Are you in a Polish-nonPolish relationship?

I am Polish and was married to a Non Polish woman (Norweigian mix). I am currently divorced and would like to meet a Polish woman. We would have something in common right away. LOL

I have seen the Russian Singles websites and ask myself, Why would I do that when there are so many nice Polish women.

Jim, I think you're around my age and I'm single too. :) lol

Well, there you go!!!

:) This is fun.

We wouldn't be here if it wasn't.

Gosh, I'm doing my usual weekend chores, laundry, :)shopping etc, and constanly checking in my computer. This is insane. I need a life. :)

There is no life after you join this forum:)
I know - it's called addiction and we are all in it together:)
On the other hand I have seen worse.

Oh, Miranda. That's NOT helping :)

I am, but I don’t define our relationship as a Polish Vs Non-Polish relationship, more as only a relationship- there are a few differences in culture, and certainly a few mistakes due to communication, but beyond that it’s all good, would have been worse if I’d had a ‘relationship’ with a Martian I suppose.

I had a half polish girlfriend. But I ended up becomeing attracted to her mother (full polish) so I dropped that one and fast. Mainly because her mom was divorced and was really easy about bending over in small shorts around me.

recipe for disaster.

sounds romantic....:)

I am in a 3 year relationship with a Polish girl and am to the point of breaking it off, not because of where she's from, but just because of personal differences. I have met another Polish girl who I am infatuated with and have taken out once but can't tell if the feeling is mutual. My impression is that Polish women are very guarded about there feelings in situations like this. I am going crazy...

it won't work, unless you compromise. accept something from his religion, he can accept something from yours.
If two people deeply love each other, f**ck the religion, don't let that stand in the way of your happiness, because love is more important then the "man-made" religion, which is the cause for wars in the first place.

"Jesteś moim największym szcześciem" - You're my greatest happiness
"Mój Jeden Jedyny" - My One and Only
"Dla Ciebie wszystko" - everything for you
"Tylko Ty dla mnie istniejesz" - only you exist for me

I didn't mean to be so grafic in my earlier reply, because some people are very religious and I didn't mean to refer to it that way. But if a person follows his heart, is moral, does what is right then take the best out of these religions, combine them into one belief which you both agree upon. You both believe in God, a higher being, then try to find similarities there. Even the catholic religion differs in their beliefs. I was brought up Polish Catholic, my "X" American Catholic, and believe it or not, there are many differences between these two.

So just take the best out of both of these religions and go from there, because it is your life, your love and no one should tell you what you should do, as long as you know it is morally right and love is the most important thing in life.

i was in a polish relationship and i fell head over heels for this girl,things were great for months until she went home,she came back a different person..we had a messy breakup because i thought the worst,when really it was the language difference that ended it for us...she said she thought about our future and that her family dont speak any english,and she was worried she wouldnt be able to talk to my family correctly,all in all we are still friends and it hurts knowing that the women i love can never really and truly be mine purely on the way we talk,we communicate fine with each other,its other factors that cause the problems...who needs words when two hearts beat the same??? i love polish women,well one in particular...just wish she wouldnt have given up on us,stick at it..love will prevail.......in your cases i hope...........urszula kocham cie kochanie x x x

I have bin doing ze travelink in ze Poland and have bin very excited by ze Polski girls. Invfact I vhave bitten over 16 since last month. Za's gut goink.

We have muslim minority, about 25 000 Polish Tatars, since XIV century. and there was no any religious or ethnic conflicts. Specialy in XVII century Tatars were very respected, and many families were nobeled by our kings. The reason was simple. XVII century was the period of wars in Poland, specially against Turkey. Tatars were muslims, but they were Polish citizens and patriots too. So they fought to protect Poland from other muslims. After 1990 many people from caucasian former Soviet repablics (specialy Chechens) are coming to Poland, so there is more muslims, but the main-imam of Poland is Tatar.

I'm of Tatarian Ancenstry. My clan was Almak-han, which later got changed to Almakiewicz. And it's true what you say about the Tatars. We're catholic and very patriotic but no muslim in me.

I'm in a Polish-Asian relationship, I'm Polish, he's Asian.. well, Filipino, which is more Hispanic...

Sorry to hear that, Lee.. we had the whole communication problem... I can't speak Filipino and he can't speak Polish.. needless to say our wedding sounded interesting :) I'm learning Filipino though, and I'm teaching him phrases in Polish. It's fun.

Good luck with all your relationships :)

Krysia, how in the heck did you find out all that?

oops, wanted to say, I cant even get past half of some of my ancestry, but
anyway, that is pretty amazing what all you know about your family.

Great to hear :) My friend's name is Aleksandrowicz and it's Tatarian too. 50% of Polish Tatars converted to Catholic Church specially in late XVII century. They were so brave, that king Jan Kazimierz nolbilited many Tatarian families.

Tatars were very respected specialy by king Jan Sobieski.
First wave of Tatars came to Poland in XIII, but the stabil colonisation we have since 1409. Tatars (under chief Gelal ed Din) helped us to fight against Teutonic Orden. Under Grunwald (15 VIII 1410) they reided first to fight, what saved Polish haevy cavalry from German artyllery. Tatars asimilated very fast. In one Tatarian letter to king Zygmunt I Waza from 1519. we are reading: "We promissed to love you, we did with sabels in our hands..., ...you said: this sand, this water, this trees belong to us too..., ... in Crymea and Kipchak (=Tatarian homeland) they know very well - we are not strangers here..".

There was always 6 Tatarian "Banners" (=regiment) in Polish army. Every tribe had it's own regiment. They served as cavalrymen, had to buy their own horses and weapon, but were free from taxes. It was normal in XVII c.

Fighting for Poland they fought against Russians, Swedes, Germans and... other Tatars.
One time Tatars from Ukraine, who assulted Poland tried to convince our Tatars to join them. Polish Tatars answered: " Not the God, nor the Prophet ordered you to mord and plunder. Killing you - we are killing morders, not our brothers".

In the battle at Parkany (agains Turkey) one of Tatarian colonels, Samuel Mur Keczowski, saved the life of king Jan III Sobieski.

Alright how do you find out which clan you belong to?

what sources do I need to read, cause i am gonna read till my eyes fall out!!

well... polish women are preety enough... and are more virtuous than almost all women found in europe...that is what i strongly belief.

yes, maybe that their physical appearence is not like pamela andersons....who whose are?....and do you really want a pamela anderson in your life?... look into usa ... why in poland?

I have heard this before that Polish men look like gorilla (me being a polish man myself)...and women look more maculine and stronger than other places...

1. Its prejudiced comment
2. All races have beautiful and average ppl
3. Even if we are like that... we are very happy with what we are....

Usually these comments come from latino and other europeans (no hard feelings... just i came across a few from that place with comments such as these, and many people of that place are very good too)...and for them i say... Go look for what suits you somewhere else then!...

anyways... if you are talking about such pole-nonpole relationships....than i have started a small on....with a Japanese girl....seems very good... lets see what happens.

This is an ordinary generalisation and I must disagree with you. Latins are like Europeans, they live on two huge continents and their attitudes vary. Chileans are different from Venezuelans like Nordics from Italians. You can't put them all in one basket.

Naturally some people are more single-minded than others and focus on the physical side of things but you can't honestly say you believe everyone is like that.

My relationship has lasted for years now and we do share comon interests, we do focus on each other and we do other things than the one you had on your mind. If not for that, we wouldn't be a couple any more, we'd be going nowhere. Bear that in mind before you criticise people.

Seriously ?

Grzegorz,

MEN have only one thing on their minds, if you choose stereotypical thinking, and guess what it may be?

Some women have only one thing on their minds, too. :)

You are trying to tell us something more :)?

Latins and Blacks and their attractiveness to Poles? When you ask a really bad question sometimes you get a really bad answer.

Are you asking? :)

Well, after all we both are wolves...