Trying to get my Polish nanny married off -- best clubs in Chicago?

Theres plenty of places for a girl to go in Chicago

Doesnt she have any friends that she can go out with?

If shes that pretty I dont think it would be difficult to meet somebody here.

if she wants to go to a club, it's better with somebody then alone....

Do you have any friends that would like to meet a very attractive Polish gal?

Sure I think I could find someone her age,

or older :).....lol


I agree with you there I dont like to go to a new place alone either

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We did go to a club, but my nanny was very picky. Though several men asked her to dance, she refused most of them.

On the other hand, her older sister and I were more obliging, and we were fighting off the men. Polish men are so romantic -- love it!

Anyhow, my nanny is still single, but I am asked out to dinner next week :) Only thing is, my amor doesn't speak a word of English, so my nanny has to come along as translator, as well as my five-year-old daughter. LOL! How romantic is that going to be? :)

But he is taking me to a very good Polish restaurant. He kissed my hand lots of times and bought me a rose.

how about through the local polish church.. clubs are a good way but i imagine your nany is desent and into her values... maybe she wants a chap who is into his values.. probabliity tells us there is more chance in the local church.. in the clubs guys will ask to dance wit her, if not her then another one then another...

Like youself...^^

b-sh it


maybe she doesnt have many or any friends here, ever think of that?


where did you guys go?

the people in the church share similar interests, you know like gay people looking for gay friends??????????????

the lady who posted this topic, did not ask about churches.
so its safe to say that meeting men in church isnt a thing the young lady wants to do.

she may not want to but she needs to.. god is telling me so. ;) :D

i got that message now as well,,, the one where god told you... soemone had to the message couldnt coem by itself

hey.. good for you. Good luck with the date. I got together with a Polish guy who didnt speak English.. and we are still together after 2 and a half years.. and without the help of a translator either.. so you never know ;)

just because a person is good looking or not does not make it easy to meet people.

but it sure helps. :)

Well, she's not going to make any friends sitting at home. It may take a little courage to go out alone, but she doesn't have to walk in a nightclub. I met my wife when she was doing live-in work. Her English was terrible. But she wasn't afraid to get out of the house regularly, and go sit in a place where there were people. She went to the corner bar, and made friends.

Anyway, best of luck to Lucynda, and I hope your nanny can meet a nice fellow.

maybe she`s stuck up? Lucynda said a couple of guys asked her to dance and
she turned them down, unless she is really shy????

or maybe she has her standards set too high?

could be??? she might be waiting for Prince charming:)

anyways best of luck to her

ive noticed that alot of younger polish women off the boat that not even have a pot to **** on expect mr. big money to come from nowhere, marry them and make life easy for them.

aahhh.. the polish dream.. the heck with the picket fence... at least we aspire higher. lol

LOL :)

My nanny is afraid that a Polish man will be a male chauvinist. Even someone in her generation.

Also, she wants to date a guy in his 20s. Though I told her an older man would be more likely to settle down.

Like so many of you, she wants to meet a soulmate!

We will try Jedynka soon. My other friend told me people of all ages go there.

My new "amor" told me I was "piekna".

It's just like Jesus Christ said: if you try to help another person, instead of worrying about your own life, something good will happen to you! So this is my advice for all you young people out there -- from a mother!

Dobry wieczor.

Its true, go on Friday or Saturday night its stays open late.

Most ppl dont even go there till after 10:00

sunday nites are busy there also

This is my prayer for people here that I sense are unhappy in their quest for love.....

If you haven't found "the one" yet, there is something in you that needs to be changed.

Ask God to help you change. We can't change ourselves, but He can give us grace to do anything. (I'm Catholic, BTW)

Then keep going out to clubs, wherever you see people you like.

Men, be romantic -- This is what women like -- buy her a rose and kiss her hands even if she turns you down.

And remember -- it's not what you get, it's what you give. This is the attitude you need in any long-term relationship.

well if above is the case, how will she find a guy??


this is where people are wrong, they shouldnt be on a quest, because it will happen when its meant to, thats if its meant to.

^_^
this is for sure.

hi lucynda.. im interested to know how your date went?

Sapphire,

My date went better than expected. He knew quite a bit of English, so we didnt feel too uncomfortable. He is very outgoing and friendly -- what a difference from my ex husband who was morose and shy. We spent a long time together sitting on a park bench watching my daughter play. He's also a good kisser ;)

Lucynda

nice. :)