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Trying to get my Polish nanny married off -- best clubs in Chicago?


Lucynda 4 | 70  
7 Oct 2007 /  #1
Okay, okay...so now you know where I live. Anyway, here's the prob -- my beautiful blonde blue-eyed nanny in her twenties (looks after my daughter) needs to meet a cute Polish guy in Chicago. She wants me to come with her, and I am in my late 30s so we need a -- ahem -- mixed-age club. I know some clubs exist like this because my young Polish friend said he went to one with his Aunt. But where in Chicago? Not Jedynka, I'm sure.

Thanks for any help you can offer.
mlody  
7 Oct 2007 /  #2
Maybe Accent Cafe (accentcafe.com) - it's in the North suburbs.
plk123 8 | 4,150  
8 Oct 2007 /  #3
do you have a pic of this nanny? :D
OP Lucynda 4 | 70  
8 Oct 2007 /  #4
Take my word for it -- she is classically pretty. Very tall, too, about 5 foot 11. She's too ladylike to post on a website.
marek s - | 269  
8 Oct 2007 /  #5
how old is she and what type of guys looks and age wise is she looking for?
PinkJewel  
8 Oct 2007 /  #6
Does she know that you are looking for a man for her? :)
Eurola 4 | 1,906  
8 Oct 2007 /  #7
why does a young girl need the internet to find love? :)
Kaczor Duck 2 | 95  
8 Oct 2007 /  #8
i agree, take her to church, aren't there some good men who love God a better choice than those who like to party?? you get what you pay for. ;)
PinkJewel  
8 Oct 2007 /  #9
why does a young girl need the internet to find love? :)

I agree. Why do you need to come here to find love for her? Is she not allowed out on her own? :)
marek s - | 269  
8 Oct 2007 /  #10
take her to church, aren't there some good men who love God a better choice than those who like to party??

all types of criminals and weirdos go to church, so the answer to you question is no.
also maybe the girl doesnt go to church or believe in it.

I agree. Why do you need to come here to find love for her? Is she not allowed out on her own? :)

maybe she has no friends??
it seems rather nice of Lucynda to help the women out.
Kaczor Duck 2 | 95  
8 Oct 2007 /  #11
all types of criminals and weirdos go to church, so the answer to you question is no.
also maybe the girl doesnt go to church or believe in it.

yeah, maybe, but at least they are going somewhere where they can be changed!!!!
halleluja!!! I know many a man changed by the mercy of the living GOD!!
PinkJewel  
8 Oct 2007 /  #12
maybe she has no friends??
it seems rather nice of Lucynda to help the women out.

Maybe. Although, why all of a sudden is it important to find the nanny a man?
marek s - | 269  
8 Oct 2007 /  #13
yeah, maybe, but at least they are going somewhere where they can be changed!!!!
hallelujah!!! I know many a man changed by the mercy of the living GOD!!

your correct, below many of people have been changed,

chicagotribune.com/bal-te.abuse27may27,0,4273246.story

cbs2chicago.com/topstories/topstories_story_218191501.html

hallelujah to above news stories

Maybe. Although, why all of a sudden is it important to find the nanny a man?

maybe the nanny asked??
Kaczor Duck 2 | 95  
8 Oct 2007 /  #14
your correct, below many of people have been changed

Merek,

Dude I dont go to the Catholic Church, I am protestant. I am a blue bludded bible thumper man, the catholic church does not let anyone but the pope decipher the word.

So you won't find many child molesters there. We actually do background checks on ALL
people who work with the kids, I have two, 9 and 11, and I guarentee anyone who touches my kid will have had a background check!! :)...
Eurola 4 | 1,906  
8 Oct 2007 /  #15
I'm for priests to be married. They are men too.
Most of them are fine, but the few rotten apples spoil it for everybody and become the feeding frenzy for the lefties.

all types of criminals and weirdos go to church

and some end up "finding god" in prison...
Kaczor Duck 2 | 95  
8 Oct 2007 /  #16
I'm for priests to be married. They are men too.
Most of them are fine, but the few rotten apples spoil it for everybody and become the feeding frenzy for the lefties.

No doubt, they need to be married, it is good that a man find a wife, You see not allowing them to marry controls them, and they unfort. are sinful men, and their flesh gets ahold of them. But E, you are right 100%.

and some end up "finding god" in prison...

my pastor used to counsel men in prison for 7 years. He said it was tough. And always shares interesting stories to help us understand ourselves.
Eurola 4 | 1,906  
8 Oct 2007 /  #17
anyway, to be back on topic...you never know when and where you can come across someone who can make your heart to skip a beat.

All of us singles have a chance, if we let the chance be.
marek s - | 269  
8 Oct 2007 /  #18
I am protestant. I am a blue bludded bible thumper man, the catholic church does not let anyone but the pope decipher the word.
So you won't find many child molesters there. We actually do background checks on ALL
people who work with the kids, I have two, 9 and 11, and I guarentee anyone who touches my kid will have had a background check!! :).

According to GuideOne, a major insurer for Protestant churches, most of its clients choose $100,000 of coverage for sex abuse. That might cost a small church with one pastor as little as $100 a year. A much larger church that also runs, say, a day-care center, might pay $6,000 to have $1 million in coverage. Religious organizations buying a lot of coverage may need to prove that they’re taking precautions to lower the risk of sex abuse. GuideOne, for instance, requires some churches to conduct criminal background checks on employees, to allow volunteers to work with kids only after they’ve completed six months of service with the church, and to make sure that no child is ever left alone with just one adult. The policy won’t cover everything. Insurers may put a limit on how much they will pay in aggregate, or for each case. (Recently, three major Protestant insurers reported that they receive 260 reports of child abuse every year.)
Kaczor Duck 2 | 95  
8 Oct 2007 /  #19
anyway, to be back on topic...you never know when and where you can come across someone who can make your heart to skip a beat.
All of us singles have a chance, if we let the chance be.

Absolutely!!

Your Soulmate is out there some where!!
marek s - | 269  
8 Oct 2007 /  #20
and some end up "finding god" in prison.

not all of them are in prison.

anyway, to be back on topic...you never know when and where you can come across someone who can make your heart to skip a beat.
All of us singles have a chance, if we let the chance be.

totally agree with your statement
Kaczor Duck 2 | 95  
8 Oct 2007 /  #21
totally agree with your statement

Marek,
are you married??
Kaczor Duck 2 | 95  
8 Oct 2007 /  #23
Are you dating?? or too young to worry about it right now,i really dont know if you have posted this before, so forgive me for asking.
Eurola 4 | 1,906  
8 Oct 2007 /  #24
Your Soulmate is out there some where!!

yeah...but I have to count on myself only to find him, my employer ain't helpin' me :)
Kaczor Duck 2 | 95  
8 Oct 2007 /  #25
my employer ain't helpin' me :)

??
not sure I understand, can you make it more clear??
marek s - | 269  
8 Oct 2007 /  #26
Are you dating?? or too young to worry about it right now,i really dont know if you have posted this before, so forgive me for asking.

currently single and 37 years old.
OP Lucynda 4 | 70  
12 Oct 2007 /  #27
Guys, guys!

Pleez don't hijack the thread!

Why all the questions about my motivation? I am trying to be a nice person. Isn't that clear? She's my kid's nanny -- we are friends. She has dated, but hasn't found the right guy yet.

Jeez....
regionpolski 33 | 153  
15 Oct 2007 /  #28
Lucynda,
I believe your nanny has to get out and meet people..............on her own. What's in the neighborhood? The aforementioned church? Any corner bars, or social clubs? Is she active with your children at their school? If she is, I'm sure she's caught the eye of several of the male teachers. If she's near your daughter's age, can they hang out together? Quite frankly, you make her sound desperate, and desperate people find other desperate people.
marek s - | 269  
15 Oct 2007 /  #29
i dont think the post she made sounds desperate in the least bit.
shes just trying to hook up her friend.
regionpolski 33 | 153  
15 Oct 2007 /  #30
A pretty young lady can't meet men on her own? A Polish speaking lady in Chicago no less?

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