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HOW CAN POLISH WOMEN KEEP A BLACK MAN?


ezs 2 | 22  
8 Feb 2009 /  #61
If this approach isnt successful perhaps you could start dropping some street-slang into the conversation occasionally, HuggyBear style. I'm sure he'd appreciate the effort.

Haha that's funny. Although, i am sure i wouldn't appreciate it, i would think what an absolute moron.

In answer to the question, every guy is different and has has nothing to do with being black.

If he really likes you he will want to stay with you, simple as that.
Seanus 15 | 19,674  
8 Feb 2009 /  #62
Funny thread title. I just have this image of a harsh Polish woman keeping her black-skinned catch in a cage and him cringing, LOL
Czarnobog - | 33  
9 Feb 2009 /  #63
This threat and the question it is based on is racist. There is no way of answering the question of what "do black guys like" without assuming that people with dark skin pigmentation have similar tastes, dispositions, etc... Like they are all the same and their skin color determines what they like.

For that matter, the question what do Polish guys like is ridiculous as well. As if red and white guys (Biało-czerwoni guys ;) like all the same stuff.
freebird 3 | 532  
9 Feb 2009 /  #64
what do you think blacks have different

Hey my friend. It's been a while since we've exchanged few words together. As far as this subject, you're almost right. Unfortunately there's a "but" even tho I wish it wouldn't be. I had exactly the same opinion about blacks before my 23 yrs old stepdaughter found a black bf. Don't get me wrong but this mf is the laziest sob I've ever met in my life and on top of it, he treats her like crap. I hate to tell you that but the behavior of African-Americans I observe around in Springfield OH is not much different than the one of my daughters bf's so I say f u c k them. In NC where I used to live it looked a little bit different. There are some nice black people but the amount of "nigga's" is unfortunately growing very fast. When I say "nigga" I don't mean the color but I associate this with the way many of them behave.

I'm sorry guys but I'm pretty much p i s s e d o f f about what's happening to my daughter. I bet, quite a few of you, would feel the same way in my situation.
rdywenur 1 | 157  
9 Feb 2009 /  #65
Judging by the way you write your posts I can see why you date blacks. I suggest you try concentrating on some proper English and spelling and you may hit a home run.

PS ...I think this is a forum where we spell out full words. It 's not your cell phone.
ezs 2 | 22  
9 Feb 2009 /  #66
When I say "nigga" I don't mean the color but I associate this with the way many of them behave.

I understand what you mean but i disapprove of the word being used in any context, shows a lack of vocabulary, not that i am a stickler for standard English and grammar.

In regards to your predicament, educate her! What i mean by this is that you are a male and i like to think use males have a sixth sense to seek out good women from bad woman, instill this sixth sense in her. Frankly, it has nothing to do with being black, she just cannot see that she is with a lackadaisical and rude man - NOTE - Omission of 'Black'.

If i was in your situation i would be having words with my daughter and with her boyfriend. If she still decides to stay with him and he has not changed then help him. By helping him you may gain more respect from him and i am sure your daughter would love for this to happen.

Judging by the way you write your posts I can see why you date blacks.

Judging from what you wrote in this post, you are a moron. Although, if you were merely genralising then no you are not, however, 'Genralisation is poor Communication'. A quote from a wise professor that i feel indebted to. :)

Yeah It might be hard, especially in the night, flashlight might be helpfull

Haha -original.
ruthiee - | 10  
9 Feb 2009 /  #67
foxylicious good luck.
private email me. might be able to help.
Jethro - | 28  
9 Feb 2009 /  #68
This has to be the most disgusting thread that I ever saw on PF. What is wrong with the blacks not taking their problems to a black forum? They bitch about white people, but yet they try to mingle with them. They can take their white hoes with them.
ruthiee - | 10  
9 Feb 2009 /  #69
careful jethro, your using ebonics.
Lotnik767 3 | 145  
9 Feb 2009 /  #70
Q. HOW CAN POLISH WOMEN KEEP A BLACK MAN?

A. They cant they always walk away/run away from their responsibilities!!!
ezs 2 | 22  
9 Feb 2009 /  #71
This has to be the most disgusting thread that I ever saw on PF. What is wrong with the blacks not taking their problems to a black forum? They bitch about white people, but yet they try to mingle with them. They can take their white hoes with them.

HA! Another moron i have spotted on this site. Since when was this a 'white forum'??? Furthermore, since when was FOXYLICIOUS known to be black? One can assume she is white, in which case your statement is even more idiotic, however, nothing to indicate that she is black or even white for that matter. But since you are a moron, i wouldn't expect you to know any better.

Also if you are so offended then don't come back, simple as 1,2,3 :)

ebonics.

I smile every time i see this word. How on earth did this become a word, i suppose anyone can make words up these days, just get enough people to use it.

i might make one up myself one day, ebonics? What a waste of space in the dictionary.

They cant they always walk away/run away from their responsibilities!!!

Do they, all blacks i doubt that very much??? My father did not do such a thing. As i said before, 'generalisation is poor communication'.
Lir  
9 Feb 2009 /  #72
They can take their white hoes with them.

Those are very racist remarks. :(
Seanus 15 | 19,674  
9 Feb 2009 /  #73
He just forgot to type s ;) ;)

Those damn bowlers I tell you ;)
ruthiee - | 10  
9 Feb 2009 /  #74
That's something beautiful about english ezs, it evolves. Nothing wrong with using a 'made up' word. Rather fond of 'ebonics' myself. In some situations only a good strong use of f*** will do. Rarely ever a waste of space word.

Sorry to come off the thread.
Lotnik767 3 | 145  
9 Feb 2009 /  #75
Well I didn’t say all but about 96% of them do and we see it happen every day!!!!
Jethro - | 28  
9 Feb 2009 /  #76
Jethro: They can take their white hoes with them.

Those are very racist remarks. :(

Yes it was. It was meant to be.
Lir  
9 Feb 2009 /  #77
I know that's why I commented on it. Shame on you really that you feel a need to single people out like that but hey, it's just usually ignorance that makes people come out with such remarks.

Have a nice day !
Jethro - | 28  
9 Feb 2009 /  #78
Have a nice day !

LOL! Thank you. I try to please.
Grownfolksbiz - | 8  
20 Feb 2009 /  #79
I don't know how you can keep every black man from every culture but I can vaguely answer, "How can Polish women keep most black men from the U.S. who like dating foreign women?"

Answer: Watch and observe how women from the U.S. treat their men and then do the direct opposite.

OK, I was being facetious. To honestly answer that question, it depends on you and that guy. Number one, be yourself. Please drop all slang, ebonics, Air Force One's, Yankees caps turned to the side, and the baggy jeans. And we don't need you to breakdance to the latest T-Pain song. You'll certainly attract a boy or a poser with that. I know some of you ladies might think I'm being mean but I've lived in Poland and I've actually seen some of this nonsense.

Secondly, you have to be a good chooser. Choose a man, not a kid. Ever heard of the saying, "You get what you pay for?". Well apply that to your man. If you're from Warsaw and you like to hang around Underground on Wednesday night, Tygmont on Fridays, Harlem, or Harenda on Saturday nights then expect to meet a bum who's more than likely out to score. Asking for anything other than a friends with benefits relationship is asking for much. (I've seen the poor choices of some of you Polska girls choosing Africans who claim they're from New York, dressed in 10 different bright colored costumes thinking they were cool with their silvery chains). Psssst......

Most brothas from the U.S. don't ask for much. Show some appreciation, feed him, handle your business in the bedroom, and leave him alone while the game is on and I'm sure you can keep a good brotha if that's what you're looking for.
ezs 2 | 22  
20 Feb 2009 /  #80
Haha, absolutely true, i second this.
Randal 1 | 577  
20 Feb 2009 /  #81
ebonics.

I smile every time i see this word. How on earth did this become a word, i suppose anyone can make words up these days, just get enough people to use it.

i might make one up myself one day, ebonics? What a waste of space in the dictionary.

Can’t pin this one on whites. This bullshat term "ebonics" came about by American blacks trying to assert their blackness and separate themselves from whites, who many of them dislike.

A black lawmaker actually tried to get “ebonics” recognized as a legitimate language variation. No joke.
The level of black separatism and racism in the US is staggering. There are many more black racists than white racists today. But you rarely hear about it outside the US. All you hear about from our black-apologist Liberal Media is the rare white racist. And then you get the misguided PC enforcers here scolding only whites about their attitudes.

Most brothas from the U.S. don't ask for much.

Not exactly true. Maybe not “most” but certainly a great many US brothas are notorious for being lazy and sitting around, demanding handouts and sucking off the system and being criminally inclined. More so than any other group. They act like whites own them something.
miranda  
20 Feb 2009 /  #82
The level of black separatism and racism in the US is staggering. There are many more black racists than white racists today. But you rarely hear about it outside the US. All you hear about from our black-apologist Liberal Media is the rare white racist.

it is part of the process I would say.

Not exactly true. Maybe not “most” but certainly a great many US brothas are notorious for being lazy and sitting around, demanding handouts and sucking off the system and being criminally inclined. More so than any other group. They act like whites own them something.

I can see that:)
Randal 1 | 577  
20 Feb 2009 /  #83
it is part of the process I would say.

That's it. Excuse racism of today because of racism long ago.
And some call this progress...
Grownfolksbiz - | 8  
21 Feb 2009 /  #84
Can’t pin this one on whites. This bullshat term "ebonics" came about by American blacks trying to assert their blackness and separate themselves from whites, who many of them dislike.
A black lawmaker actually tried to get “ebonics” recognized as a legitimate language variation. No joke.

First of all Randal, I appreciate your opinion but I don't have to agree with it. Please don't assume that your opinion is fact. Let me touch up on ebonics. Ebonics is no more or less a regional or cultural thing, not a racial dialect. Listen to the kids today and you'll hear whites and blacks talking the same slang. Go to New York and they talk different slang than you hear down south. It's no different than Brits having their own slang. Go to Brazil and people in Rio talk a different slang than those up north in Bahia or those in the south of Brazil. That's what my man was referring to. For any black politician or whatever to put a race on it when more than one race is talking the same jibberish, is wrong. It's just as silly as hearing the term "black music".....

The level of black separatism and racism in the US is staggering. There are many more black racists than white racists today. But you rarely hear about it outside the US. All you hear about from our black-apologist Liberal Media is the rare white racist.

Funny to me, everytime I turn on the news there's a black man committing a crime. All of the movies of blacks are the same (Gangster, drug dealer who turned into a rapper, dancing contest/Stomp the Yard, Basketball, or the "This negro really makes me laugh" movies). As if most of us don't live normal lives. I don't blame people like Miranda and yourself (who have no clue about blacks) to have that perception of blacks. It's a 2 way street bro. Only in America do I get treated and boxed into this flawed perception.

Not exactly true. Maybe not “most” but certainly a great many US brothas are notorious for being lazy and sitting around, demanding handouts and sucking off the system and being criminally inclined. More so than any other group. They act like whites own them something.

I had to laugh at this. OK, Randal. I'm one of the harshest critics of people of my race. However, by your tone it seems that you're implying that it may not be "most" but close to half (lol). True, there're a great many blacks sucking off the system just as there're latinos and whites who do the same. That's a class issue. First of all, most black welfare recipients are single mothers, not brothas. I'm not making excuses for them or the irresponsible men that they choose. But those are your facts bro. Look it up.

For every black kid in the inner city committing crimes I can find you another white kid from the inner city or the trailor parks doing the very same thing. To suggest that blacks are criminally inclined as if that's in our DNA uncovers your naiveness.

Lastly, let me remind you that the majority of those benefitting from public assistance in America are white. However, most do try to be responsible using it. Like you, I know some bums who are duping the system also. But last time I checked, brothas built that White House in D.C. Brothas built many of those buildings you all like to awe over while black women were nursing white kids. So to suggest that we're lazy is absurd. I suggest you get out of your little hole and open that mind of yours. When you do, bring Miranda along with you.

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