Do married Polish men keep lovers?

I was stationed in Germany after 9/11, I had several chances to visit my first and cousins in Poland during this. Then two years ago I took my wife and kids to Poland to see it and meet their cousins. All the times that I was in Poland my cousins kept asking me, if I had a lover on the side. They insisted that this comon, Is it?

Well it all depends. My guess yea some guys will but most wont

Maybe you have ugly wife?

No not ugly wife, they say it's common. Is it common if you are doing well in the world? Not struggling I mean.

that y the break up are soo common

Is Poland seeing allot of devourses? My parents fought to the end, but stayed married.

Maybe they assumed it from your behavior? But it is not common, trust me.

if some 1 has a beautiful, caring, kind wife y would any1 want to keep a lover on the side.

My boyfriend told me that all of his friends (without exception) who are here in the UK and have wives back home also have girlfriends over here... but I dont know about those living in Poland

so hes the odd one out in his group of friends...?

what about polish females is it the same with them too or they are more then happy with what they have?

And you believe him. Good luck.

I never said that did I? ... except his wife is here in the UK.


not really sure what you mean by that?

sorry sapph... in a silly mood today... not enough sleep... :)

no worries... now get to bed.

got up to make coffee and juice and have now retired to bed...

I didnt know you could find coffee and juice on here! and you wont get much sleep if you take your laptop with you.

cant sleep during the day... too many other exciting things going on...

and i got stuff to do today... will get up again in a minute... or maybe half an hour... :)

If you have been married for a long time and life is not perfect for the two, does that give license to take a lover?

Then everyone would have them!

I didnt know you needed a licence for it?

So is it just greed or laziness to want more affection?

No - it's normal. Lot's of couples have the same problem but you have to weigh the good against the bad

Sometimes we get rapped up in work and other things. But when theres open conversation about each others needs and things still do not change, things happen.

I know that life is way too busy here, my cousins gave hell about working too hard, and not living life. I do my best to take of everyones needs, and then my own. It seems convenient when you find another thats in the same boat.

Sometimes you need to ask for affection - seems like you shouldn't have to but sometimes that the way it is.

I have always been affectionate and attentive, and open, I speak my mind. Sometimes to afault. I beleave most polish men are that same way. Thats why I was curious about the lovers they (polish men) keep.