Genealogy /
Being ashamed of Polish ancestry? [156]
Unlike those ashamed of or uncomfortable with their Polish heritage, I have always been proud of it and have even felt superior compared to other American kids. Even something as basic as getting presents right after Wigilia supper, when the poor 200% American kids had to wait till Christmas morning, made me feel privileged. And the lavish Polish-American wedding outshone the cheap low-key affairs of many Heinz 57s (the term for WASP-imitating Americans) serving just champagne and gummy little canapés.
Being raised bilingually went beyond knowing a second language, it was more like seeing the world with an extra pair of eyes. My monoglot classmates were poorer for that lack of linguistic and cultural breadth. When I began studying German 101 many of them couldn't fathom why it had to be 'für dich'. If for is für and you is du, then shouldn't it be just für du? That was the normal way of things for anyone familiar with declensions and conjugations.
When I paid my first visit to Poland back in the PRL era, I quickly realised that the average Polish ‘maturzysta’ could run intellectual circles round the average American high school senior, and that held true for other classes and groups as well. Poles were far more interested in and curious about the world they lived in regardless of the iron curtain. As a state, Poland has had a relatively good track record in victimological terms. The Polish-Lithuanian Commonwealth’s lack of colonialisation and relatively low victim body count compares favourably with the rapacious Western countries. And the tradition of struggle 'for your freedom and ours' is another thing to be proud of. These are but a handful of spot impressions, but books could be written on the subject.