Well, Marek...it's not about whether or not YOU think it's meaningful, if one person in a relationship feels like they want to tell the other something, even mundane things, generally when you're in love someone you're happy to listen to what they have to say (within reason of course). That's how you build the relationship. Tastes and habits differ...but all the men I know who are and have been in serious relationships talk to their significant other every day or have some kind of live contact with them every day in one way or another. True, some guys just need their space, but, once again, my experience attests to the fact that when guys are really into a relationship, they can't get enough of the girl. Of course, both people need their space sometimes, but Stasha needs to decide if his needs for space are well-suited to her needs. Perhaps it's commitment issues or something else, but Stasha can't change that. Often I think it's just better to move on and let the guy work it out himself. Two years is a long time to go at a snail's pace if you ask me. I had a boyfriend like this, and I think most women have trouble being satisfied with someone who makes them feel as if their man is not that interested, despite being in love.
I never believed in "long distance" relationships. I don't think they are realistic. Not even different states, but different CONTINENTS????!!!!!
(raises hand) I live in Florida and I'm dating a guy from £odź, Poland. I won't see him again until February (14 weeks and counting). It's really hard, but fortunately it's only temporary (until next summer)...and with the technology that's out there like voip and Skype, it's much easier to stay in touch than what you would think. But unfortunately there's no substitute for some things, you can't hold hands with, kiss, or enjoy the company of a computer....