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Racism and Religion in Polish relationships


BialaPolska 1 | 116  
2 Jan 2007 /  #61
No it will not happen. Read the article a few posts back.
Patrycja19 62 | 2,688  
2 Jan 2007 /  #62
That is exactly what i am trying to prevent from happening.

u are a little to late to prevent anyone from having sex. like it or not
if someone likes someone, and they have kids , ya have no say in it.

Culture is something that people follow. traditions, and if someone is polish and
very close to their culture, they will teach this and keep the culture going within
their family. Religion will always be a seperate thing. if someone is catholic and
islamic, they dont become cath-lamic. they either choose islam or catholic.

so your point of a coffee colored world is wrong, there will always be seperate
religions, cancer happens because we are all born with it and although genetics
plays a part in ones family "my mother full polish and died from lymphoma"
and wasnt a mixed pole with other nationalities, its called triggers that make
the cancer active. smoke, environment, asbestos etc. many factors play a key
role in cancer.

you are definately jaded.

cancer in my family of ALL POLISH. starting with my grandmother :stomach cancer
mother : lymphoma, Grandfather Pancreatic, cousins two to be precise also
on same side Pancreatic cancer. all Polish. no mixed blood.
ANOTHER COUSIN- SKIN CANCER . ANOTHER COUSIN BREAST CANCER.

so your theory is just that, a theory with no facts to back it up.
BialaPolska 1 | 116  
2 Jan 2007 /  #63
u are a little to late to prevent anyone from having sex. like it or not
if someone likes someone, and they have kids , ya have no say in it.

I may not have a say in it for one person, but if society deems it absolutely unacceptable without any possibility of acceptance then that is another story.

Culture is something that people follow. traditions, and if someone is polish and
very close to their culture, they will teach this and keep the culture going within
their family. Religion will always be a seperate thing. if someone is catholic and
islamic, they dont become cath-lamic. they either choose islam or catholic.

Remember that Our Religion is part of Our Culture. Our Polish Catholic culture is under attack, the once great Christian Europe is now becoming more and more Muslim, Islam is not part of our culture. The only time Islam was anyway involved in Polish Culture is when we sent our Polish Armies to defend Europe from the Muslim Invaders.

so your point of a coffee colored world is wrong, there will always be seperate
religions, cancer happens because we are all born with it and although genetics
plays a part in ones family "my mother full polish and died from lymphoma"
and wasnt a mixed pole with other nationalities, its called triggers that make
the cancer active. smoke, environment, asbestos etc. many factors play a key
role in cancer.

Of course cancer can happen to anyone, what i said was that for some strange reason, people with mixed races have a higher chance of developing it. I wish i had the article from a magazine i read a while back to prove it to you.

you are definately jaded.

This is a very interesting point, it really proves you right.*sarcasm*

cancer in my family of ALL POLISH. starting with my grandmother :stomach cancer
mother : lymphoma, Grandfather Pancreatic, cousins two to be precise also
on same side Pancreatic cancer. all Polish. no mixed blood.
ANOTHER COUSIN- SKIN CANCER . ANOTHER COUSIN BREAST CANCER.

I said More Likely, i didnt say that it is was impossible, it is not even rare. My Point was MORE LIKELY.

so your theory is just that, a theory with no facts to back it up.

Im gonna go back in time and save that article.
Grzegorz_ 51 | 6,148  
2 Jan 2007 /  #64
No it will not happen. Read the article a few posts back.

The articel except being rather stupid is simply not really about the same issue.
BialaPolska 1 | 116  
2 Jan 2007 /  #65
I do not know why you would call it stupid, but it is about the same issue, you are saying that blacks will evolve in Europe to become white, this article states that is not true at all.
borwnie  
2 Jan 2007 /  #66
Hey all ! Interesting posts ..although I must admit some of em seem racist..or well lets say very 'opinionated'. I am a brownie from india dating a polish gal. We met at a 'name withheld' university in ' country name withheld'. I chanced upon this post while searching for discussions on issues of acceptance into the society. We are not certain if we would end up in india, poland , present coutry or elsewhere. We are both engineers and atleast as of now do not feel tied to any one particular culture, However We are both very proud of our origins , culture and values. In light of what I have read in thois form , id like to say a few things.

He he I must admit that people across the globe have a very mixed view about the indian culture. Needless of saying, we witness atrocious acts committed by men and women in india which has led many to loathe people from there. In my opinion it is inappropriate to label any value, tradition (good or bad) as indian. The roots of our culture and the predominant religion 'hinduism' are extremly liberal and pro-human rights. The history of caste, gender discrimination is atmost a few hunders years old and is perhaps the single biggest aspect of our past which makes us hang ou heads in shame. Ill-treatement of women is a tragic reality in india. However what most people generally fail to notice is that unlike in most european coutnries , there is a stalk difference in attitudes, intellect, values , economic status etc amogst the people in india.

Most of these henious acts are committed by people disillusioned by the brutally hard life they are forced to live thanks to our corrupt government. I would urge you people, the ones who are taking time out of their life to discuss culture , religion and race , not to view a person of indian origin as an indian summarily, but for what she/he is and add the 'indian' tag to it. We are not all gandhi, vinod khosla (sun), c.v,ram or brutal wife killers, sex-hungry lunatics, job stealing computer programmers. ( well i am a job stealing computer programmer..sorry mates , just decided to stay here for a while). I am sure some of u are going ' du-huh ! we all view people as individuals before we seem them as polish, chinese or nicraguan' , despites that I would insist once more ...coz its very easy to think all indians are the same.

On the issue of keeping men and women of a country for themselves....I totally get your point. I would urge the same , if only i hadnt met my present girlfriend whom I happen to fall head over heels for. Preserving national and cultural identity is a strong issue in india as well. The fat old men and women ( possibly including my folks) are afaraid of the fact the young of our nation might loose their roots and identity and trade it for off the shelf american music and liberal european view on sexuality, in short western big city culture. These folks are also largely mis-informed about the values of the western society. I deciced to leave india for a while in order to get away from these hypocrisies , hoping folks in the west were better 'informed'. However I realize that the mis-undesratnding is mutual. I realize that my rambling on this forum doesnt do much good, but i do sincerely hope some of u would start to view people more indivually in steaded judging them on your mis-informed view of a particular nationality.

PS: Hehe yes most indian men including me have willies smaller than our european counterparts coz they were made for correspondingly sized women and unfortunately not many of us are experts in kamasutra either ...and i find it abolutely hilarious that someone from india would contest that. So i guess atleast that would ensure our respective countrieswe will keep most of our men and women for ourselves .:).
ukpolish  
2 Jan 2007 /  #67
Quoting: uk_, Post #57
Someone i meet in Subway was telling me that in poland racism in very common.

They told you the truth.

It seems like you are quite proud to say that polish people are racist. If we are racist thats a big shame of ours not a matter to be proud of. Honestly speaking i was a bit racisst minded when i first came to UK. Because wherever i went i saw people of mixed race. Black or brown people are working in quite high position. before i come in uk i didnt know anything about black or brown people. just seen them on TV that they die in hunger they die in natural disasters. It was quite surprising for me to see some of them being the boss of white people.

Our(polish) mentality is not developed enough to think human being are equal.
they have got the same brain as you and same blood as you.
if you like separating people so much may be english people think that this polish bastards shouldnt be in this country. or may be manchester people will think london guys are stupids or may be london people think manchester people are idiots. You are more narrow minded you will think south london people are not good or east london people are not good.

Thus we make our world so small. One day white people has gone to Australia, New zeland, America and has destroyed original tribals nationality. May be tommorow the world will be ruled by Black or brown skinned people. IN america within four years whites will be the minority. But it still will be the richest, strongest, and one of the most cevelized countries in the world. This is a cold and slow process something that can not be stopped. And you should not try to.

War is natural and will never stop no matter what.

No this is not true. War is not natural. There was a time when boys were born to be soldiers and to fight the enemies. Girls duty was to give birth strong boys who can fight for their nation.

But now atleast everyone dont born to fight. Some of them born to be scientist, doctors, Engineers, and to do constructive and good things for future of human being. The more cevilized we are the less war is going to happen.

pardone me for being long and for my poor English.
BialaPolska 1 | 116  
2 Jan 2007 /  #68
Our(polish) mentality is not developed enough to think human being are equal.

No it is because we are smart enough to know that we are different. I will not say better, but we are definetely different.

if you like separating people so much may be english people think that this polish bastards shouldnt be in this country

Polish People belong in Poland.

or may be manchester people will think london guys are stupids or may be london people think manchester people are idiots.

They have no biological differences. And no Cultural ones.

You are more narrow minded you will think south london people are not good or east london people are not good.

Same People.

One day white people has gone to Australia, New zeland, America and has destroyed original tribals nationality.

Yes they have, and they shouldnt have.

May be tommorow the world will be ruled by Black or brown skinned people. IN america within four years whites will be the minority. But it still will be the richest, strongest, and one of the most cevelized countries in the world.

Yes whites will be a minority but it will NOT be a great civilized nation. It will become a horrible third world craphole.

This is a cold and slow process something that can not be stopped. And you should not try to.

I will do my best to stop it, for the sake of Future Generations.

War is not natural.

The more cevilized we are the less war is going to happen.

America and Great Britain have always been the most civilized nations of the last 2 centuries. They have been in plenty wars. And people not getting along is not natural and will happen forever for any reason they can think of.

pardone me for being long and for my poor English.

Nothing is wrong with long reponses, and your English is pretty good.
uk_ 8 | 85  
2 Jan 2007 /  #69
It was quite surprising for me to see some of them being the boss of white people.
Our(polish) mentality is not developed enough to think human being are equal.
they have got the same brain as you and same blood as you.

i agree with you...
BialaPolska 1 | 116  
2 Jan 2007 /  #70
You agree with inaccurate information.
uk_ 8 | 85  
2 Jan 2007 /  #71
What i mean..."Our(polish) mentality is not developed enough to think human being are equal"
BialaPolska 1 | 116  
2 Jan 2007 /  #72
Thats like calling us stupid.
uk_ 8 | 85  
2 Jan 2007 /  #73
That's wht most poles think. I don't think you guys are stupid but the truth is in poland its common to move away or avoid someone if he/she is black or brown.
BialaPolska 1 | 116  
2 Jan 2007 /  #74
I agree that we are "racist", and i am proud of that fact. I ment saying that "our mentality is not developed" is like saying "these retards are so primitive". I think we are so smart, that we know that these people are not equal to us, if they were equal to us they would look like us.
Matyjasz 2 | 1,544  
3 Jan 2007 /  #75
uk_ and BialaPolska, you make lovely couple. :)
bossie 1 | 123  
3 Jan 2007 /  #77
LOL

BP, I don't reaaly think you can have a sense of humour. You just recite what somebody told you or perhaps what you read and what your parents, friends ect. agree with.

Well, I have news for you. The world is bigger than your parents, friends and what you absorb form the outside, as your absorbtion is very selective.

I respect what you believe, you have all the right to choose a wife for you, for whatever reasons you may have. At the same time however, I and everyone else on this planet, has his/her free will to chose their partners and just like you won't listen to them (to put it simple for you) they won't listen to you.

I wish you a happy existence. They say lack of knowledge is happiness.
BialaPolska 1 | 116  
3 Jan 2007 /  #78
BP, I don't reaaly think you can have a sense of humour.

Dont worry, i do have one.

You just recite what somebody told you or perhaps what you read and what your parents, friends ect. agree with.

You dont "recite" things you have studied and concluded?

Well, I have news for you. The world is bigger than your parents, friends and what you absorb form the outside, as your absorbtion is very selective.

This makes no sense, where else can i absorb things from? If not from people around me and "outside".

I respect what you believe, you have all the right to choose a wife for you, for whatever reasons you may have.

Thank You

At the same time however, I and everyone else on this planet, has his/her free will to chose their partners and just like you won't listen to them (to put it simple for you) they won't listen to you.

Yes that is true, there are a lot of ignorant people around here, no matter how many facts i hit them with, they will just continue to beleive that race doesnt exist and that there is no point in protecting our culture.

They say lack of knowledge is happiness.

This is true, i have studied so much and now i fear the destruction of my Culture, i will never be happy. But you and others here will be ignorant to the destruction of our culture and you will live on with a big smile on your face.
1234  
3 Jan 2007 /  #79
You must be a angry polish man who cant get any english girls or even polish.

ukpolish are you suggesting, through the use of the word "even," that Polish girls are lower than english girls? Maybe you have some problem with your own self esteem. Your use of the word "even" suggests that you think polish people are lower than english. Maybe thats why you are looking for some non-polish guy.
ola123  
3 Jan 2007 /  #80
I agree that we are "racist", and i am proud of that fact. I ment saying that "our mentality is not developed" is like saying "these retards are so primitive". I think we are so smart, that we know that these people are not equal to us, if they were equal to us they would look like us.

One of the dumbiest post EVER :) (if you are serious)
BialaPolska 1 | 116  
3 Jan 2007 /  #81
I was just giving an example of the most noticable difference of the races.
ola123  
3 Jan 2007 /  #82
Hitler had very similar vievs on things like you. But he was saying about differences between us and them, we were "untermenschen" only able to serve them and straight to fire in queue just after Jews.

Have that in your mind speaking about other races.
BialaPolska 1 | 116  
3 Jan 2007 /  #83
Hitler had very similar vievs on things like you. But he was saying about differences between us and them, we were "untermenschen" only able to serve them and straight to fire in queue just after Jews

Yes he was a very bad man.

Have that in your mind speaking about other races.

I am not saying they are inferior, i am saying that they are obviously different, do not deny that they are different.
ola123  
3 Jan 2007 /  #84
I am not saying they are inferior

Really?

I think we are so smart, that we know that these people are not equal to us

BialaPolska 1 | 116  
3 Jan 2007 /  #85
Yes, they are not equal to us, i say it in a broad sense, as in they can be anything to us, but not equal. They can be smarter, dumber, fatter, darker, lighter, ANYTHING. but not like us.
ola123  
3 Jan 2007 /  #86
I think equal is the wrong word. You should say different. When you use "not equal" its like you say that one is inferior.
BialaPolska 1 | 116  
3 Jan 2007 /  #87
If you think about it Not Equal and different are the same thing. But i see your point.
ola123  
3 Jan 2007 /  #88
So if you replace "not equal" with "different" in the initial post I laughed off it makes more sense.

Although looking at your nickname I have still my doubts towards you :).
BialaPolska 1 | 116  
3 Jan 2007 /  #89
Although looking at your nickname I have still my doubts towards you

Poland should be the way my nickname says. But not because everyone else is inferior, but because it is POLAND it should be for people who are POLISH. To be POLISH you must have far reaching Polish Ancestry.
ola123  
3 Jan 2007 /  #90
:) Again!!! You made me laugh but I have no strenght to discuss with you this time.

Nite.

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