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What make Polish girls better than American girls


dzindzer - | 6  
13 Feb 2008 /  #61
southern what nationality are you?
RockyMason 19 | 250  
14 Feb 2008 /  #62
Well they have nice bodies pretty faces and are trained to plz! They cook and clean and don't complain when ur a guy and u just don't wanna do ****. My GF loves me and is just happy she ended up with me instead of some dumb pole who drinks and beats her lol.

Polish girls pretty much rule however there are exceptions. I know a few dumb pole girls who r spoiled rotten and think they are god's gift to this earth lol. However its funny b/c they have no right to think that since the only reason they have a lifestyle like that is b/c both their dad's and moms bust their asses at ****** jobs to provide them with that lifestyle. They act rich but they aren't. Its one thing when u have rich white collar family but when u don't do **** and ur parents bust their asses like that its quit ridiculous. I think this is kind of a "new found wealth" syndrome suffered by immigrants in the US. They grew up with nothing so they feel that they have to give their children everything.
OP PieknaTancerk 3 | 67  
14 Feb 2008 /  #63
trained to plz!

hahah trained hahaha yeah I like the way you put that. Haha and as for everything else I know what you mean. There are lots of Americans like that too. It won't be me. My kid will have the option to have what they want, but I won't just give it to them.
Pavo - | 2  
15 Feb 2008 /  #64
Hi -

Pavo here (my American friends' nickname for me) - first time poster :)

I will answer this question for you guys.

First, there are many bad Polish girls. They might have decent looks (note: not hot), but are garbage overall - they are worthless, and really, bring nothing to the table with them. These types also tend to care a lot about money and are very superficial, and very stupid. If you are rich, they will 'fall' for you :)-

But, if the Polish girl was raised right, then you will not find a better woman on the planet. My entire family, both nuclear and extended, have told me this for years, but of course I never wanted to date a polish girl growing up - in fact, I made it a point not to. Now in my mid-20s, educated, with a very good job and investments, I am looking to find someone to marry in time, and I ONLY want a Polish girl to fill the role. Why?

Well, if the girl comes from a good family, meaning she was raised right, then you will not find a better woman. She will be pretty on the outside, but beautiful on the inside. She wants to marry, have a family, kids, etc. She is educated. She knows how to cook, clean, sow, etc., and enjoys it. She will make an excellent spouse, and an even better mother. She is very practical, and makes excellent use of money and resources. She is modest. She is very hard working, and has very strong family values. I can go on forever, but I'll stop. Most girls that I have met in America don't even know how to cook, and if they do, most want to go out to eat because they hate cooking. I didn't care about these things when I was younger because I was a part time douchebag growing up, but I matured years ago, and when I did, a Polish girl was the answer for me.

I'll close it with an example, in this case, my little sister who is starting high school next year:

1 - She wakes up by 5 AM at the latest each day and goes to the ice rink as she is a competitive figure skater.
2 - She gets all As in school, and when she starts high school next year, she has already placed into ALL AP and Honors classes.

3 - She is fluent in 3 languages.
4 - She plays 3 insruments.
5 - She can cook dinner for an entire family already, she sows clothes when they tear or when a button breaks off, she cleans and does her own laundry, etc. She wants to do this and enjoys it.

6 - She will mature to a very attractive woman one day, but she is the absolute first to say how many scumbags there are in America - she stopped going to school dances and social functions as many guys were trying to hook up with her, but I assure you, she is not a fool. She will wait for the right guy.

The list can go on and on, but I will stop. My sister isn't the only Polish girl like this; the girl who I am interested in right now is Polish and possesses many similar qualities. You won't find a better woman in the world than a Polish woman, so long as she was raised right. And this is coming from a guy who has dated 100s of girls growing up, and among many nationalities, but in the end, the girl that I never wanted to be with, is the only type of girl that I want to marry.
OP PieknaTancerk 3 | 67  
15 Feb 2008 /  #65
Most girls that I have met in America don't even know how to cook, and if they do, most want to go out to eat because they hate cooking.

Yeah that is true most Americans women don't like to cook. Not me I am a health nut. I can't even smell a burger now without gagging. That is good that your sister is mature. It will be difficult to find a guy her age on the same maturity level. I myself is finding it very difficult. I don't think like the average 21 year old. I kind of like my personality though. Like I can still pass for 16 or 17, but I think like a 25 year old woman. So I can't wait until I can find someone on my level. 3 languages that is awesome. I am working on my 2nd .I started French but my teacher sucks. Pavo we all want what we can't have or don't want what people say we should. The brain is interesting isn't it.

dzindzer- to whom are you speaking.
jestesjedyny 5 | 125  
15 Feb 2008 /  #66
dzindzer is speaking to southern :D
El Gato 4 | 351  
15 Feb 2008 /  #67
some dumb pole who drinks and beats her lol.

So we're drunken woman beaters now?

I know a few dumb pole girls who r spoiled rotten and think they are god's gift to this earth lol.

Like all the blonde californian girls they constantly put on MTV and VH1, they always seem to b*tch and complain about drama, when I see none at all...those shows are stupid.

They grew up with nothing so they feel that they have to give their children everything.

Yeah, a lot of people are like that. My uncle just had his first child, a boy, and the kid can barely walk but he's already got those battery powered cars he can ride in. I can't blame my uncle though, he'll be a great dad, he just wants to make sure his kid lives a happy life.
JohnP - | 210  
15 Feb 2008 /  #68
From what I'm reading here Polish girls are basically what most American girls were 30-40 years ago. Unfortunately in America, girls (and guys for that matter) have been bombarded constantly with messages implying cooking or cleaning is "demeaning to women" or that if a woman is to consider herself a "success" then she will get a career in which she will attempt to surpass all her male coworkers-housewives are portrayed as not glamorous or even losers. Watch any TV show from America and if a woman has a family, without fail she has to be in an important career or the de facto head of household, and if she is successful the only play the stove in her house gets is to look nice....

Still, thankfully, despite the bombardment, there ARE American women who have traditional values still, but it sure doesn't come from the media-it has to be something taught by family in most cases.

As for beautiful women, I'm sure Poland has some, but for that matter there are beautiful women all over the world. I just moved in June from San Diego, California-and there were beautiful women all over the place there. No, not all of them are spoiled brats-believe it or not, NORMAL people don't get on TV-even here. I'm now on the US East coast, and you know what? There are beautiful women here as well.

SO it's all the eye of the beholder. If you love a Polish girl, good for you. If you love an American girl and are happy-don't think you will be one bit happier with one from Poland, or Russia, or Uzbekistan, or the UK...or any other nation.

Be glad you are happy.
John P.
OP PieknaTancerk 3 | 67  
16 Feb 2008 /  #69
Like all the blonde californian girls they constantly put on MTV and VH1, they always seem to b*tch and complain about drama, when I see none at all...those shows are stupid.

Hahah those are the rich white girls who have gotten everything they want out of life from Mommy and DAddy

I can't blame my uncle though, he'll be a great dad, he just wants to make sure his kid lives a happy life.

That is not a good idea...showing a kid that things are what is going to make him happy is not good, and he is going to turn out like most American kids spoiled and out of control.

American women who have traditional values still, but it sure doesn't come from the media-it has to be something taught by family in most cases.

NORMAL people don't get on TV-even here.

SO it's all the eye of the beholder.

John P are you married. That is what I have been wanting to hear. And you mindset just made me melt. Hahah awesome. If you aren't married or dating..when you do she is a lucky woman.
MareGaea 29 | 2,752  
16 Feb 2008 /  #70
Like all the blonde californian girls

They are actually robots, made in Lucas' studios. Did you know that?

M-G
Michal - | 1,865  
16 Feb 2008 /  #72
I'm going to USA soon anyway and hopefully all Americans will

Ah, is that why you come on this forum so as to improve your English before trying to fit in to a new society? Funny really, because if I remember rightly in Moscow under Communism, it was the Poles who hated Capitalism and America.
Wyspianska  
16 Feb 2008 /  #73
dude what are you even talking about? I'm going there as an au-pair for one year, then want to go back. Besides how dare you even judge that? And you are were? Stupid hypocrites. So now only becayse I'm polish I can't move my ass anywhere? I'm not even going to meet you there so calm down. gez
OP PieknaTancerk 3 | 67  
16 Feb 2008 /  #74
before trying to fit in to a new society?

You don't have to really try to fit in here. You can always hang out with people that are more like you here. Beside most Americans I know are excepting. Besides she already has an awesome American friend. And I know all my friends will love her. Because she is a lot like me.:P
RockyMason 19 | 250  
16 Feb 2008 /  #75
LOL!!! No blonde cali girls r much different than "new found wealth" syndome poles. Blonde cali girls have daddies who are lawyers, doctors, accountants etc... white collar jobs that don't really BUST their ass for a living. The poles have a dad who is a contractor or a truck driver who spends a much higher % of his salary on some spoiled daughter!!! The polish girl believes that her family is rich when her dad breaks his back for his $ an her mom who works as well cleans houses!

I dunno ur definition of wealth but in my definition blue collar jobs don't count! If the mom has to clean houses AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAA UR lower-middle class at best. lol I now several polish girls like this actually who believe they r rich.
Glim 5 | 30  
16 Feb 2008 /  #76
i met an american girl at my train station the other day. it made me laugh how she thought English people sipped cups of tea and swept chimneys...

after chatting for 20 mins she started to **** me off.. its the damn accent i cant stand.. im shallow like that i suppose...
Patrycja19 63 | 2,699  
16 Feb 2008 /  #77
it made me laugh how she thought English people sipped cups of tea and swept chimneys...

well I suppose thats what television does to some people. cant fault her for it..

its the damn accent i cant stand..

yes thats shallow.. because people cant help where they were raised.. how they
were raised.. and accents can affect people when they stay in certain places long
enough, they tend to pick up from those around them.

it could even happen to you.. omg!! :)
JohnP - | 210  
16 Feb 2008 /  #78
i met an american girl at my train station the other day. it made me laugh how she thought English people sipped cups of tea and swept chimneys...

after chatting for 20 mins she started to **** me off.. its the damn accent i cant stand.. im shallow like that i suppose...

I see it isn't only Americans who suffer from media stereotypes...
Where in US was she from? There are a few places in the US whose accents grate on me as well, and I'm an American!

John P are you married. That is what I have been wanting to hear. And you mindset just made me melt. Hahah awesome. If you aren't married or dating..when you do she is a lucky woman.

You are far too nice to me, and I'm flattered. I'm newly married as of this past April. Unfortunately in real life I'm a bit more difficult to deal with than maybe I seem. Pretty sure I'm driving her nuts already-maybe I'll make it a year, if I'm lucky...regardless, in spite of making every mistake in the book (I don't understand women all that well apparently) I go one step at a time just like anyone else. Right now she is home in San Diego visiting her family, and sending me messages about cool places she is visiting that I can't go...she has a mischievious streak....

John P.
krysia 23 | 3,057  
16 Feb 2008 /  #79
i met an american girl at my train station the other day. it made me laugh how she thought English people sipped cups of tea and swept chimneys...

Isn't that true?
Patrycja19 63 | 2,699  
16 Feb 2008 /  #80
There are a few places in the US whose accents grate on me as well, and I'm an American!

shame on you.. if everyone was like that imagine all the good people we wouldnt
have as friends just because we cant get past something small like a accent..
krysia 23 | 3,057  
16 Feb 2008 /  #81
I'm newly married as of this past April.

Well John, I was married in April also to a Polish guy whom I finance and got a fiance visa. He used me just to come to the USA. He got his green card and everything else I helped him get so then after I treat him like a king, he wants more and more and more. Then he got sores on his dick and accused me of giving him aids and cheating on him. After going to the doctor he got a yeast infection because he wasn't washing up and he blamed it all on me. He went nuts!

Well, we're not together anymore and he moved to Chicago, makes money but he wont repay me anything for the wedding and everything else I did for him.
Patrycja19 63 | 2,699  
16 Feb 2008 /  #82
He used me just to come to the USA. He got his green card and everything elzse I helped him get so then after I treat him like a king, he wants more and more and more.

wow krysia.. sorry to hear ... one of my friends at work her husband was cheating
and last week the chicks boyfriends that he was cheating with came bangin
on their door. he wanted to tell her what was going on, and did, so her
arsehole hubby says well. I want a divorce.. I love you but im not in love with you
and all kinds of mean things.. he was cruel. shes devastated.

shes been crying all week since at work.. weve been keeping a eye on her ( WORRY).
making sure shes ok and all.
krysia 23 | 3,057  
16 Feb 2008 /  #83
In Poland they think American girls are 'loose" that they run around with every guy and this Polish guy was so spoiled by me that he didn't know what to think anymore. And I got mad because I have high morals. I'm happier without him.
jestesjedyny 5 | 125  
16 Feb 2008 /  #84
Think about it this way: A bungee of American girls come from different cultures, meaning, different boobs, vaginas, sizes, styles... etc. & Poland is Poland and the great majority of girls in Poland are Polish... Duh! Girls are girls no matter where they come from, they have their positives + negatives and I think it balances out in one way or another.

Let's just try again: What makes girls better than boys... LOL!
JohnP - | 210  
16 Feb 2008 /  #85
shame on you.. if everyone was like that imagine all the good people we wouldnt
have as friends just because we cant get past something small like a accent..

I can get over it don't worry, one of my best friends is FROM that area...but the accent does grate and I'm not above teasing. Of course, I have my own "accent" that they just turn around and make fun of me back.

Well John, I was married in April also to a Polish guy whom I finance and got a fiance visa. He used me just to come to the USA. He got his green card and everything else I helped him get so then after I treat him like a king, he wants more and more and more. Then he got sores on his dick and accused me of giving him aids and cheating on him. After going to the doctor he got a yeast infection because he wasn't washing up and he blamed it all on me. He went nuts!
Well, we're not together anymore and he moved to Chicago, makes money but he wont repay me anything for the wedding and everything else I did for him.

Oh my. That is absolutely horrible and I don't really know what to say here. As if him cheating wasn't bad enough, what he did shouldn't happen to any girl, American, Polish or otherwise. Just my opinion. Wow. You have all my sympathies, hope you have someone who'll listen. I know if someone did that to my sisters I would probably do something horrible to him, and I don't even talk that often to my sisters these days.

John P.
jestesjedyny 5 | 125  
16 Feb 2008 /  #86
if everyone was like that imagine all the good people we wouldnt
have as friends just because we cant get past something small like a accent..

Absolutely :)
Patrycja19 63 | 2,699  
17 Feb 2008 /  #87
this Polish guy was so spoiled by me that he didn't know what to think anymore.

I think sometimes we do to much.. because it becomes a problem when they take
advantage instead of cherish.

in some cases taking advantage happens, in others, its more of miscommunication
or just mind wandering and not realizing that they could have given a little back..
Foreigner4 12 | 1,769  
17 Feb 2008 /  #88
krysia

it's worth doing what you can to have him deported if possible, but i'd take it a step further and do what i could to rid the world of that parasite. i'm a firm believer in capital punishment and not necessarily by only the state.
Michal - | 1,865  
17 Feb 2008 /  #89
And you are were? St

What on earth does that mean? O co ci chodzi?
OP PieknaTancerk 3 | 67  
17 Feb 2008 /  #90
No blonde cali girls r much different than

Are these the only girls that exist in America, because that is all you guys comment on.

nglish people sipped cups of tea and swept chimneys...

hahahah that is funny. What is her accent... country read neck or what.

He got his green card and everything else I helped him get so then after I treat him like a king, he wants more and more and more. T

how long was he there before he got his green card.
Yeah stereotypes p@S( me off. I have to live with it everyday. White people expecting me to be ghetto and listen to rap. And black people teasing me because I use Valley Girls Slang instead of ghetto, and because I speak proper English. Gay

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