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31 May 2014
News / Jaruzelski dead / his legacy in Poland [116]

And the educated amongst us

I agree with Rybnik. And I don't know what education you got, Dougpol, but I don't think it's good enough to speak for other educated people.
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16 May 2014
News / Jaruzelski dead / his legacy in Poland [116]

Someone who isn't Polish and tends to read and watch post communist leftist media, is going to consider Jaruzelski an amazing patriot.

this is a kind of empty, immature, meaningless and insulting argument that I truly despise. It brings nothing but a bad taste to the table.
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24 Apr 2014
USA, Canada / Employment prospects in Poland and USA with a Computer Science Degree from a Polish university? [18]

you're going to end up relying heavily on correspondence and the interview.

Aside from conducting an actual technical test during the interview, I prefer to relay on what they do (or did), rather than what they say (I've met my share of silver-tongued devils, I guess).

Also, in engineering fields, there is a fair share of introverted brainiaks (not to mention foreigners) that do not interview well. I would have missed one in particular, who became a great asset to the company, if it wasn't for his extensive list of related interests that he was able to unwind about.
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24 Apr 2014
USA, Canada / Employment prospects in Poland and USA with a Computer Science Degree from a Polish university? [18]

Great post, Dominic.
That's too bad about student culture in Poland.
Extracurricular activities really help to see if the chosen profession is also one's passion, or just means of making money.
If no extracurricular activities are listed, the next best thing that will show whether the student is in the right field is his or her choice of a senior (college) project. And their role in it.

Do they have senior projects for the graduating classes in Poland? Are the choices of the projects wide enough to spot committed, independent thinkers?
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21 Apr 2014
Life / Golden Wedding in Poland, the protocol for giving gift for a wedding? [58]

So, official wedding invitation arrived in the mail.
Very nice.
On the back of it is an adorable poem, purportedly penned by the groom, essentially asking for money so they could build a house.
Again, opinions from all points of view will be appreciated. Really.
For reference, I just found a very similar poem (which immediately threw some doubts about the groom's poetic abilities, and possibly ethics), at the link below:

dewes.pl/allegro/ver20130101/wierszyki/wierszyk_nr_6.pdf
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20 Apr 2014
News / demonstration; What is Nowa Prawica? [30]

My cousin is heavily involved in this party.
She volunteers to drum up votes for Janusz Korwin-Mikke and apparently spends a lot of time arguing with people.
She's 21 years old and lives in Radom.
What off-hand conclusions can be drawn from that?
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8 Apr 2014
Life / Golden Wedding in Poland, the protocol for giving gift for a wedding? [58]

Again, thank you all.
I think $20 would be insulting, especially since we already send $300 each Christmas (my mother started that, since this is her only sibling and her family, I'm just continuing the tradition for her). That's why I thought $400 might be a good number - more significant occasion than Christmas. What I would really like to do is send a $400 present. I thought about high quality Egyptian bed linens, but I was warned about un-standard bed sizes in Poland. Maybe linens are not the best choice..

One interesting factor in our deteriorating relationship is freakin' facebook. They keep posting all kinds of anti-American sht on their pages, and although I've been known to rage about the stupidities around me myself, for some reason I get defensive when I see their posts. Now that I think of it, this might be akin to those living in Poland objecting to criticisms from abroad. ;)
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8 Apr 2014
Life / Golden Wedding in Poland, the protocol for giving gift for a wedding? [58]

bride's mother was raised with me for my first 5 years. We kept in touch, but last time I offered to pay for her trip to visit me in Florida, she said she would rather have the money. :/

We already send $100 each for her, her mother and her daughter every Christmas, graduation etc. so this may become a bit of a materialistic relationship. Somebody suggested that since I am not coming, I could send more money as a present, and this was beginning to really irk me.

On second thought, $300 it is. In złotych.
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8 Apr 2014
Life / Golden Wedding in Poland, the protocol for giving gift for a wedding? [58]

I'm faced with a similar dilemma. My cousin (once removed) is getting married in Poland. I'm politely declining the invitation (Radom in November?!), but I'm stumped as to how much money to send.

The young couple is still struggling, but insist on spending 40,000 - 60,000 zł on the wedding for 120 guests. I have a strong suspicion that they're counting on large influx of money from us, the 'Merican contingent.

Now, by their standards, we are pretty rich, not the least of it because here most of the family gatherings, including weddings, are a backyard garden/beach home-made affairs. We simply do not hand over a bunch of money to venues that decide for us how the affair should be done.

In addition, there are couple of large home improvement projects that have to be done this year that will put a hurt on us, and I'm having a hard time handing over a $1000 for the bride to impress her in-laws.

I'm thinking $400 should be enough to make them happy. What do you think?
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24 Mar 2014
History / Ordinary Polish people who collaborated with the Communist authorities? [28]

Harry

I know for a fact that it was possible to make it to the rank of captain (i.e. in charge of the ship) in the Polish merchant navy and be given command of a freighter which sailed the globe without being a party member.

Keep in mind that very few people today will admit to being a party members back then. Better still, it's considered rude to even ask that question.
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23 Mar 2014
History / Ordinary Polish people who collaborated with the Communist authorities? [28]

I don't think either one of you got my point.

The most numerous crimes against the government back then was black marketing and bribes, and EVERYBODY was doing it. And everyone knew it was against the law. Everyone, but the biggest puts kombinowal.

Ratting out your neighbour, or "collaborating" as some like to spin it, was not a political act, but a underhanded move by somebody driven by envy, revenge or self preservation.

You mad at your neighbor? Drop a dime on him! Did you get busted and can get off by giving up your dealer? Give him up! It should sound familiar, it is very succesfully done in the US. Certainly not the thing only seen in communist countries.

Incidentally, the kind of people that did the "collaborating" back then are the same kind that demand punishment for the "collaborators" now. Politics has nothing to do with it, but they throw it in because it's to their advantage, same way the law was used to one's own advantage back then.

But there is another, much more insidious implication on those that managed to adopt, or even thrive in those times. It doesn't matter if they may accomplished it with wisdom and work ethic. They must have done it by knowing somebody in government! If you tear their life apart, you'll probably find something, because either they were not "clean" or knew someone who wasn't.
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23 Mar 2014
History / Ordinary Polish people who collaborated with the Communist authorities? [28]

What exactly do you mean by cooperating, Bren?
Joining a government organization in order to get a place to live, or a job, or their child in Uni?
Marching in the May 1 parade, or not trying to blow up the party headquarters?

Most people were just trying to live and take care of their families. Some may actually believed in idealistic communist tenets. I think asking somebody who lived in communist Poland, not of their own choice and presumably not in jail, whether they've cooperated with the government is ignorant and insulting.

As an aside, do you think everybody paying taxes in US is cooperating with the US government?
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1 Mar 2014
Real Estate / Property Developer HORROR in Lodz [28]

Trouble is, in practice, people (particularly in Poland) are out to make a quick buck. Therefore, they are only interested in short term gain.

that certainly applies to the lostinlodz's developer here.
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27 Feb 2014
Real Estate / Property Developer HORROR in Lodz [28]

That's a cautionary tale about buying unfinished property.
You did not have a choice in developers here, but if one is building a house, choosing a builder is a most important decision you'll make.

I know a little about builders in the Caribbean, and it is worth waiting for a year or two for the one you want, one that is recommended by previous customers, and their work seen with your own eyes.

And, never let the builder have all the money before the job is done.
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27 Feb 2014
Love / English girl. Do Polish men afraid to show their feelings or they are just not comfortable in UK? [84]

I don't think this has much to do with his nationality. There might be a health issue - mental or physical. Or, in the large gamut of normal sexual activity scale, he might be placed towards one end of it. Unless you can convince him to get some counseling, (and with a Polish man that possibility is pretty slim), or there is some specific stuff that gets him excited that you have not hit on yet, you got to make up your mind about what you can, and cannot live with.
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17 Feb 2014
Life / What is a Multiplexer? Could someone please explain? [5]

Multiplexer is a device that combines two or more signals for transport along fewer wires (or carriers).
As for your original question, you need to specify what signals do you need to multiplex. Audio, analog video, DVI, HDMI, ethernet, cable, wireless?
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13 Feb 2014
Life / Calendar of Polish Name Days [36]

I prefer name day to birthday. First of all, no one asks you how many name days has it been. And on some of the more popular name days, everyone is partying. The only caviat is that your name needs a patron saint.

Merged: Happy name day to all the Ewa's and Eva's and Eve's out there.

They've been jipped out of good portion of the presents their whole lives because their name day falls on Christmas Eve.
And Adam's too. Have a good one!
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28 Jan 2014
News / Don't let Poland become like my country, France. [630]

Jews have nothing to do with the op's post. Some devout Christians had a bad reaction to seeing Jews and Christians in combined in the same phrase, that's all.