News / Are Polish People Being Discriminated Against? Problems getting a US visa. [258]

Listen all this anti-US just because a few Polaks get refused a VISA!!!!! Really is that what this is all about, were not school children in here, we are adults i hope???

The US or any other country for that fact has a right to decide who and who does not have permission to enter their country. Surely that is one of the fundamental rights of a nation, to be able to select who and who does not come into the country. Sometimes i think the world is becoming to obsessed with this 'freedom to move' than is healthy.

Otherwise what is the point in having borders?? If you let every ski, scu and abdul into the coutnry there will be no control on the population and the potential for over population becomes a real issue. (for the UK anyway, we are a small island)

News / Are Polish People Being Discriminated Against? Problems getting a US visa. [258]


lol i liked that vid :) so the Polaks can rip it out of themselves, good to know.

News / Are Polish People Being Discriminated Against? Problems getting a US visa. [258]


so what would your alternative be??


yeah i love you too and this is the first time i've posted to you, lol (j/k)

As for immigration, i've been saying for ages that the UK & US need a workable effective immigration policy, its not difficult and could be introduced at anytime.

I have no problem with people coming to the UK who are going to benefit this country but if they have nothing to offer and just want to live off the state they can just turn round and jump back on whatever plane, bus or underside of a lorry they came on and go back ;) SIMPLE

News / Are Polish People Being Discriminated Against? Problems getting a US visa. [258]

The US is such an easy target for criticism because its usually the first nation to stand up and say 'i'm not taking this, i'm going to do something about it' The uS is criticised for everything from its foreign policy to its domestic laws. The US is a leading world power if not the, leading world power, everybody loves to get in line to have a shot.

I'm British and am sick and tired of listening to the rubbish talked about the US and other 'powerful' world nations, a lot of the time its jealousy or just ignorance. It must be hard for any governement to run a nation with a population of 700 Million, i mean for god sake the Chinese haven't even got past communism yet and America takes the flack for the smallest things.

I'm not a fan of everything US, in fact far from it, they could learn not to shoot at our troops (The Brits) and concentrate more on the enemy, they could also do with getting their laws sorted out (LIke having the same accross all States) apart from that though their not a bad lot :)

Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]


I'm not trying to stick a label on you or you to a label :) really i'm not.


you won't find me questioning anybodies taste, i'm not even a person to comment on somebdoy elses boyfriend/girlfriend, for me everybody has their own individual taste.


lol, i don't think anybody wants to walk down the street with somebody like that, well unless you yourself are a filthy slob and swan around in tracksuits and trainers!!.


see i think thats a sensible point of view, i'm a little gutted though i'll never make the 'JustysiaS' grade as i do enjoy football!!!!!!!!! hahaha


Justy Justy Justy, tut tut tut, know look who is sticking labels on who :):) You of all people on this forum should know that i don't just agree with everybody, the amount of times on here (let alone in real life) i've stood alone in a me VS the world battle. I was only last week fighting my corner on my own while tacking attacks from all sides. I hardly call that agreeing with everybody. I've always said i say what it think, no matter who agrees with me or who disagrees with me. You've found yourself somethings i agree with you on and others were in the Blue/Red corner.


its a very good point you make but surely all of that is inevitable at some stage of the relationship, history always rears its head, gossip will go on and people's tounges will wag, whether it is before anything happens, as its just about too, or four months in.


i agree with you but because of what you said before i'm going to say your totally wrong, lol. hehehe


you don't strike me as a '*****' fighter anyway, you have to go down to the local estate to find great fights like that :) well that or Plymouth on a friday and saturday night, i love watching those ******* go at it!!!! Its so funny but worrying at the same time.


mmmmmmmmmmeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeoooooooooooowwwwwwwwwwwwww :)


OMG sssccchhhhoooollll days!!!!!!!!

Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]


i guess its different for different people, without saying you depend a lot on looks, obviously this is by far the most important factor for you as the way you meet & develop a relationship fundamentally surrounds the aesthetics, looks, dress, hair, how somebody carries themselves etc.


i know, its cool i'm just happy to discuss something with somebody for once instead of having a pointless argument :)


surely this can be the same no matter where you meet somebody, you don't need to go through the life history if you meet somebody anywhere else?? as for gossip, that will get around where ever you are or whoever you are with, thats just my opinion :)


so while it was not my fault when we were together, it was a fcuk up getting with her in the first place :) i suppose i can accept that one. Maybe thats part of my problem, i see an issue and think i can fix it, when sometimes its not possible to be fixed, or the other person dosen't want to fix it.


lol, female road rage, what does that consist of?? taking of your high heels and stabbing people with them, or is it handbags and ten paces :):):):) hahaha. Mind you having just joked about it girl fights can be more dirty than blokes fighting, when they go at it they leave nothing in reserve, everything is on the line.


well that is something i'm never going to have to deal with on a personal level (phew)


well i guess i've plenty of time to go :)


that is so true though, they do die, flowers are meant to represent the relationship. How can you give somebody flowers that die, does not bode well for the future of the relationship does it?? So for me flowers were off the list, there are plenty of other things you can buy as gifts for your girlfriend though, so its not that bad.


you find me 'agreeable' i'll take that as a compliment, lol, from not ever getting any here ever i suddenly get two in a day.


thats an issue of trust and arrangment, for example if i knew i was going to spend all night out away from my partner, i would always give her as much advanced notice as possible. It is then down to her to trust me, the fact that i won't be getting upto anythng that would bring that trust under threat. It is the same if the partner wants to stay out all night, nobody should have an issue if they know about it, the rest is down to trust, if they break that trust then its goodnight vienna!!!


I've always found Valentine's day a bit of a non-event, i mean, if you like somebody that much (love them). Surely you should be showing this emotion more than one time a year on February whatever it is!!! Love is an all year round thing, trips to Paris, nice dinners, gifts, presents should be an all year round thing when you feel like showing your love, not when your told to (as i see Valentine's day as being told to)


hang on a minute, 'she has to give him pleasure' i thought sex was a two way thing, your both meant to give each other enjoyment?? I mean if somebody is a selfish lover then that is apart from the rest of the stuff you mentioned above. Any girl who thinks that its a one way street when it comes to sex needs educating!!!!


Yeah and half the time you cannot see them coming, that is what makes it so dangerous, i can see signs for a lot of things when it comes to relationships but sometimes i just can't figure it out 100%.

Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]


nothing of the sort, i write whatever 'I' believe, i'm not a sheep who follows others way of thinking. I'm an independent guy with his own views, i just happen to agree with a few points that Tomek made about experiences we have both had with 'a' girlfriend.


my dear Patrycja19, i was not talking about every woman on the face of the earth, just the one i had those experiences with. Do you really think i'm the sort of person to box all women together with the same label on??

wow there is a lot of reference to the word 'negative' in that paragraph, i get your drift and i also agree with you, however once again i would like to point out the fact its not just men who think some women are negative, i'm sure there are women who think some men are negative.


If your on a night out and approach a girl, then yes it probably has a lot to do with it, in any other situation where you interact and develop a relationship/friendship/acquaintance it is more to do with what the person is actually like. How they speak/sound/personality/language and even smell if you get that close.


again i totally agree with you, however you don't meet every girl in a club and start a conversation. Sometimes circumstances bring you together or in contact with women, social clubs, workplace, university etc etc. That initial contact is not made because of looks its made because of circumstance. This gives the traits you mentioned above a chance to shine through better than if you were doing your thing on the dance floor and looking to see who you are going to approach.


3rd time in thee sentaences i'm going to agree with you. As i said before though your situation seems more suited to being on a night out and not everyday meetings with people in other circumstances.

I've only ever met one girl in a club i've gone on to 'get involved with' and the rest have all been met in other circumstances.


i would like to believe the resason for her 'negativity' was not 100% down to me, that of course was never my intention butit seems to me your pinning the badge square on my chest. if anything i would say in most cases its 50/50 surely??


i've been there and i can tell you for sure, I'M NEVER GOING BACK THERE, i tried to hard for to long to save something that was impossible to rescue. I wasted a lot of time and effort doing that with no reward. I don't blame her, i actually look back on it and think 'you should have just got out' but to me thats giving up and that is not written into my personality.


dosen't look like i've met that special 'someone' yet then, lol.


what abot when you get stuck in a traffic jam for four hours, surely your a miserable cow then?? :) Or when that cycle comes round once a month, all girls are cows then :) they can't help it but still it counts lol.


females are much better at being in touch with their emotions, i find as a man sometimes i'm crap at it, maybe sometimes i don't admit how i feel so i don't seem weak/vulnerable to those around me. I also defy my emotions sometimes, for example i really liked this girl once but i convinced myself i didn't because she was such a cock!!!!


all royalties to Nike :)

Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]


ow well maybe i have not read far enough back in the thread to know what you mean, i will have to take your word for it.


i think mine/your ex had a few things in common, mine did not have any problem with getting a half decent job (as she was doing her education here) she just lacked the belief sometimes to equal her potential talent, i sometimes thought 'what a waste of talent'. I would not call myself stupid, nowhere near, however she had more in the bag than i did. The difference was i have a lot of self belief, positivity, well motivated and driven. I felt sometimes that she lacked a few of these traits, i did my best to boost them but nothing seemed to work.


i think your onto something there and it could also have contributed why we got together, maybe i was something to help her find her feet and on my side, the company, interaction etc etc of somebody who is going through the same thing is me (uni in this case) two heads are better than one :)

Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]

what has JustysiaS done to anybody?? what is this kind of reaction for, can nobody take criticism??? The girl just told me straight up that i fcuked up my relationship and that i was the one in the wrong but i did not reply with sly and spiteful comments.

Come on guys this is a lady you are talking to not some drunken yob outside the pub

Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]


i totally agree with you on that point, it cannot be based on nationality, positive and negative flows through all nationalities.


ok it was a joke, i apologise for my last post directed at you.

Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]

i guess physical is important but i think chemistry and a persons make up is more important in the long run, looks are not permanant but the other two are. The old saying about judging a book by its cover could not be more relevant here


i hope your not calling any female members of the forum 'mmmoooooooowwwww cows' that is out of order and you need to have a word with yourself, you bad excuse for a man.

Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]

simple answer, yes, i don't understand it myself all i can say is that its not love :)

Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]

LAGirl
i think your just going to have to follow the link, post that on the e-mail and any comments made here you would like to send to, just copy and paste them into your e-mail

Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]

what on earth or who on earth is that aimed at?? its more like a random chat post.

Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]


yes she was/is lovely but i never mentioned she was the life and soul of the party. I think the fact she was under a lot of pressure from home to do well in University may have been the trigger, rather than myself as you pointed too.

I tried so many times to help her see the positive side of something, the 'what happens if you achieve' rather than the 'what happens if you fail' In my job i have to do a lot of motivating, talking up, showing the positives to so many people and i actually think i'm good at it, in fact the results show this :):). If i can motivate children, friends, footballers etc i don't know why i had a problem with her. I guess sometimes your not always on top form, or maybe i just made a mess, heck i'm human and we make mistakes.


i think your right here, i first pointed this situation out to you and the rest of the forum in reply to your sentence about knowing/thinking you fancy somebody as soon as you meet them. Looking back on it i don't know why we were ever together, i have a feeling it was because of a thing called 'circumstance' we were in the same place at the same time, in the same situation facing the same pressures, i guess we just banded together. The funny thing about the whole situation is that even though the relationship went tits up, we both achieved very good results, go figure (because i can't :) )


you probably still can be :):)) hahaha (J/k)


i would not call it 'sparkle' as such, i think they have a lot more drive and a better work ethic, (the Polish girls) thats how i see it anyway.

If i did something wrong then i did, we all fcuk up sometimes, its just part of life. She could have fcuked up too, i guess i will never get to the bottom of it as we don't speak anymore.

Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]


this sentence is correct apart from the omission of the words (you think) between the whom and the you. When you first meet somebody you can say to yourself 'yeah i like her/him, a really nice person and a looker to boot' however it rarely turns out that you actually do fancy them, or like them anymore than just a mate.

So to tie this in with the negative traits and Poland, i saw one of my ex-girlfriends and thought like JustysiaS would 'yeah i like/fancy her' anyway as time went on and a relatinoship developed it did not to turn out how i had thought. She was a lovely woman/girl in many ways but she was a bit negative. I'm not saying it is a Polish trait but she was more negative than any British girl i have ever been with. If you asked her the question, is the glass half full or half empty, for sure the empty answer would be ticked. She was also more than a little paranoid, in the end it got to me so much that being around her just frustrated me. Not only did she find trust difficult with some people but she found it difficult with me (he partner). I'm one of the most honest/open people your likely to meet and if she couldn't trust me then i don't know who she can trust in the future.

I could never get my head around why such a lovely person could have such a negative frame of mind, it spoiled the person she was/is.

As i've said before though i would not say 'all' Polish girls are negative but to me this is the worst trait i've seen in a Polish girl.

Love / Polish girls attitudes towards sex. [568]

lol, i wonder how many polish girls have actually answered this question, it seems to me like its just a load of blokes 'guessing' hahaha

Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]


i think you'll get the 'boring' vote from the forum, not me :)


why thank you kind sir


i don't need to make a thread every five seconds as i feel i can contribute to the threads already posted, if i have something i would like to talk about i will post it, if not i will not bother.


save that shite for somebody else :) maybe for when you mean it :)

Love / Woman 23, man 47 years old. What do you think about ? [162]

good for you but i feel sorry for her!!!

Love / Polish Girls negative or positive personality trait? [267]


....this thread won't exist.......... i hope, yet another thread on Polish girls. Why not find a thread about them and chuck this on the end. For regular memebers this is just repetative!!!!

I've had five million polish girlfriends and flipped them any style you like but i'm not writting about it on the forum, i could also go into what style they shaved their you know whats in but i won't. I may also talk about who was a shite cook and who was a good one, again i won't. Maybe i'll talk about every single one of them, about how it all went wrong and how it went so right to begin with.

:):):):):):):)


bloody hell you got that pretty much covered there my dear, now mods close this down!!!! please before we die of bordem!!!!

Love / SHE'S 25, HE'S 85 (Polish actor Andrzej Łapicki) -- ANY FUTURE? [82]


Its wrong!!!! Without any doubt i think you can safely say that there is no love involved!!!


No because he will be dead within 10 years at the most

I just cannot understand women who do this, i say women because usually in these cases the younger party is the woman and the older party is the man. It makes no sense to me what so ever, the fact that the in balance of age (Always the female that is younger and male that is older) shows how un-natural it is!!!. I have a theory though £$£$£$£$£$£$£$£$£$£$£$£$£$£$£$£$£$£ :)

Enough said, the less these two are in the public eye the better and the sooner he dies she can get on with her sad sorry life

Study / Is Poland a good place to study for Black Africans? [90]

What i find funny is that we have a Spanyard slagging the Poles for being racist, lol, look how racists certain elements of Spain are, i mean they can't even control themselves at a football match and we are in 2009. Poland and Spain have 'racist' issues, so does my own nation the UK. However what i will say is that the UK is more multicultural than either Poland or Spain

Life / EXPATS in POLAND: 10 things you miss / don't miss about home . . . [138]

or chips and gravy :)

Life / Which on the list of Polish girl's names do you like the most? [67]


hahahaha, fair play, maybe there is hope in the name ******** after all!!!

Life / Which on the list of Polish girl's names do you like the most? [67]


my favourite Polish name, thats a great one.


Never ever say that name in my presence!!!! Please don't call your baby that!!!


their good names too, more cute than anything.


to be honest sounds a bit rough round the edges, especially when your saying it.

Kasia is my vote, followed by Jolanta/Justyna in any order

Life / Which on the list of Polish girl's names do you like the most? [67]

I'm down with Oliwia and Anna, nothing to complicated there :)

Love / Is Indian/Polish relationship possible? [370]


anything is possible if you put your mind to it

Love / How to seduce Polish girls: Tips and advice [118]

mayeb you can take me through this seducing a Polish girl in a more practical way, i was never that good at the theory :) lol j/k of course :)

Love / WHY DO POLISH MEN LIE? [150]

hahaha, nice try but i think they call that white lies :)

Love / WHY DO POLISH MEN LIE? [150]


thats what i mean by 'everybody lies' it does not matter if they are male, female or martian :)