Pointing on the fate of Kalingrad as an example of "Russian barbarism" you hypocriticaly omit the circumstances which leaded to this devastation. It was a war. You should blame americans and brits for atrocious bombing of Leipzig, that was an act of real barbarism, meanwhile fight for King's mount was a honest battle. And the next! Why nobody want to remember about ruines of Russian cities?
You must understand that Russian life isn't worth so much as German. You have less feelings, you are human on lower level. Poles are a little bit higher in somes people minds but still it is not top nation in this people clasifications.
Generaly your lifes seems to be worth more than lets say African lifes but ... as I've said ... Russian cities are rather considered to be like African cities ... than German when we read some historicans books...