Why are polish men so damned complicated?

You're damn right I would...Are you telling me that if your g/f told you "Hey Honey Im shaggin an English guy at the moment" you'd welcome her with open arms when she tells you that she was joking? Age has nothing to do with this, he sounds like he was born a prick!

Never dated idiots, took care to pick a smart one.


You couldnt live with one, i couldnt live with one, she apparently can so unless he really shagged some girl no harm done.

spot on shelley...:}

You were lucky, she isn't.

No i wasnt, there's free will, if i dated a girl i judged not to fit certain standards that i could not bend i stopped dating her, period.


But you're looking from a position where you're smart, ambitious and emotionally uninvolved, if she loves him thats really a lot to casually throw away based on one fucked up joke plus there's significantly less ambition in there.

Hey, everybody has dated idiots. Someone makes a mistake, ok, that's strike one. Another mistake, then strike two. If it gets to strike three then you're out.

The flip side is how 'we' are to the significant other. Sometimes we don't see ourselves as others do. That's something to work on too.

Unless it's a group sex from a porn movie, or mutually agreed upon swinger's swap he aint' behaving like he should. Telling you that he just had sex almost looks like "and just watcha gonna do about it"?

I wouldn't want to be with someone who found it funny to intentionally upset me, simple as really and we have a saying in the UK "many a true word said in jest"


I have a one strike rule!

It's been obvious that you need to work on your tolerance and patience. Those virtues come in handy.

Actually Shelly has a point of ten, its just that some people dont mind having a fucktard for a partner.

A rat is a rat; it has nothing to do with being Polish or not.

Excuse me, but Polish rats are better than other rats. The've been through a lot and yet they survived ;)

maybe awful lavigne can shed some light!!!

At least most of them are better looking than other rats, lol.

neer heard of AIDS love?

I don't find this unnatural.

this is not funny, or serious, it's just mad. even if it was just a "joke" (what evidence do you have that it actually wasn't??). how can anyone say they were just testing and punishing their partner this way cos they had some weird feeling about their other half flirting with another person? why couldn't he just ask face to face: are you into that guy? and at 37 it just shows what a retard he is, playing mind games with you, with no consideration for your feelings, cable, he is not good boyfriend material. i know love is not something that will just go away when you want it to, but in these circuimstances the right thing to do is get rid and forget about him. what does he do for your father anyway, that at 37 he hardly speaks any English? is he single, hasn't he got a family to support back in Poland? are you much younger than him? i'm not being judgmental but don't let him take you for a ride, you're his boss' daughter and you should know better.

Offer him unrestricted sex, he will find his way back to you.

oh yes it can,, if hes boning someone else and coming to you with some disease
( HELLO) wake up. rubbers break. sometimes men say I use them when in fact you
dont know this, I certainly wouldnt want to have sex with all of their parteners..

not to mention your putting your self esteem in a lower place yourself..
sweetie your worth more then that.. dont let someone control you that way.
find someone who will be there for you , not take advantage of you !!
your worth more then that !! theres much nicer men out there for you.

What he did was unnecessarily cruel.

No its not aaeptable behavior in Poland but u might have gotten played, but maybe u didn't give him any for too long, and he got tired of waiting.....

The guy is a barbarian - he is sub-human - not a civilised being. forget about that dweeb!!

just dump him