Life / How many ORTHODOX CHRISTIAN POLISH in Poland? [40]

That is true.

News / MORE ANTI-POLISH SENTIMENT IN GERMANY [280]

Crow, no no no no !!!!!

German demons, not devils (Devil is one and only , wink wink ;)) and German and Demon are synonyms in Serbian language ;))

Life / Is parity the answer for Polish women? [262]


Female cycle alters the woman's persona into three distinct personalities, three faces of Eve they call it in psychiatry, they even respond differently to medications depending on the phase of the cycle, so PMS is there, pregnancy wooooooo :))), and finally undebatable, poorer physical performances.

You never experienced one good PMS (one of my fantasies is that ALL men on this planet feel that gift of nature once;)) that is sometimes transforming women into creatures similar to character of Jack Nicholson in the movie Shining.

Women are symbolically behaving similarly sane.

If I had a uniform and a gun we wouldn't be talking now ;)

Life / Is parity the answer for Polish women? [262]

Exactly :)

Life / Is parity the answer for Polish women? [262]


Indeed women are in average lousier than men in logical reasoning. They have better verbal abilities in average than men.

That is what empirical studies say.

When it comes to average female vs average male intelligence, although commons sense somehow suggests that men are in average higher scorers, studies about it a rare, political correctness seems stands in a way. I don't have an excess to a large database of IQ tests one of my professors collected through the years, but I'll try to get something about it.

Those studies I saw so far, usually state that there is a tendency in certain life periods for boys to have higher scores, but it is usually stated that the difference is not statistically significant. P values are higher, tests statistics are not showing extreme differences.

personally I know more gifted men than women.

Southern , Serbia is also full of female judges, and processes are longer than Kafka's in average. I also think there are professions where women with their dispositions tend to do better than men, nurturing spectrum, like psychotherapy, counseling, pediatrics, social work, teachers, professors, some specializations within medicine etc.

Insisting on artificial changes of by biology given limits of both genders is silly. And funny.
Woman in uniform with the gun is a threat to public safety. What if she is in PMS?

The most common subgroup, PMS Type A, consists of premenstrual anxiety, irritability and nervous tension, sometimes expressed in behavior patterns detrimental to self, family and society. Elevated blood estrogen and low progesterone have been observed in this subgroup.

wtf? ;)

Love / Polish guys opinion about Romanian girls? [23]

I guess that insisting on political correct term Roma for Gypsies, contributed by causing confusion on semantic level. Homonyms almost. "Romania is the land of Roma people?" a probable thought of less informed.

Political correctness Romanians pay for. Everything comes with the price, and interestingly the price for the costs somebody else made are payed by those who don't have anything to with it. Generous move ;)

Love / Polish guys opinion about Romanian girls? [23]


Gypsy is Roma, like gay is homosexual, and I am familiar with psychological effect of two steps policies, to dilute the essence, yet people tend to adopt the new designators but associate similar meanings after a while.

Elena, I am not Polish and Serbs in general like Romanians. Vlad Tepes :)) We are the only two neighboring nations that never had conflict, which is for Balkans bordering surreal.

Romanians have the most positive stereotype about Serbs as well in the area, with Greeks, I am familiar with research on that topic. OK Greeks are our allies for eternity and we share some blood and love for blood ;)

In one period, immediately after Ceausescu was overthrown which was covered and helped by Belgrade TV and its crew who was informing the rest of the world, Romania suffered a lot, and there was a short period when poverty and the possible ways to cope were only few, so I think that labeling of Romanians as a thieves, prostitutes occurred then. In that period I also heard in one part of Vojvodina (north Serbia) that they called Romanians - Banat gypsies. Whaaaaat? Thefts were really skyrocketing after 1990, but it was a momentum. Nothing else.

Romanians are known as good people :)

One of my mom's friends boyfriends is a guy who was until recently a leading ballet dancer of our National theater, he is Romanian who moved from Romania to Belgrade after Ceausescu's free fall more than 2 decades ago, because of love for the 20 years older woman (mom's friend), he is rarely talented, bright and funny man. Simply lovable.

He smokes two packs a day, and dances 4 h. not destroyable. I like him a lot. His stories about his early life in Bucharest are material for stand up comedy.

My favorite Romanian working...

youtube.com/watch?v=yp0ZhvrwpJ4

Love / Polish men like Latin girls? What do u find attractive in a girl physically & emotionally? [29]

I am looking for this list in a girl:

Intelligence- average (better- inclining to average but from below)

Education - high school based, unorganized

Emotionally - warm, chaotic, suggestible provided by condition one, absence of super abilities warrants some sort of chaotic stability

Physically - gracious, yet soft shaped, disproportionally voluminous, glossy eyes

Socially- desirable :D, no.. adequate well rooted, socializing exclusively with her kind

Behaviorally - modest narrator

Sexually - virgin of course ;)

If I were a man trapped in female body, I would be ubergay. But as a thought experiment, this came out as a result.

Language / Pronunciation of Name 'Mieczyslaw'? [16]


Where did L go? It is not pronounced in Polish?
Isn't it from Slaw, like Slav in serbian names Svetislav,Rastislav...?

News / Famous Pickup Artist in Poland now [75]

Appendix to my previous post:

How life is one marvelous journey, showed the sequel of the brothel story, the day after, as we previously planned, my friends and I proceeded with our itinerary, and visited one of the most beautiful Orthodox monasteries :D

I don't have anymore bourdell stories, that is the only one I visited. OK, I saw one bizarre stripper ( both genders) show in one club, where stripping changed its definition during the process and transformed into ......I'll stop here, I didn't participate, I left laughing loudly. And AMAZED. Nice bodies.

I begged one of my old friends to take me to a inferno type of the club (inferno meaning gathering similar warm, caring, empathic sinless clients) nearby where he worked as hm....security, he laughed, tried to explain something, then yelled at me, that it is not the stripping club from Hollywood movies, when he was close to break under the pressure of my arguments , he pulled out to the most solid argument one can be confronted with. He showed me the gun, took it out and asked it I want to try to continue with verbal persuasion techniques while his face was showing how his frustration tolerance is leaving the room. I said no.

logorrheic eyes meant in that story that I had problem to hide my honest, yet good intentions at the moment when I saw that uberhandsome portiere, and that my facial expression sincerity was overwhelming, it is rare which proved later to serve well for establishing rapport with people I professionally meet that requires honesty - congruent one, verbal message has to match the message given by other non verbal communication channels (paralinguistic, facial, posture, gestures) so who meets me in person is quite convinced in what was verbalized and sure that I am not engaging into double- bind communication.

I thought a bit about last night's brothel post and linked it to something my mother suggested yesterday to me, to change the mentor (some she mentor problems) telling me that I have male psychology and type of abilities, that I am reasoning more like a man than a woman, basically ...wait...did she say that I am some sort of man trapped in female body?! OMG; OMG; OMG,... and that the misunderstandings occurring with aphallic persons that are suppose to play authorities for me will always generate problems.

I will avoid similar threads in future. Southern my reputation is shaking, your fault ;)))

Good morning :)

News / Famous Pickup Artist in Poland now [75]


It was some quite fancy bourdell, villa stylish, not so big, my estimation close to 400 square m, with the BEST LOOKING guy working as portiere.

I was the only woman who had more than underwear on herself inside that place. Males gazes showed utter hate for violation of their kinky world. Male waiters, male bartender, male,male...

I liked the girls. Russians and Ukrainkas. Perfect light, pretty faces, excellent bodies. Dancing around bars, if the seduction didn't work the other way, and they were all named Lena or Masha :))))

Their offices, Lenas and Mashas were 'upstairs', I didn't see that sadly. Upstairs is dangerous if your name is Natasha. Buahaha.

Dark lounges, interesting group, males age range from 30 to 60, ashamed and angry to be seen by a female intruder, me. My company got the same reaction from the rest (two male friends, one knew the owner)

Later I found out that the God that was our host was interested in me (I was good looking 26 year old girl then), offering two girls to my friends just to get a chance to talk (!) to me, it was chemistry you know:)))), they were furious about his idea, moody all evening , I mean I was dressed modestly, tight black trousers but visible belly, (I have a pic I will upload it later), I understand why he got that strange idea, my eyes were kind of logorrheic at that moment when I saw 190 cm of pure blueeyed Slavic- Mediterranean perfection, it resulted with their loss. they were shy to do anything having to look for my wellbeing, so we just had few drinks and left followed by ovations of the perverts that stayed there ;)

The morning after, when I found out about that guy, it almost escalated to physical conflict for making decisions for me. My friends were protecting me from God, god, god...HEY! We continued with our journey day after and chance to see that Demigod was lost for eternity.

( I peeked inside one German Puff also, just a look from the door, it was kitschy awful place compared to this one I really observed)

I think I deserve the medal for the dirtiest female here. I want it NOW! And I know I am not :( (those who conduct more socially desirable tend to be dirtier, i think I am just fool for being uninvitedly direct and honest)

Life / Pregnant - do Polish parents want to know the sex of the baby in advance? [17]


Meaning Belgrade mostly inhabited by Serbs, Monetengro inhabited by Serbs who think they are Montengrians ;)

poles as I can see, are curious as well.


I am a liar. Caught. In flagranti.

Men here in general show only some sympathies for pregnant hotties, rarely interest. Perhaps that is why I still don't have a kid , if I am forced to face the choice pregnancy or sex, I think my hands are tied and locked to the bed :)))))


Even born baby is unaware, it is in symbiosis with the mom, natural for newborns, necessary for mom. Separation and maturation issues.

News / Famous Pickup Artist in Poland now [75]

Southern would you take me on a tour de Poland, but without stupid bikes? I am good companion for bars, clubs, I even once persuaded my male friends to take me to see the brothel inside (on Balkans, one of best victories in my life). I know how to behave. Promise. I want one Polka for me. They are super cute. Honestly.

News / Famous Pickup Artist in Poland now [75]

I went to the dental clinic for a basic cleaning, surprised to find that my dentist was an attractive woman younger than me, with revealing curves despite her loose white coat.

It took me ten minutes to realize that she was actually flirting with me. After she did a fine job sand blasting my teeth, I sat by her desk and flirted back. We talked for a short while and one step short of going for the number it comes out that she’s married. Not comfortable pursuing a married woman, I aborted my attempt, but how common is it to be in a country where not only the dentists are pretty, they’re interested in you as well?

I was on my way home when I saw a tall girl on the street walking towards me. I immediately focused on her sexy legs; they seemed five feet long. My eyes slowly moved up, savoring her magnificent body, building up to the moment of eye contact. I got up to her face and immediately recognized her as a girl I had ****** a couple months prior. How common is it to be attracted to an anonymous girl on the street only to find you already banged her?

:)))))))))

Southern, I'm afraid I have to tell you that you'r adopted :(((( but luckily!!!, you have a lost identical twin which was embraced by warm and loving family from the US :) and he is now wandering around the world looking for you not knowing why or where.

I want to meet you both. To have a coffee.

Life / Boy and girl names for mixed race baby, any suggestions? [19]

Sarah (Princess, higher ranked women in Jewish world, Biblical name, existing in other confessions) and Adam (Man), serious suggestion.

And just having fun after serious ideas, don't take it personally, just trying to entertain myself and perhaps one more soul...:)

Second suggestion, not serious:

Natasha!!!!! :)) Natalia (I noticed that name for some unknown reason is popular among African Americans) and Ice Daddy :))

For the boy you have complete alphabet and permutations given by usual two letter acronyms if you are in US will be kids destiny :D So, it is P= n x ...(n - k +1) = 26 x 25 = 650 Choose wise... ;)))

Romans were known for total lack of creativity in naming their kids, giving the number of the birth order as a personal name, for example, Primus, Secundus, or Hairy (Ceasar), Heavy (Brutus).....practical.

My highly hypothetical kids would be named Bodin (as one King) or Andrey (MAN, warrior, Slavicized Greek name) if it is a Oedipus, and Sonya (small wise girl from Sophia) if it is Electra. I like Catherine (clean) name, Katarina in Serbian edition, but my sister got that one.

Natasa is stupid Roman origin name, that was given to both genders (Natale is male version) when Christianity was adopted to children born around Christmas. Roman idiots. I was accidentally born around Catholic Christmas, but my parents gave it to me because my dad's first gf was Natasha and mom doesn't know that yet ! thinking it sounded better than Jefimija (from Greek Euphemia, wich means something like wise speaking, mild, uplifted) which was a starting point for negotiations of my father, a name of Serbian medieval female poet. Desperately in love, the poet. Name sounds horrible in Serbian pronunciation, he knew that and got Natasha as fake compromise. His first love. Men are pigs.

Life / Pregnant - do Polish parents want to know the sex of the baby in advance? [17]


And if something happens to the mom in the period between 7 and 9th month of pregnancy without 10 doctors around or close enough at the moment, what is happening to the baby?

You are talking about magics of science but

a) large parts of the human population still don't have access to adequate medical care

b) it is not covering many situations

When it is born, 7th moth or 9th month irrelevant, it is a full human being with all the horrors that come with the human title then we can talk about Ana or Lazar :)

Life / Pregnant - do Polish parents want to know the sex of the baby in advance? [17]

Here it is the practice to know, so they usually give the baby a name before it is born. And they tend to emphasize that it is irrelevant and only health is important. Like mantra, compulsive behavior to reduce anxiety, that I totally understand.

So, new parents say on the day of the birth : Lazar, Ana... is born :))

That is cute but silly because until he pops out he is not really a detached unit. He is de jure and de facto just one of mom's parts.

Pregnancy for women is the period when they are quite reduced to biological, and not so attractive, basics. Men don't have to face that kind of severe reduction to the biological aspects monthly, yearly and so they are in a way more social beings than we are. More... human than we will ever be ;)

I knew only one guy who liked the appearance of gravid women, but I suspect that his disorder progressed to SCH now. (a comment without reference to sex is impossible for me)

;)

Life / Some Polish dogs have a very miserable life [46]


the point :)

Unfertilized dead embrione of a chicken served with oil and mustard is considered to be one usual delicacy on the other side of the planet. Here. The mayonnaise ;)

i have two dogs. i would never eat them. they are smelly.

Genealogy / How common is it for other people of Polish origin to discover they are actually Jewish? [127]

Europe doesn't use one drop (of blood) rule.
What prevails matters and is used for identification.

So if someone is 3/4 Irish, 1/4 Scottish he will identify with Irish and forget about one grandma part ;)

It was one of the ways to keep the national corpuses large and intact.

Germans mixed with French, Scandinavians, Poles but you will hardly hear some of them being proud about some 12,5 % of Polish blood. It is assimilated. Resistance is futile :)))

Travel / Where to go in winter: Krakow or Warsaw? [7]

Martinique?

Language / Province or Voivodeship [36]

Yes, Voivoda is a nobility title, those were Old Slavic war leaders, Serbs still have the word and use it- Vojvoda, it is when translated equal to Duke. So, it could mean that the property was in possession of somebody with the Voivoda title at some period. So it is an area governed by Voivoda, so Voivodeship would be the duchy.

Love / Does your Polish partner suffer from disposophobia [46]


Yes, you have to have something to offer for uninvited guests. But we learned our lesson. ;)

That is old German school. They have to write, document and file every thought they have. That obsessive behavior proved to be the rope around their necks in Nuernberg trials.

I suspect that 50% of Germans suffer from paper hoarding ;)

Is this hoarding thing a newly invented disorder inside the always flourishing Manual , DSM I started with 106 diagnosis !!!!, DSM II had 182, DSM III R 292, and Diagnostic Manual IV 297 ? Are people getting sicker or something else is wrong? ;)

Something like sex addiction, that one is hilarious disorder (very pleasant and healthy for the sufferer) :))))))

News / Will you be proud of tranny (transsexual) representing Poland ? [124]

Transexuals? I have nothing against the various identities humans take these days, but choosing a representative because of his sexual CV is a joke similar to that one when Ciccolina was elected for Italian parliament promising sex with all Italians.

Gays disappoint sometimes. Being uncreative is the last thing expected from them. But then again, hermetic world of theirs again shows that they do discriminate other people using sexual orientation as only criterium. At least here they vote using exclusively gay criteria voting mostly for one very gayish party.

Off-Topic / PF - The Omnibus Edition [1502]

Aphrodisiac, my mistake then. But yours also, I think you used the concept wrongly.

Let's see the definition:

In sarcasm, ridicule or mockery is used harshly, often crudely and contemptuously, for destructive purposes. It may be used in an indirect manner, and have the form of irony, as in “What a fine musician you turned out to be!” or it may be used in the form of a direct statement, “You couldn't play one piece correctly if you had two assistants.” The distinctive quality of sarcasm is present in the spoken word and manifested chiefly by vocal inflection .

That would mean that you actually wanted to problematize my appearance, and sorry for that, but it is one objectively good looking body. For showing and sharing :)))) Objective in a meaning - according to very wide social consensus. That is why I missed it probably, the target of your sarcasm is simply the wrong one. This body is pure music ;)))

You could have used sarcastic comments accurately saying something about my face or personality, they could be legitimate targets of mocking and then sarcasm would be in its limits given by definition and used properly.

Behind sarcasm is hostility, and I'm afraid I don't feel hatred that often, I rarely feel anger, envy or any of those swinging low-high self esteem emotions that make people resort to devaluation of others in order to restore their feeling of self value that they find adequate.

Aphro, until this post, I didn't give you any material to feel animosity (only visual aspect could have had some impact?), so you have to think through what triggered this emotion that sadly materialized itself in failed attempt to be sarcastic about the last thing about me one could be sarcastic.

Culturally we differ, you are Canadian Pole, I am Serbian Serb, and I don't socialize with people who can't resist the urge to needlessly hurt people around them. They are present here too, but I tend to slip into working mode when I hear them, so hence avoidance of people in love with sarcasm.

Sarcasm that transcends the level of personal insults, used for some other purposes could be interesting even for me. A matter of level of performance.

A quote:

Fyodor Dostoyevsky, recognized in it a cry of pain: Sarcasm, he said, was "usually the last refuge of modest and chaste-souled people when the privacy of their soul is coarsely and intrusively invaded

So, for all, this thread is actually a place to share your painful complexes and private locus minoris with others? Careless moves, utterly. In this hostile environment. I wouldn't do it ; )

Flagless is battling privately against serious things, and his intelligence, although quite satisfying, is neither successfully used to amuse others, it ends with persecuting other posters, offenses, and it is destructive in its (ab)use. So, like it is not there. His verbal skills are his stronger side, but his conceptualization of the world as a battleground, winners and losers (victim of zero sum fallacy), is a again only evoking sympathy and some kind of sorrow that has no place here, a professional deviation, so he is on my ignore list with espana and one more person. I don't want to feel sorrow, sadness and empathize with other people's pain if I am not working. And that is what I feel on the other side. Also, his behavior triggers hypothesis production without verification or desire to do that, a loss of time.

Your motives remain a total mystery ;) (example of non insulting use of irony)

Off-Topic / PF - The Omnibus Edition [1502]

Waste of time, ignore list, bye.

Off-Topic / PF - The Omnibus Edition [1502]


Yes, I am not paranoid, and usually start with an assumption that people are not malicious.


Sarcasm, lol here, lol there, actually misery:

It's eating you alive. Seek professional help. I know I would say no to a client like you. As I did once. But somebody, for some serious money would handle you probably. It's worth the effort. You'll feel much better at the end, about yourself hopefully.

Off-Topic / PF - The Omnibus Edition [1502]

Aphrodisiac, at first I took your comment as a compliment, then your further posts confirmed that you have a problem with my ' divine' body, as well as with my confessions, and that you were sarcastic :(, which is for bitter passive aggressive sarcastic Flagless Pole? auf Serbisch - SARKAZAM. that is the word that is ascribed to behaviors that characterize sadly modest repertoire of Flegless's posts and doesn't say anything good, look for psychological underlying motives Flagless, I won't abuse this place for that.

Aphrodisiac, are you the Renaissance woman? :)

And my body is totally OK for me. Some people like it too. For me that is good enough. The end of that story.

For others, well, face the motivation that made you criticize my 'invited' posts that contained my pics from Antek who opened that thread (for more than a year Wroclaw boy was asking me to publicly post some pics, I didn't, I decided to do it when others did it as well) and later Ashley asked for updates.

As you can see for more than a week or so, my pics are gone from this place anticipating further malignant comments from gallery of different characters.

I came in peace (!) and I meant no harm with those pics :))))

Love / Why do Polish girls think they are fat all the time? [42]


They don't have big but excellent butts. The best on this planet. Used to model the of the rest of the world.

at least to me, this looks perfect.

On topic:

There is a proverb, it isn't not from this part of the world. 'You can never be too rich or too thin'.

Food / Best slimming products in Poland? [27]


And who gets fat in the right parts?

even if female bottom and boobs only grow it is a caricature, not a woman

and too much FAT on the boobs, yuck, on the butt even worse.

it has to be a healthy firm tissue, mammary glands, muscle and just a max. two, three cm of skin with discrete amount of fat, not that pudding like swinging fat.

lower back, that has to be gluteus maximus in tension and firm layer of skin with some again hints of estrogen induced fat. Few cm's. For holding.

men naturally can't have any fat ; )

USA, Canada / Feminine surname endings in America? [48]


It is same everywhere. Here too. Also, young couples now have super idea not to get married at all, but to have kids, having in mind that legal systems everywhere made the rights of non married couples almost !!! equal to the rights of married ones (the most progressive in that field in last century was I think USSR, they were most liberal about recognizing non marital communities as 'marriages'). Polmed will correct me if I am wrong here.


There is a third option. They choose completely new one they both like. Sounds fair ; )

And keeps the annoying relatives away. And angry.