Broken Heart, An amazing girl from Poland

Yes, because then they won't choose their mum over you - best of both worlds! :)


It's served in a glass with a metal holder around it :D

With a "lemon twist", like that gay guy in Beverly Hills Cop did his espresso LOL

Funny thing about regret, it's better to regret something you did then something you didn't do...

you're a dummy to let your feeling go there since this lady will never be yours and there was really never a chance for it anyway. now, go have a pint or 15.

There was a comment here about getting a good English girl... to the heart broken stranger.

But I think, its the girl who should worry about her life ahead. A girl with such kind of sense of honesty will only find more trouble in future life.

Be it a girl or a boy ... a good family life depends on alot of things... including the dignity one gives to oneself.

So much more than that is love ... and people sell it so cheaply in return of a little fun/lust/one interesting moment. Maybe not realizing what they loose ... maybe not knowing the value ... another reason could be that they never have seen it. Maybe they found their family members of same kind ... so didnt get to learn the value of honesty and love ... and commitment.

As said, if you want you can try to find her in some of the popular internet communities in PL.

^^ i don't agree.. this guy needs to move on instead of being encouraged to continue chasing a married woman with a child. that's just effed up.

I agree. (Wow, who would've thought?)

:)

I agree as well + she's got his phone number so if she wanted to she'd have called him, or maybe she will once she sorts her problems out...

I actually hope she sorts her problems out and ends up growing old with her husband, she was probably lonely in a foreign country.


My ex brought his mum to the pictures with us once - I liked her but it would have been nice had she been in a foreign country LOL...

I don't think she was lonely, from what I understood she came to UK just for a while - to get money to pay off a loan, so from the very beginning it was clear that she was going to go back home.

lol.. don't be shocked.. i know i come across as an arse on here.. but realities are realities and honesty to one self is paramount..


exactly but he really shouldn't think that either.. he shouldn't wait around for her or whatever.. he shouldn't be wasting his feeling on this at this point.


me too.


just because she was there temporarily doesn't mean she wasn't lonely.

yes of course, but it's different when you know that you will go back in 1 month for example and when you don't know how long you will stay abroad.

I would like to add that she was not married and was in a unhappy relationship that she was going to end when she got back home. So she told me. She could have been telling porkies, guess I will never know.

It does not change anything anyway, but if she was in a happy relationship I would have stayed away full stop.

I am going to just try and move on.....

you ought to just assume that.

yes, you should do that - time heals all wounds. A good thing to do is to change something in your life, start something new - this diverts one's attention from the past and makes you concentrate on the future.

Anyway, I'm very touched by your story I wish you get over it quickly!!!!
How long did you know each other?

me too.. it sucks to have the blues.

Never had the blues like this for long time! I have met a few Polish women and I have always liked them. Yeah, there are some nice English girls but to me there is a difference. This one was different. Only knew her about 5 weeks, Pathetic I know. We had a connection, I feel like a mug.

Explain?

no it's not pathetic, it can happen to anyone. Once you had a connection with someone and you lost it you fear that you will never feel the same about anybody but it's not true. I'm sure it will be OK for you soon, you sound like a nice guy, just give it some time...

Shelley

I can't really explain, I just find Polish women nicer. I don't mean to offend by the way.

Not pathetic; just normal. Typical for first stage of love: Porneia (from the Greek ‘pornê’ or ‘fornication’) Love consumes all and leaves you as passive and dependent as a baby at its mother’s breast – you wait for the other to feed you. Recognising this ‘baby’ within allows us to pass to a more adult love, and live life to the full.

could just = lust

what kind of connection?


If you had any connection, and you gave her your number then she would had called you.
But you mentioned that she didn't called you since you last seen her, so she probaby doen't feel connected with you.

It sounds like you're romanticizing her, not seeing her for who she really is. She had a boyfriend back home but she allowed a connection to happen between you behind his back. After 5 weeks with you, she left and hasn't bothered to call you even though she has your number and she knows where you live or work. How does that make her special? I don't think anyone is going to believe that she's a nice person that's worth missing.

I disagree. She flirted but didn't cross the line. And made no promises. He needs to cherish the memories but move on. Although that coffee (which is called kawa po turecku - Turkish style coffee) is one of the worst things to drink in Poland :)

that's basically crossing the line.. after all she has a boy and a kid back in PL.

No it's not.. she was just being nice to him. Don't be a cynical clown all the time.

only when you are 12 yo! And what having a child has to do with anything?

so you'd be totally cool with your g/f or wife flirting with strangers or worse with guys she knows?

She was not married and just nice to him. Nothing wrong with that.