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Getting married in Poland (documentation, church) [42]
I am a non-Catholic person that married a Catholic person in a Catholic church in Poland.
Like others said before, it entirely depends on the individual priest that will marry you. We heard VERY different answers from different priests. We even heard 3 different answers from 3 priests in the same church. One of them declined to marry us all together, the second one had a lot of conditions, the third one (who actually married us) asked for the things listed below.
But in general, most agree on the following requirements:
- You (the non-Catholic person) need to bring some form of proof that you are single from a Catholic church in your place of residence. This was not possible in our case, so the priest demanded that I bring 2 witnesses that have known me for at least 10 years to testify that I am not married to another person. He also asked for our civil marriage certificate (we had our civil marriage 3 years before) as additional proof that I am not married to someone else.
- The Catholic partner must undergo premarital training/workshop/preparation (whatever you want to call it) at some Catholic church. This is usually a one or two day workshop.
- The Catholic partner must present his/her baptism certificate and marriage license issued from their Catholic church.
- The non-Catholic partner must sign a declaration saying that they will allow the Catholic partner to practice their faith freely without interference, and one more saying they agree to have their children baptized at the Catholic church.
In general, you will need to visit the priest (with your Polish speaking partner) and talk to him at least a year in advance. The priest will organize the church booking and the organ player at the mutually agreed date.
On the day before the wedding, you need to go see your priest and make a donation (average going rate where we live is PLN 500) and also pay for the organ player (average here PLN 200). It varies depending on the size and location of the church. I heard of people paying only 300 and people paying 1000. Also, immediately prior to the wedding, you need to go see your priest with the witnesses (bride's maid/best man - they must both be Catholic) and sign the paperwork, and handover your wedding bands to the priest. He will give them back to you towards the end of the ceremony.
I recommend that you practice your wedding vows in Polish. I said my vows in Polish and my partner and her family really appreciated that I made the effort to learn.
Good luck. Feel free to ask me if you have more questions.