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Joined: 11 Oct 2009 / Male ♂
Last Post: 28 Dec 2010
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Barr_2009   
7 Oct 2010
Love / Inside polish women's psychology and mind [109]

maybe it's just that quite a few people who had a bad experience with them flock here in the need to speak about it, otheres having a good experience don't feel a need to talk about it.
Barr_2009   
7 Oct 2010
Love / THE POLISH DISEASE, wanna marry a Polish girl ? read on... [197]

but we're not allowed to generalise, golden rule, hehe, but so there are just ways they behave, like it's the norm, for different countries.. and i see what you mean, you can see it more when they speak with their own kind, or if you know them better. At first sure everyone is trying to be nicer, and show their bad sides later
Barr_2009   
7 Oct 2010
Love / 'Battered husbands' - still a taboo subject in Poland [387]

jeez, i thought it would be different these days, i'm damn surprised at this, it sounds like eye for an eye, pole for a pole. I thought it was men superior to women there though
Barr_2009   
1 Oct 2010
Love / THE POLISH DISEASE, wanna marry a Polish girl ? read on... [197]

I remember, when she was asking if I wanted to kiss her. I hadn't shown her if I liked her. She at that point, was the one who looked godamn insecure. Then in stark contrast, roll some months forward, after she had 'rejected' me. I remember one or two SERIOUS comments she made.. 'I always ignored every man first', separate ocassion... 'i'm going to ignore you, haha' and 'well anywhere you go with me is great isn't it'. It's incredible now I think about it, was this girl for real?
Barr_2009   
30 Sep 2010
Love / THE POLISH DISEASE, wanna marry a Polish girl ? read on... [197]

yeah true. She was slim, pretty, but not exactly a model. And she really did seem like a nice, innocent girl who liked art and goes to church (both true). It still confuses me now, part of me thinks she is just that. I bought her some chocolates at christmas, followed by the minor falling out, which led to her saying she'll never speak again. It seems like she just hung out with me as a backup, a shoulder to lean on, if she could not find another guy she likes more. Which she did in the end. You're right, I should have walked away as soon as she messed me around. I'm too loyal to people, and forget hard.
Barr_2009   
26 Sep 2010
Love / Polish Girl Doesn't Want To Touch. [240]

Well pay halves at least. I agree there, seems like being used so ask her for rent, or tell her she needs to go very soon
Barr_2009   
26 Sep 2010
Love / Polish Girl Doesn't Want To Touch. [240]

My opinion is, get away from her, cut her off right now. She seems not interested, cut her off as she will do it to you. If she did want you, she will make a move. DON'T pay for her drinks or do ANYTHING for her, it's just not worth it and not advantageous to you. She will use you and run, I've seen it myself, first Polish girl I met was interested and was with her for some time, but second one showed minimal interest at first but changed. Don't profess love or anything, keep her guessing. If she shows you little or it goes to nothing, keep distance totally, or get away. Let her come to you with some signals. I try to learn this lesson. Take it from a guy with experience of that.
Barr_2009   
16 Sep 2010
Love / Polish girls hard in relationships [156]

their typical bullshiit... i took a girl out for months paying for drinks, etc, then she just stopped talking
Barr_2009   
10 Sep 2010
Love / Any English guys give me advice please. Are Polish women very different to English women? [46]

hehe, best not ask me, hahaha.. but one word of advice be prepared for the end, if there is a start! If she's showing interest, great, if not, get away fast! Either with a relationship end or a non- starter, be prepared to ignore her if needs be, when things go wrong, as she just might do it to you. and never chase her will scare her away!!!
Barr_2009   
5 Sep 2010
Love / Possibility of Marriage with a Polish lady [96]

ha so it's all about money you think so? and well she is a 'different' girl by her own admission, so she just remains a virgin, really god knows why, it's a mystery to me what's going on in her head
Barr_2009   
5 Sep 2010
Love / Possibility of Marriage with a Polish lady [96]

I'd say a very small chance. There are some good virgin girls out there in Poland, I know one. But I think they must be amongst the few, I met mostly the not so nice girls myself. Mostly they seem quite closed with their secrets and really got to try hard to talk to them. But as with anywhere, you might find a girl you can click with and it works somehow, but how, you are in Iran, you must go to Poland I think
Barr_2009   
26 Jul 2010
Love / the strange polish girl who broke my heart [30]

hi, i loved one polish girl. we was going to marry this year june. i went to my country for a three week off, cz my granpa was ill. when i came back i came to know she chitted me. slept with a man from work.

ahh yes that's what I saw.. Confused!The Polish are a special people! or at least the women, a special confused kind of woman, haha