Are you in a Polish-nonPolish relationship?

Being English I can confirm some {english girls} are obviously very hot but they are always looking for the 'perfect' guy with a good looks/body/money and power - then they realise suprise suprise nobody is perfect when they hit their 30's - interestingly the same time their looks start to fade and they know they have to play ball abit and not be so fussy lol

The problem I have with most english girls is they are so bloody materialistic and use their looks {if they have them] to manipulate guys as they know most guys are ruled by their dick lol {which is true but unfortunate for us}

I took pleasure for years seeing these sort of women's confidence drop when the years take there toll on there looks and they realise the only decent bribing tool they had has now gone and its time to head to the plastic specialists for a nip and tuck or maybe a monthly botex jab lol

This is when the guy gets his payback as he now is the controller of the relationship getting what he wants by manipulating the poor aging girls self confidence... hay thats karma

Good thing is guys women like older men so you have years of fun to look foward too lol

But.. then I met a polish girl who had an amazing body and looks and who whilst wanting security in a realtionship did not take it too the materialistic highs of their english cousins - and who respected their man and gave him a great sex life and made sure he only had eyes for her!

This learnt me to repsect women again and accept there are so women in the world who like a loving relationship more than all the bling and botox.

Polish girls are very hot and I love going out on a weekend now seeing all these sad divorced/single bitter 30 plus women trying to catch the eye of a younger bloke while trying their best to compete against the new influx of hot polish cuties - even the polish couples look happy and put us all to same.

I put it down to the fact that alot of Polish people have old fashion values like respect and love while remaining refreshingly modern in todays selfish self centred uk based female world - revenge certainly is sweet lol

You come across as a touch bitter. English women are great and you'll struggle to meet more confident funny women anywhere in the world. My wife's Polish but we've now got a baby daughter and I hope she develops as many of the 'desirable' English female characteristics as 'desirable' Polish female characteristics e.g. English female confidence but Polish female deportment.

Yer I suppose I am lol but its only now that I realise how manipulative some uk girls can be and when you meet someone from another culture you notice the difference right away.

I also see the amount of sad lonely women chasing younger guys every week and cant help but feel justified by the way I feel

what, is that yr fulltime job? where do you study this week-by-week supply of subjects?? sorry but what a load of old boll**ks! women dont chase younger men for a start. in my experience, younger men think 'wow - she;s older than me but she;s hot - gotta have her', and they do the chasing. and a sad lonely woman wouldnt chase a younger one - she'd chase any one. most women know they get a better deal with an older guy, anyhow, as he feels lucky to have her.

personally i would like one born on exactly the same day as me, so there's no unfair advantage either way.

but aside from that, stop slagging off english women! it sounds like you dont know what youre talking about.. or you just haven't met any particularly nice ones. ? We are all individuals, you know.

Eastern european girls have lowered the price of women in the market and both males and females are aware of that.This is maybe good because competition drives local females to lower their expecations and become more available.

Local females usually complain that the influx of quality women was not accompanied by an equal influx of quality men immigrants thus giving local men an unfair advantage.

the disparity is this: quality female imports are generally available for purchase, whereas 99% of male imports (of whatever quality) are already taken ; )

And since when has that made a difference to anything

Interesting point regarding english girls lowering of standards could be something in that lol

As for my study as you put 'itpipeczko' of english women well what can I say it comes from experinces I've had / seen and also what my friends get up too.

You obviously havnt visited a decent nightclub in a while where you would see the daily meat market as we call it here were late 20's to mid 50 years old english women try to pick up young blokes to boost their lowered self confidence levels.

Example I'm quite popular and go out with about 20 mates drinking on a weekend - so I get to see the mating habbits of my friends first hand lol - it goes something like this

Every week the same old bunch of desperate women {excuse the pun} turn up to have a dance drink and feel - they hand around the dancefloor with less clothes on than the average 18 year old and then proceed to pinch are asses and chat us up.

I thank god i'm taken but a few of friends have no shame so start there usual ritual - get drunk have a dance and pick up one of these desperate types for a bit of ex rated action for the night - then the week after they refuse the advances of the girl they used last week and pick one of her friends up and repeat the exercise.

There normally comes after this a period of arguement and general menace pointed at our gang, until a few weeks later the now even more desperate english female plays nice and one of my friends take her home for a session again! Its like pass the parcel - these poor women have no standards anymore there so desperate to find a partner now for life as they aging a bit and all there left with are the 'players' like some of my friends who pick them off at random every weekend ... this is how it is.

You know what my dad always told me 'treat them mean and keep them kean' but as I was raised by my grandparents these morals did not rest well with me so I always treat ladies with the upmost respect and in return became a soft touch for years. My dad god bless him was right women love bast*rds they like a guy to be mean and if your like I use to be you always ended up being coupled with a control freak - lucky for me things changed later in my 20's and I have had a lot of fun and am lucky to have met a good polish lady who treats me right.

So this is why my friends are so successful - women love guys who treat um mean - it's always been the case and always will be lol

now now
(ok, yes, that did cross my mind as well - but in my case, he presented himself as a free entity; confirmed only yesterday when he said to me 'I was a free man! And now look at me!' and i thought 'hang on a second ... i thought the whole problem was you WEREN'T a free man???'. this male logic is a dodgy thing.)


what?? well, maybe some women, but not this one. there's mean and mean ... although granted, if you have some x-rated action one night, and then he doesn't want to repeat it again, the female brain would be confused, going something like this: it was nice; neither of us have anything better to do; let's do it again (and again and again and again) ...

(well, that's how my brain works, lol ; )
and then if the other person didn't want to play again, the female would feel thwarted, rejected, and VERY cross. but then again, if you go out on the pull on a Sat'day nite, you can't expect much more than a night, can you? Either you go out for fun and nothing more, in which case ending up with yr feet in the air is fine, or you go out to meet someone and keep them, in which case you withold the action until you have secured them. That way the guy is doing the chasing. Surely that is obvious??

it's the booze that makes them do it, you know. that's why i don't drink ; )

I buy eagerly.

I think u spend too much time at computer, go out and take some fresh air u might meat some local female and find out what she complains about...

Yes,many local females are meat.

hi, i think the generalisations are wearing a little thin these days, i mean, yes there are diferences....pl and uk girls have been brought up in diff culture but as far as i am aware good manner s treating each other as we wish to be treated is universal ---true not everyone is taught such values, but those that are are not limited to one culture!As for Pl women being more beautiful, i have seen equal number of attractive pl women to uk girls....same with fashion and dress.

I am English of Anglo-German descent and my Boyfriend is from very rural Poland (malopolskie), he has more strong opinions are about women than me.

He says problem is most PL guys are worried that English girls do not always see a r/ship as permantent and guys like him from a small village are reluctant to be involved in a serious of relationships that dont go anywhere, they are looking for one good girl, find her and keep her.

They worry that the culture here of kissing many frogs to find a prince or having many r/ships before settling down conflicts with his cultural norm-- ( and i guess some dont like this idea that their girl will have been with many guys before)

He mistakenly beleived before that no english girls could keep a house or cook very well...and swear / drinktoo much( and of course there are some girls like this!)...but of course he found me =) lol.

Now he says hes happy and in fact says that one thing he loves is how i am laid back and many polish girls are demanding, can be *hard work *want their own way, and get 'funny' or uptightabout cheeky things like a kiss and little grope(haha hope you know what i mean) he says he sees many pl couple where the guy will kiss his girl in public or give her bum a little squeeze only to be tut-tutted and slapped away or such like ( *****Not saying this is my opinion only what my love says ok!!!******

my best friend is actually pl girl and completely NOT like this but then my bf's brother pl girl is totoally like this so it just goes to show we are all different!!---which concludes my opinion!!

I only wish for a polish girl.
Don't think it will happen anytime soon. :(

It's bloody important to us as well and quit stereo-typing us.

i think that only problem with mixed relationship is language so if u dont speak fluent english do not look for dating englishman cos it always will be problem maybe not at the beggining but little later then comes time for something more than sex.

Who cares about the bloody leap year? Thye're in love and that guy's thoughtful and romantic. Good on you son. and you'reone lucky girl.many more happy returns.

i'm in one

hi my name is ricky i m mexican living in chicago i have a beutiful friend her name is martyna i ask her if she want s to be my girlfriend i bring flowers to her all the time a litle teddy bear and even a live band of mariachis but she said that her father would never acept a mexican in her family and she said that her family is the most important thing for her but she kiss me sometimes and one day i tell her that maybe was bether if we dnt talk or see each other and she get mad and sad at the sametime i m very confused i cry some times

Ricky if you are over the age of 16 thats almost called stalking,,,,

the grass is always greener on the other side if you come from uk you find women from other areas more attractive as it something new, something exciting, i married polish girl not because she was polish but because she was my half, i always say i married her because her english was poor so less arguements (1/2 joking).

few years ago north of poland it was very unlikely to see an over weight woman under the age of 40 , the men in poland generally take better care of themselves and are heavily into keep fit

the problem mainly with uk from looking back was you lived for the weekend drank to get drunk be you male or female, try walking up union street (aberdeen, scotland) on a saturday night without somebody trying to pick a fight or throwing up on your shoes, something in 7 years Poland i have never seen.

polish family values from my experience are very much higher you see familys together and my wife does more for my family than i would ever bother.

one last point was when we married my wifes friends could not understand why she wanted to stay in poland, we could have left, her reasoning was Poland was her home and she didnt want to leave, for me it was hard at first as it was a huge culture shock but the place grew on me. i love the spring and summer you can keep the winter. at the moment we live in asia but we still have a home in poland because it is where my heart is not uk.

lol...
You wimp. Plenty of more fish in the sea.

I think this is the perfect present for a polish girl.

Hi,

I'm black (french/african) dating a polish guy
for a month and a half now.
It's goin really well and we really like eachother.
He speaks fluent English (few errors here and there)
but we understand eachother perfectly well.
Thankfully, I'm a language enthusiat so I'm
beginning to pick up sum Polish.
We goin to Poland for about 2weeks in June
and I'm very excited! He says he's attracted to the
fact that I'm black and his
mom's uber-excited to meet me.
I'm optimistic bout this relationship more
than most that I've had no cause to
feel discriminated against so far.
Although I am a bit nervous about goin
to his small town in Poland called Kalisz.

You might get a few stares, which some might find rude, but if I were you, just ignore it. Most of those people have seen very few people of color. It's not racism, more like curiousity. It would be the same as if a Polish man flew into some African village and got a few stares from the local people. He might feel a bit strange at first, but it will wear off.

Have fun in Poland!

I always point at them too.


Then i pinch them and tell them i come in peace and show them my watch asking if they ever saw something shiny like that.

Most of the Polish people that have spoken to in Somerset say they don't like the English too much, their motive to come and live in the UK is purely financial. Given this general consensus, its not at all suprising that most Polish men only date polish girls in the area.

I have to admit, at the beginning when we just started dating everything was new and fun. We didn’t really care that much if we could understand each other properly.

Problems started when dating transformed into relationship. Sometimes we were killing each other over silly things we said or just the way things were said.

Our idea of spending the time off work was a little bit different too. And I'm not talking about going to a pub with the lads for a pint and watching rugby match or something.

At the beginning it was difficult to understand that there are some things we just do in a different way, and that’s it. We had to learn how to let some things go to make it work.

We had lots of ups and downs but I guess it made us stronger. Our cultures are different, we were brought up in completely different ways, but after all these years of 'love and hate' it's still good fun to be around each other so I guess it was worth it...

At the end of the day it matters who you are, not where u r from :)

Something missing in my previous post. Must have del it by mistake... :))

I'm Polish, my fiance is Irish and we live in Ireland.

I was, but he used the lauguage barrier to cheat on me right in front of my face. Took a long time to realize what was going on...

Ow yes, I've been with this wonderful guy for six months now. I keep telling him that he just a one of a kind increadable guy but he attributes his thoughtful nature to being Polish. I'm just wandering how everyone else is coping with with the differences, i mean are your Pol partners willing to stay in your country with you or expecting you to go home with them (you kno on the serious long term bases) I've fallen in love with him. Be greatful for to kno just how things are going between ppl in the same situation.

I'm 100% polish and 'dated' non-Poles my entire life.

1. In high school, college, half of my 20s, etc., I wanted a non-Pole as any Pole just reminded me of family. I dated irish, jewish, korean, japanese, american mutts, etc. I never dated a polish girl, but a polish girl born in America who doesn't speak polish and have the culture is not polish in my opinion. Regardless, never went for them but I did hook up with two of them.

2. Once I matured and figured out what I wanted, I wanted a polish girl for the long haul, i.e., marriage. This mean she speaks polish, thinks polish, has the culture, etc. This makes the most sense from a practical perspective as I embody the culture, the language, the traditions, and my parents would probably not attend my wedding if she was not polish. Ok, they would, but they wouldn't be happy deep down inside. I want someone like me. The whole opposites attract, eh, good luck. Attraction and compatibilty/longevity are very different beasts. I'm polish, not another ethnicity, not an american, etc. I have 0 interest in a sorority girl in the States, regardless of how hot she is, or other nationalities. When I was horny boy, different story.

3. Everything still falls down on the person and who they are, their character, etc. I know many polish girls which are anything but relationship material in my mind, as well as many non poles, so heritage doesn't always play a role.

4. Looks fade.