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Racism and Religion in Polish relationships


BialaPolska 1 | 116  
3 Jan 2007 /  #91
Again!!! You made me laugh but I have no strenght to discuss with you this time

I am not joking, Dobranoc.
ukpolish  
4 Jan 2007 /  #92
ukpolish are you suggesting, through the use of the word "even," that Polish girls are lower than english girls?

I dont mean Polish girls are lower than English girls. In some cases they are smarter and more intellegent than English girls. But It is true that in England english girls dont tend to go out with someone who doesnt speak English and obviously not Polish man.

See the topic "why polish man are so ugly" and see how many posts are there and how many people agree with that. I dont completely agree with that. There are some dirty polish boys. But there are some good looking handsome polish man as well. And by the word even i mean to say in England for a polish man its easier to find a polish girl.

Your use of the word "even" suggests that you think polish people are lower than english

No way, we may be poorer than English but definitly not lower than English. we are more educated, more civilized, more polite nation. Atleast in poland not too many people start smoking weed at the age of 11. They dont dress up like a chav. I just cant stand those girls wearing trackshuit and baseball cap and swearing like a *****. Their every single sentence consists of ****.
1234  
4 Jan 2007 /  #93
See the topic "why polish man are so ugly" and see how many posts are there and how many people agree with that.

There must be alot of Polish Peasants in the UK. The Polish guys here in the US always pull the best girls.

Anyway, most of those posts are by dudes that can't get polish girls becuase all the polish guys have taken them.

I have been to London. English guys were not exactly big competition for me.

Anyway, UKpolish you should find yourself a nice polish guy. Polish girls are very naive about these middle-eastern dudes. It usually doesn't turn out well in my experience. I think many girls just choose to ignore it.
ukpolish  
4 Jan 2007 /  #94
I personally dont like middle eastern boys. my boyfriend is not middle eastern he is bangladeshi. its normal for him as well to get pressure from his family and friends to choose a bangladeshi girl. but me and him are now togather and nothing can split us up. not you , not our race, not our religion, not our family.

i dont like middle eastern boys this doesnt mean that i hate them. i respect them their religion just never thought my boyfriend would be middleeatern.
dsad  
4 Jan 2007 /  #95
Ukpolish,

Bangladehis are muslims... In my experience they act nice to western women to get them, but underneath harbor sexict attitudes. This comes out when they get drunk and talk to other guys about women.

I have many middleeastern friends. Nice guys to me, but I see how they lie to girls. I can't say I would want them dating my sister.

I guess you can say I am generalizing, but I have not met any dudes from that area who are tolerant. I am sure your guy is completely different then all the other dudes I have met.
BialaPolska 1 | 116  
4 Jan 2007 /  #96
I can't say I would want them dating my sister.

Me neither
dsad  
4 Jan 2007 /  #97
but me and him are now togather and nothing can split us up. not you , not our race, not our religion, not our family.

Hold the drama sister. Yes I am sure your Bangladeshi boyfriend says the same thing. He is a man, like me, and is probably thinking with a different organ than his heart or brain. If you know what I mean. Ask his parents about marriage and I am sure you will get a completely different opinion. Good luck.
ukpolish  
4 Jan 2007 /  #98
This is not a drama this is reality. you are wrong my boyfriend never said that to me. He didnt had to coz if someone really feels about you he cant hide that it comes out. And its true that he did not promise me to marry but we both want to take some time before marriage. He doesnt live with his family. My boyfriend is an athiest not a muslim. The English family he lives with over three years, all his friends in local area including English, polish, spanish, bengali, indian they all know what kind of person he is. I spoken to his friends and relatives in America, Malaysia, Singapore, Australia, Newzealand, Bangladesh and S. Korea. Everyone loves him. This many people cant be wrong no way. You may say he is making me fool. But what about the others. Do you want to say he is making fool all these people and you are the cleverest guy who understand whats inside him without talking to him.

I will be the luckiest girl if he marries me.
Normally when english couple breaks up the girl says the guy is a wanker. but his ex girlfriend who is an english still loves him. And they are still friends.

I think you should judge everyone individually not by where he comes from.
he is very practical and never says anything he doesnt mean and never says anything you can say drama. Its me who says these things.

And talking back on girls is all boys habit including you. most boys do it some does nasty comment about girls. only some boys dont and he is one of them. even when he is drunk he never say anything nasty about me or other girls.

Bangladehis are muslims... In my experience they act nice to western women to get them, but underneath harbor sexict attitudes

He is nice not only to western girls he is nice to his family to my family his host family, boys, friends, even to the people who he doesnt even know.

Bangladehis are muslims

No so far i know there are christians, hindus, budhists, tribals, athiest majority is muslim though. He went to a catholic run School which is named St joseph high school and college. Most of the directors of that school is american catholic. Some of them living there for 34 years they love Bangladesh. you can do google on it.

I appreciate your concern. But dont worry brother i shall be ok. Because i am sure that he loves me.

://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/St._Joseph_Higher_Secondary_School_(Dhaka)
bossie 1 | 123  
4 Jan 2007 /  #99
no matter how many facts i hit them with, they will just continue to beleive that race doesnt exist and that there is no point in protecting our culture

Wrong again. People DO recognise the existence of different races. And people do know that cultures exist and should be protected. What you don't seem to understand is that race and culture/nationality are diffrent things.

Let me give you an example. Look at Italy. There is undoubtedly a strong Italian tradition and culture. But look at its people: in the north they're blond and blue-eyed. In the south they're dark-skinned, brown-eyed and black-haired. Still they belong to the same culture, speak the same language, watch the same Italian movies, eat the same Italian food ect.

Got it?

Technical correction:

the quotation above is from BialaPolska's post 82.
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
4 Jan 2007 /  #100
At the end of the day its all down to preference what one person likes another may not...easy really....if we all liked the same how boring would life be!
BialaPolska 1 | 116  
4 Jan 2007 /  #101
Let me give you an example. Look at Italy. There is undoubtedly a strong Italian tradition and culture. But look at its people: in the north they're blond and blue-eyed. In the south they're dark-skinned, brown-eyed and black-haired. Still they belong to the same culture, speak the same language, watch the same Italian movies, eat the same Italian food ect.

The Southern Italians, especially Sicilians are mixed with the Africans from Africa. And you are right that they still have Italian CUlture NOW. But im not talking about NOW. If you look at the Italians in America, many of them have stopped beign Italian and have been influenced by the Melting Pot of cultures and now are American Multicultural wankers. And the kids of these people are now all Wiggers, embracing the culture of blacks.
bossie 1 | 123  
4 Jan 2007 /  #102
If you look at the Italians in America, many of them have stopped beign Italian and have been influenced by the Melting Pot of cultures and now are American Multicultural wankers. And the kids of these people are now all Wiggers, embracing the culture of blacks.

Oh, now that you have nothing else to say you start insulting people? If you want to convince anybody, or at least to listen to you, stick to facts, will you? Otherwise you'll turn into a fighting screaming insulting person not worth discussing with. Discussion, a civilised discussion, that's what forum is about, isn't it?
BialaPolska 1 | 116  
4 Jan 2007 /  #103
Oh, now that you have nothing else to say you start insulting people?

I use wankers to mean people, sorry if i caused misunderstanding.

If you want to convince anybody, or at least to listen to you, stick to facts, will you?

I am sticking to the facts.

Discussion, a civilised discussion, that's what forum is about, isn't it?

Yes it is, i apologize for creating this misunderstanding.
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
4 Jan 2007 /  #104
The Southern Italians, especially Sicilians are mixed with the Africans from Africa

not true, you have been watching too many tarenteeno movies ya fool...
BialaPolska 1 | 116  
4 Jan 2007 /  #105
you have been watching too many tarenteeno movies ya fool

Not a single one in my life
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
4 Jan 2007 /  #106
I'll elaborate on my above comment, it was more likely that the Moors invaded and they were in fact more Arab looking and not in fact black!

which would explain the olive skin and dark hair
BialaPolska 1 | 116  
4 Jan 2007 /  #107
I'll elaborate on my above comment, it was more likely that the Moors invaded and they were in fact more Arab looking and not in fact black!

If you take a look at a map you will see Sicilies proximity to Tunisia and ALgeria which are Black States. The Eastern parts of The Byzantine empire were invaded by the Saracen muslims.
bossie 1 | 123  
4 Jan 2007 /  #108
The Southern Italians, especially Sicilians are mixed with the Africans from Africa. And you are right that they still have Italian CUlture NOW. But im not talking about NOW. If you look at the Italians in America...

My point is that race is one thing and culture is another. Yes, southeners are darker due to past immigration but at the same time even you say they're Italians.

And then you say that they're Italians now and as a contradiction you bring a different PLACE not a different TIME. Italians in Italy feel, eat, behave and speak Italian. Emigrants from Italy is a different case. In general immigrant absorb the culture of the host country but at the same time keep some of theirs and can clearly tell what's what. As long as there are Italians in Italy, Italian culture will exist. As long as people travel, all cultures will evolve and be enriched by immigrants. Like Queen Bona who brought vegetables to Poland. Or Spaniards who brought potatoes from Peru. Where would Polish soups be without them? If you give it a deeper thought and see things in a broader perspective, such evolution is good.

By the way, did you know that tomatoes were brought form Americas? That before Columbus there was no tomatoe sauce in Italy? Evolution of culture is a good thing :)
BialaPolska 1 | 116  
4 Jan 2007 /  #109
And then you say that they're Italians now and as a contradiction you bring a different PLACE not a different TIME. Italians in Italy feel, eat, behave and speak Italian.

Yes they do, and i would like to keep it that way, but overtime this will all change.

In general immigrant absorb the culture of the host country but at the same time keep some of theirs and can clearly tell what's what.

That is just wrong, if immagrants absorbed culture then the mexicans in America would speak English, and the Poles in England would to. And if they slept with a black guy there kids would completely stop caring about their culture.

As long as there are Italians in Italy, Italian culture will exist

What happens when italy becomes 85% black?

As long as people travel, all cultures will evolve and be enriched by immigrants. Like Queen Bona who brought vegetables to Poland. Or Spaniards who brought potatoes from Peru. Where would Polish soups be without them? If you give it a deeper thought and see things in a broader perspective, such evolution is good.
By the way, did you know that tomatoes were brought form Americas? That before Columbus there was no tomatoe sauce in Italy? Evolution of culture is a good thing

Yes EVOLUTION is good, but when a culture dies out, then it is a whole different story.
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
4 Jan 2007 /  #110
You always bring sence to the form Ms B and for that I thank you :) He really shouldnt mess with an inteligent lady such as yourself! And yes we should be thankful that our ancestors travelled and brought many things back home.
bossie 1 | 123  
4 Jan 2007 /  #111
That is just wrong, if immagrants absorbed culture then the mexicans in America would speak English, and the Poles in England would to. And if they slept with a black guy there kids would completely stop caring about their culture.

Do you live in the US? I guess so. Do you speak English? I assume you don't have anyone there translating everything you say all the time. Now, do your parents speak English? Or is it that in general the first generation has it hardest? Then, do Latins of the second generation speak English? Do they go to US schools, learn American history, English language, make friends with locals and therefore learn American culture. At the same time at home they speak Spanish, eat what their family has always eaten, celebrate Christmas, Easter and other holidays the way they would if they were home? Don't you have Polish Christmas? Celebrate namesday? Go to church every Sunday?

What happens when italy becomes 85% black?

Perhaps you should answer this question. Is culture about race or about tradition, history, feelings?
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
4 Jan 2007 /  #112
Bossie, he is obviously not very well travelled and has a hell of a lot to learn about life

That is just wrong, if immagrants absorbed culture then the mexicans in America would speak English, and the Poles in England would to. And if they slept with a black guy there kids would completely stop caring about their culture.

I live in England and I would say 99% of Polish people speak English, they have to get by!
BialaPolska 1 | 116  
4 Jan 2007 /  #113
Do you live in the US? I guess so. Do you speak English? I assume you don't have anyone there translating everything you say all the time.

Yes i do

Now, do your parents speak English? Or is it that in general the first generation has it hardest?

Very little after many years.

Then, do Latins of the second generation speak English? Do they go to US schools, learn American history, English language, make friends with locals and therefore learn American culture.

Yes, they do but they are not American at all, they do not conform to any culture, they dont care, most speak their own language. The Hispanics are making sure their culture doesnt die, we are not doing the same.

At the same time at home they speak Spanish, eat what their family has always eaten, celebrate Christmas, Easter and other holidays the way they would if they were home?

Yes, the Hispanics are defending their culture now and will do so in another 5 generations in America. I can safely say that if i stay in America, 5 Generations of my kids wont give a crap about Poland.

Don't you have Polish Christmas? Celebrate namesday? Go to church every Sunday?

Yes I do, but like i said above, a few generations and it goes down the hole.

Perhaps you should answer this question. Is culture about race or about tradition, history, feelings?

Its about BOTH, Everyone has their own culture, and if one person mixed with another person from another culture, will they celebrate everything from each culture? And lets say they do, and their kids do the same with mroe Cultures, 5 generations and they have 64 cultures they have to protect, at that point they would have given up already.

And when immagrants come from Africa they will not become Italian, they will mate with Italian girls though and create offspring who might care about their Italian culture, and then this Halfie offspring mates with another Black and BAM cultures dead.

Bossie, he is obviously not very well travelled and has a hell of a lot to learn about life

Dont assume things like this. You didnt read my autobiography.

I live in England and I would say 99% of Polish people speak English, they have to get by!

I know a lot of brits who would say otherwise.
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
4 Jan 2007 /  #114
Dont assume things like this. You didnt read my autobiography.

Your attitude displays this though, please prove me wrong, or maybe its just your age

I know a lot of brits who would say otherwise.

I would like names and addresses of these liars!
BialaPolska 1 | 116  
4 Jan 2007 /  #115
I would like names and addresses of these liars!

stormfront/forum/forumdisplay.php/stormfront-britain-39.html

These guys here do nothing but Bash Poles, stay in the Britain section, everywhere is pretty accepting of them.

And their are a lot of trolls who roll onto the website we are on right now that do nothing but insult poles.
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
4 Jan 2007 /  #116
I'll have a look, Im a pro BTW
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
4 Jan 2007 /  #118
OMG, it looks like a really racist site, I have my veiws but people who accept the BNP are lowest of the low...I think I may have a little bit of fun on this forum!!!!!
BialaPolska 1 | 116  
4 Jan 2007 /  #119
The forum is heavily moderated, you wont accomplish anything, dont even waste your time. You will be sent to the Anti section, which is basically where people like you get your butts beat by proffesional debators who know the facts about whats going on in the world. They will teach you something about race.
Amathyst 19 | 2,702  
4 Jan 2007 /  #120
Bia, give me something really rude to post in Polish...I mean really insulting...lol

Honey, I come from a family that are well educated and well up on current afairs....I can hold my own...my eldest brother has a degree in Politics and Economics well thats one of his degrees...lol

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