I'm just an over weight, middle aged lady wanting to make the most or my divorce settlement, wondering if Polish males integrate as often as the Polish ladies seem to.
So what if your overweight?
Personality is what really matters for long term happiness.
Most of the Polish males I work with have Polish girlfriends/wives.
More than half of the Polish women I know also have Polish partners but a few have lovers of different nationality.
One girl from the cafeteria at my workplace is in a serious relationship with a black guy. I'd worked with a trio of Slovaks who were very racist towards black people and I sort of expected a similar attitude from the Poles.... I was wrong. I have never heard a single racist sentiment from any Pole towards people of colour.