

Travel / English cigarettes - where to buy in Poland? [41]

Full quote: Every smoker should get a heart attack as early in his life as possible to save him from lung cancer.
It's not equal to: Every smoker should get a heart attack

Without the full quote, some here may get this idea that I am a mean guy.

Travel / English cigarettes - where to buy in Poland? [41]

Every smoker should get a heart attack as early in his life as possible to save him from lung cancer. Such events really drive the message home like nothing else.

This is love speech, not hate, so don't give me any crap.

Travel / English cigarettes - where to buy in Poland? [41]

Why do people smoke? Or, rather, why do people start smoking?

Life / Why are Poles in other countries called "Plastic Poles"? [168]


You are right. One can be proud of what HE accomplished. What he is and all the rest is purely an accident of birth. Like inheriting big bucks.

There is no such thing as COLLECTIVE pride as there is no such thing as collective responsibility. That is the kind of crap the black race baiters are trying to push now on the people who never had a slave.

Claiming that I am Polish never got me a free cup of coffee. If anything, it was "dumb Polack" jokes. Thanks, no. I earned a lot more because I switched to 100% English everywhere - home included - and became fluent enough to be promoted to the position where I was paid annual bonuses.

If there was an erase-your-past button, I would press it right now and be better off for it.

Life / Why are Poles in other countries called "Plastic Poles"? [168]

If I didn't know any better, after reading all that "you are not Polish" garbage here, I would swear that being Polish is the greatest gift from God himself - just a step before sainthood.

It's not. In fact, feeling Polish and living outside leads to mental disorders. Like marrying a woman and still carrying the picture of your first wife in your wallet. Only an idiot would do it.

UK, Ireland / Polish traffickers in the UK jailed for enslaving hundreds of their own people [58]


We didn't trash it. We keep it alive. Say, thank you.
You just don't like what Dirk and I wrote on the subject. If it were not for us, the first post would be the last, plus a couple of "how awful" obligatory moans from other women and the forum girly men.

UK, Ireland / Polish traffickers in the UK jailed for enslaving hundreds of their own people [58]

OK, back to the thread topic. From glowbalact.com":

Yasmin Confino, the manager of the Ministry of Welfare's shelters for TIP survivors, told Yedioth reporter Liat Bar Stav on December 25, 2015:
"... Today it is different. Today, the woman knows that she is going to provide sex services. She also receives part of the payment from the clients. She is not held captive and she gets to keep her passport and cell phone. Yet, since these are foreign women who live separately from Israelis and they do not speak the language, they are dependent on the pimps, dependence that contributes to the pimps' control over these women".

Just as I said. Nobody is a slave. It's voluntary. Stupid, scared, but voluntary. Not everybody who is stupid and scared is a slave. Those women are no different from the domestic prostitutes except that the foreign ones don't speak local language.

We use this term "trafficking" to insinuate that the woman is like a kid or a package and, thus, not actively participating in the crime or is unable to give legal consent. Therefore, it's all the "trafficker's" fault. Sure.

UK, Ireland / Polish traffickers in the UK jailed for enslaving hundreds of their own people [58]

It was their ruling class - which the Brits love just as much as the Germans love theirs, by the way - that brought that garbage in. One day, I will understand why.

UK, Ireland / Polish traffickers in the UK jailed for enslaving hundreds of their own people [58]

Brits have every right to dislike foreigners as they please and without explanation.

UK, Ireland / Polish traffickers in the UK jailed for enslaving hundreds of their own people [58]


Preying on does not equal "enslaving". Kids aside. Old people are preyed on every single day without being enslaved. They are just stupid.
As a rule, politicians lie. Yet, nobody ever claimed that voters are forced to vote for them or are enslaved - other than to their own greed.

The same sh** is going on in the American "concentration camps" where babies are "ripped from the mothers' loving arms". Another bullsh** women like that lipsticked brick, AOC, love to spread without saying that those loving mothers were told that if they want to continue with the process, they have to be separated from the kids and sign a consent form. Like those "enslaved" prostitutes, the loving mothers and their ripped babies are free to leave any time they want. But they don't want to.

UK, Ireland / Polish traffickers in the UK jailed for enslaving hundreds of their own people [58]


For the same stupid and incomprehensible reason why women don't leave their abusers EVEN if they have money, no kids and the Greyhound bus stop is right across the street: because women are emotional idiots with that pre-recorded message - "because I love him". Yeah, after years of abuse and rapes the moron still loves him. The worst of it is that one day they will find her decomposing body in a ditch and we all will have to pay for the investigation, trial and the prison when they catch the sob.


Hey, Mr. Sooo Proper, was dragging my dead mother into the argument an act of kindness?

UK, Ireland / Polish traffickers in the UK jailed for enslaving hundreds of their own people [58]


Yes, I can. I am paying big bucks for the police - the FBI, state, county and the city.
The problem is that in the PC world we always excuse the "victim". The victim is never a co-contributor and always an angel.

The facts are not so angelic. The sex slaves typically break the law by crossing over illegally or lying on the visa application by stating that they are only coming here to visit Aunt Matilda. Instead, they work, which is another violation of law. Some will steal IDs and forge their Social Security cards, two federal felonies. Yes, I should feel sorry for them because they do it only to better themselves.

Many, especially Poles, overstay their visas. The bad guys look for the criminal human garbage like this knowing that the garbage will not go to the police for the reasons I just mentioned. So, all that crap talk about slavery is just an excuse. They don't run to the cops because they don't want to.

Real human trafficking involves kidnapping and imprisonment - both are federal felonies punishable by up to life-no-parole. Add to this aggravated rape if a woman is forced to have sex and you are dealing with major s***. At least in the US. So, what do "traffickers" get in Europe? 5 out in 2? Or parole with "please don't do it again".

UK, Ireland / Polish traffickers in the UK jailed for enslaving hundreds of their own people [58]

If you allow "shackled psychologically" as having any meaning other than a lame explanation, then anyone walking down the street could sue you for false imprisonment or enslavement. Try harder. "Your Honor, I was free to leave but this sob shackled me psychologically. I want five million bucks"

Also, if "shackled psychologically" is equivalent of "slavery", tell that to the reparations advocates here in the US to use this term instead. It would go like this: We want reparations for the psychological shackling of African-Americans. Yeah. Sure it would sell very well.

Do you realize how stupid your "shackled psychologically" is? Especially in a country like the UK or the US where there is friendly police and millions of people ready to help right down the street? It's not like escaping from Black Dolphin or Dachau, for crying out loud.

BTW, how do you explain the actions and the behavior of the NAZI death camps inmates the moment they were liberated? Did they stay in a daze because over the years they got used to being "shackled psychologically' or did they try to kill their oppressors?

UK, Ireland / Polish traffickers in the UK jailed for enslaving hundreds of their own people [58]

Yes, I do. If you can walk, you are not a slave. After the first session of "torture", I would be running to the cops, not walking.

The threat of hurting "families back home" is bs. It can be made to the first person walking down the street. "If you don't give me all your money, I will kill your mom and dad". Actually, by not going to the police you would be aiding and abetting the criminals. Like paying ransom or blackmail. There is no end to it. In fact, paying ransom should be a felony because your act of paying ransom sustains the crime of kidnapping.

I know. You are a woman so logic is heartless.