HOW MANY TIMES CAN YOU LOVE IN A LIFETIME? Once, twice or many ...

By quality i mean good men are hard to find:)

Here is a good mantra for us: "I attract only the best of single, sincere, Polish men!"
We could make it an experiment of sorts!
Who can manifest this first?

We mite never get over it but we will learn to live will it,
I suppose its simular to the grieving process. We've lost some one we love but even though their not with us anymore they live on in our hearts and life goes on

Does this make sense?


i'l give it a try if you both will:)

My X-Polish guy used to drink so much with his friends. I don't know who drinks more, Polish or Irish? Do you guys in Ireland have a big Polish community? To answer your question Angel Eyes, I only know a couple of Polish people. My nephew married a Polish girl. She is beautiful and ohhh so very sweet. One of my friend is going out with a Polish man for 12 years but he will not commit to her. I met my Polish guy through them. He is a relative, and then ............... the ATOMIC BOMB exploded!!!!


Thanks guys, I will give it a try too! We are not that happy now, but I'm sure there is a light at the end of the tunnel for us.

Yes we have a really big polish community here.i work with a good few. the women are really nice but i hear them complaining about their native men saying they have their (wive's girlfriend's etc) at home and their women "FRIENDS" here. so some actually have families in both countries.polish and Irish probably drink the same id reckon yea and its a lot but i agree they can seem very sweet gentle creature but as iv learned of late "never judge a book by its cover"

I've read that on another website on Polish culture..that they bond to a woman out of isolation, culture shock, and lonelines when often there is a wife and family in Poland. One more thing to add a degree of difficulty to finding a good guy. Keep chanting that mantra, ladies! :)

i think. . sure, we fall in love more than one time. BUT-tellin about my little experience;) i was in love only twice in my life so far; first time in age 16, it was my first platonic bf:P and im still crazy about him! when i saw him some time ago i was about to freak out;) second appeared to be bastard, but i also get maaaad whenever i at least talk to him.

i think, if we love really, it will never pass. we can split up for different reasons, find another bf, gf, love her/him [not less or more but differently]. but previous loves will stay forever in our mind;)

HOW MANY TIMES CAN YOU LOVE IN A LIFETIME ?

One in my case

1 timers.

As many times as necessary to find compatibility and lifetime happiness.... You can't put a number on this.

only 1? hey men. . u are born to make as much girls as possible pregnant^^ it s in ur nature to change girls! can u explain me this '1'?:P

This isn't the wild uni :)
You should only be getting your partner pregnant. There is a problem with with this in the majority of Latino and black areas. Too many damn starving babies when this happens. Some do it because they don't know better and lack education and some do it for welfare reasons.

In my case I can Fisz. I have only ever been truly in love iwth one person.


Yes I can. Once I met the true love of my life I realised that the feelings I had had for other girls before were not the same. This was and is the real deal !

but the question was how many time CAN you... You don't know for a fact that this will be your only love. You cannot predict the future. We all want to believe that our current love will be our one and only, but reality can be cruel.

True Fisz. I should have read the question!

Interesting. We seem to have some commons here.


It is not the nature of man to change girls. It is a midieval (sp) practice. As humanity evolved, the issue of marriage-sex-love were more and more emphasized... and the conditions are far better than what was a thousand years ago (for woman, man, children and relationships).

If you bring about the point of immorality in the current time... I would like to emphasize that it is far less than what was before. Only it is more publisized now, more attention goes towards it. This only creat more discussions and opinions... and through them comes out better understanding... and through better understanding....a stronger morality is born.

I cannot judge anybody... and I have all respect for every individuals personal affairs. However, for my types perhaps... the heart is a temple, in which only one God exists. This God is the Eternal Glory... and one of its purest rays (one of the rays of the Eternal Glory - Purest Light) is true love. When God is one... love can be only one too...in all its forms.

It is something from me... an explanation of how I feel.

Have a nice day :)...

(by the way...you live in Poland?.... rare to find people who are polish origin, living/working and planning future in Poland here. I dont mind that however.... but just curious. I am a Pole from Poland, and living here by the way :) )...

how many Polish men over the age of 30 do you think are single or capable of getting divorced?..generally they get settled down younger than western nations dont they and divorce is more unlikely? ... or maybe times are changing?

Razz had a good response (right on the first page). It interests me... needs pondering however :)

Yep maybe in this way we do. I just happen to be a few years ahead of you!

Times are only making people feel (or think about) the importance of love and marriage...in their purest form.

You are true...Poles often get married earlier (not early)...but these marriages are not so much prone to break. My parents married relatively early (with respect to west i guess)... and they are together and happy. They were married at 18 and 20. I am 21 now... I have an elder sister (without permission, it is not nice to release her age), the marriage is 30+ years already... and they are only stronger...

My uncles and aunts are married at between 23-27 , all are together and happy... our family is quite closely linked.

LS are you really 21? I dont think it can be possible if your 'older'sister has been married for 30 years.. can it?

It was about my parents... is there a grammatical mistake there?

oh ok.. well sounds like you have a nice close family. you seem much older and wiser than your years

Dunno about that... but just... I am as I am.

I have a friend of a friend who is only mid 20's and he is already father of three children to three different women. Makes me sick and he is boasting to everyone. I would hold my head in his position. I feel sorry for the children, sorry for the mothers but angry that this is all too common. Makes me ashamed to be a man.

Why? ... is he The Man who represents all of us. Get cured.

People like this are living lessons for others :)

To place this in a purely scientific context, I suppose the number of times you can fall in love is related to: how many people you meet that are your type; how successful you are at starting relationships with them; how long these relationships last; and finally how soon you are able to go into the next relationship and thus “wash the overwhelming feelings from the last”. If the answer is high on most counts than you can indeed fall n love a very high number of times… if you have a “problem” with any of these “obstacles” than you will fall in love a much lower number of times.

It's definitely possible to fall in love more than once. It might seem like that one real love is not possible to find again but it does happen and it's more intense the second time. You feel more alive and free with the new person because you've already loved before. You know how not to take it for granted and how to enjoy it more.

Many times , people always want to bumb and grind hahahaha