From a Turkish Man! What I heard about Polish girls from my friends :)

Oh yes, Thanks :-)

You're saying that a woman should only be physically attractive if shes a prostitute?

No Kilky, obviously I'm saying that if a man is only looking at a woman's arse then he only has one thing in mind. If he's looking for a serious relationship then the other things are important. Aren't they?

Personally I think a physical attraction is just as important as anything else in serious relationship. How can you ever get "close" to someone if you're afraid to touch them?

Maybe its just me I don't know............

Exactly. Who likes mingers? No one thats who.

Why would you be afraid to touch some-one? If there wasn't something attractive about the person, then you wouldn't get to know them in the first place. The point I was making is that meeting a woman shouldn't in my opinion be like ordering something from a catalogue -- colour and size ?!! It should be the whole package - looks, mannerisms, personality etc. That's all. I know we all obviously have preferences like I prefer dark and chunky men for a relationship. But if a man had a great personality and other attributes but was blond and skinny then that wouldn't matter to me - it's everything about the man that matters to me.

JustysiaS


First of all, hello, I'm going to Poland (Lodz) in part of Erasmus Exchange next year for the whole year.

Tbh, I made a search on "Turkish" on these forums and what I find really sad is your orientalistic, stereotyped comments on most of the threads involving Turkey and Turkish males. I don't know what really hurt you too much about Turkish people, but really, you should stop it if you really don't know anything about Turkish males, or girls.

- First of all, you probably heard this before but probably ignored, Turkish people are mostly NOT dark. Guys you are talking about it is of Kurdish race, and sadly, people from Turkey that is living in Europe, is actually % 90 Kurdish. Also, they are mostly devout muslims, and yes, they got some heavy tradition going on about dating and letting their daughters date someone.

- Anyway, I live in Istanbul which as you might know, the most advanced and populated city in Turkey, there are also lots of Kurdish people living here (immigration due to lack of jobs, from SOUTH EAST). But generally, Turkish girls are not like that, you can ask them out, pick them out of a bar or a pub, you can dance with them if you are decent and human enough, you can also have sex with them without any religious problems showing up on the way because Turkish people are not actually very devout, and they are limited in practicing their religion. (Drinking is forbidden in Islam, yet Turkey is one of the most alcohol-consuming countries throughout the world)

- About our interest on Foreign (mostly Slavic, Polish and Russian) girls... Well, like most of the countries, people love what is different from them, at least take interest on those. Speaking for myself, yes, for example, I love the looks of Polish girls, so yes, I hit on them, I ask them for their cell number, I dance with them and I usually get good response in return. But that's not because Turkish girls are not beautiful or they are ridiculously closed to relationships. That's because Polish and European girls mostly look different and beautiful to me. That is basic as that.

Well, I have to say that people behaving like the one that has opened this thread is really damaging our reputation, and yes you are right, there are some ignorant ******** that only cares about sex and yet afraid to contact them in real life. But please, don't conclude these facts on the whole Turkish race or nation. That makes you look equal with him or his kind alike.

Why do you feel a need to explain yourself? Have you ever lived abroad before? Perhaps you should move to any other country that is full of Turks and see what they are like. You would admit Justysia's right.

Ofc I feel the need to explain myself, I'm Turkish, and what she's talking about is pointing to the Turkish people on general. Plus, a little more information on the issue could be of help to you people that clearly doesn't know what the crap they are talking about.

Yeah I lived abroad before, been to Belgium and Germany for a long enough time. I don't know if you are familiar with the immigration issue but there are lots of Turkish CITIZENS living there.

And yes I know she is partially right that's why I wrote this:


Anyways, you wouldn't be asking irrelevant questions if you've read what I wrote more carefully, take care. :)

oh...always when i read such threads i realise how pointless are all discussions like that and how egoistic and "self-oriented" we are..everyone just talks from his/her own perspective and with a specific "life luggage", including education and cultural backgrounds and because of that such topics are never-ending stories and poeple just repeat themselves with the same stereotypes...im not saying im out of it:) my thinking is full of national character features and generalisations. the solution is just try to jump into a "stranger's" head. utopia? yea, sure:) but worth trying. and one thing always work - listening to the others,even if they have not much to say...

well, its late and i read too much these days;P

yeah, the germans on this forum speak highly of turkish immigrants.

You lecherous pervert, go back to mecca and leave our white women alone.

I love the way you always tell it like it is :)

she is quite right on her comments but also seems to have got some experience or a close friend who got this experience to get to know such details about a foreign culture.

Some of them turkish women are good looking we will regard them as white

First of all. Let me tickle myself. ROTFLMAO. hooo! heee!! haaa!!!

Ok, now back to the answer. You make these Turkish guys like they put a rope around these girls, and take them in their bed. You are simply unaware of a few facts, and it tells me how inexperienced you really are.

Those women choose, and I repeat CHOOSE to go with those Turkish guys aka summer love rats. They like to be seduced. They want some fun. They need someone to tell them how beautiful they are. etc etc etc (and which is probably not offered by Polish men).... It all comes to the general female psychology which is not changed since stone age. It is just in your chromosomes. Women are attracted to bad boys not because they are bad but because they are confident, strong, and in their eyes unattainable..You simply can't help it. It is just the way of nature. Just like you can't resist against the desire of having kids. And all of this falls into this so-called Darwinism effect or "survival of the fittest".

You may say that your x girlfriend had bad experience with a Turkish/dark fella. What about your z girlfriend who broke up with say Polish/German/Finnish/<insert citizenship> fella? I bet they didn't breakup with a big-o smile on their faces, did they? I know a couple of Polish girls (aka from your backyard) who had nasty experience with Italian guys.

You might have fooled a naiive girl until you stated, 'unattainable.' Everyone knows that a Turk is so desperate for a white woman that he is liable to do anything. Know enough of that from Greece.

when i looked at this thread i did have a little chuckle to myself, it reminded me of those Turkish guys who entertain our middle aged British women who go to Turkey on holiday to find themselves a toy boy. hahahahahaha, yeah the Turks are really hard to pull if your a woman, well even half a woman.

I will say at this point though that i'm sure these guys don't represent every bloke from Turkey but the word on the street seems to suggest they are a little desperate to bed a lady, well atleast something that has a pulse.

DAM, i'm still trying to remembe the name of the program so i can find a youtube clip to show you all, pppppppppfffffffffffff, it was so funny watching these 18-20 odds falling all over these 40+ women.

hahahahahaha

40+ ha i actually read an article in some paper about teenage and 20something young Turks chasing after British grannies on holidays in their country... They had sex with them and everything ew! I think this just shows the desperation and absolutely no morals or respect for themselves. Why would you ever want to be with one of those men, how do you know where he's been before and whom he had to f*ck and then f*ck over to get to Britian? It makes my skin crawl...

1.this has been going on around the world since the vacation package has been invented, where older, fairly well off women from Western countries interact with the local male population, who is younger.

2. there are also older men going on vacation to Asia and having sex with teenagers/children, which I think is actually worse
Other than that everything is jolly good:)

The problem with Turks is that they believe their own bullsh1t.

Turks and Kurds are two different things. Yes, Kurds can be dark being that almost all of them live in the Middle East in areas such as Iran, Syria, Iraq, Afghanistan, and of course Turkey. But when there are 10 millions to 16 millions Kurds in Turkey and the rest 80 millions are Turks, then Kurds really aren't Turks and nor do they share the same genetic features (as you claim) as the Turks. No offense but your statement forth also misses logic. You claim that the majority of Turks in Europe are Kurds when Kurds aren't Turks. Yes there are Kurds in Europe but are counted differently (by the CIA world factbook and the UN) that Turks in European statistics.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kurdish_people

However, there really aren't many Kurds in Europe like you say. According to the UN World Development Report of 2009 (which was used to give statistics to this wikipedia article). There are around 500,000 in Germany and less that 50,000 in France. Other than that they really aren't "migrated" else where.

Turks on the other hand...en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Turkish_people

Again with the same statistics there are over 2 million in Europe (over 90% are immigrants and a good portion are temporary workers.students/visitors). Apparently the vast majority of those are in Germany with few thousands in Belgium, France, Bulgaria, the UK, and Greece.

I have nothing against either, but I simply wanted to point that out for better understanding. Many people seem to confuse either the races or the statistics.

George8600

thanks for the info there buddy, but i dont think it will convince people to change their outlook on turks in general. from reading these posts, it appears that people either base their resposes from some type of experience with turks (or kurds as you put it), or just from their own general knowledge on the topic. at the end of the day, opinions will stay the same, and a whole lotta forum-bashing will continue.

the topic header is about a turkish bloke who heard something about polish girls from his mates - its interesting to see where this is going........ in any way its a fun read :)