Indian in relationship with a Polish girl

Dear All,

I need advice from you. I am Ram and I am from India. I am presently working in Germany as Consultant.

So my story starts. I came to know my Polish girl friend via internet. We are together since 5 years. All this 5 years we hardly spent with each other may be for 4 months together. Now about her. She is a nice girl but she is a big flirt. She cannot avoid boys,discos,pubs and playing with her office colleque. When I was in India for some vacation she broke up with me and she was dating with other Indian guy, Egyptian guy and with few Arab guys. As soon as she came to know I will be back to Europe she started to act like loving me. She promissed that she will not contact with those secret bfs anymore.

When ever she came to visit me or I went to visit her, she said that she is always feeling tired and she wants to go to bed. Some times she even told that she feels bored to go to Pubs. But in my absence her life after work is in Pub with her College friends, Work friends and with strangers. She dont even have time to talk to me or answer my SMS. When she was in Italy last year with her friends she said that she never went to Discos. But the sad truth is she was in Disco till early morning. The same happened when she was in Belgium for her work trip. She was dating with few guys whom she met in work meeting. Fortunately I found those pictures in her computer.

Even she is now in contact with her ex office colleque who is in love with her and with whom she was flirting during her work in old office. When I said I dont like it, she broke up with me. Frankly to say she does not have any good friends who can show her good life. All her friends are amazing flirts and wheneever they talk, they talk only about boys,randka, randki blah blah. Now she got addicted to one more thing apart from her pubs,clubs,discos . Its facebook. She can spend time in internet to write comments etc etc for hours to his office guys profile. But she can't even find single minute to write me saying darling i love u.

We planned to get married soon. But now I am really thinking if I should spoil my life with such a flirt machine and with such a person who is born for friends and who does not care about family. Is it typical Polish girl behave or I am unlucky that I found such person? Please advice me if I should say good bye to her or if I can give her one more chance.

Thank you all.

Ram

P.S: My colleques here says just throw her in a dust bin.

I'd do the same, flirty types tend to remain so and pick up a string of phone numbers.

If she is short of work, tell her that you have a job for her, a blow job ;0 ;)

Tut tut Seanus...

You should always ask for a hand job first, just to test the waters;)

Are you into 2 in 1 packages, Davey? ;)

Depending who the other GIRL is ;p

Well, absolutely ;) Forget the cut and blow dry, the cut and blow job is better :)

Good advice. But why go to all that effort yourself? She sounds like complete trash so just leave her where she stands, somebody will soon throw her into a dustbin.

It is not a typical behave but it might be a typical behaviour. Or is it? ;)

The problem is that I am not able to forget her eventhough she did so many bad things to me.

You will forget her sooner than you think. Stop dwelling and move on.

I would be very happy if this will come true soon.

Hello Ram prasad,

I think you are from South India. I suggest let her go to hell, find some one and spend good time.

forget her don't waste your time & energy.

someone's got a penchant for dark skinned men eh ha ha. did she sleep with all the guys she dated during your 'relationship'? you are mad for even thinking that marrying her, or even staying with her is a good thing, this girl is evidently a sl*t! drop her, i'm sure someone else will pick her up, if they already haven't as we speak. you don't need this rubbish, move on and find a nice Indian girl!

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Basically had the same. Now she claims she has another boyfriend, but I take it that it won't last long as (and she said it herself many times) people never really change. So she won't either. What I did was, I gave her a hard time (and I really mean a HARD time) that embarrassed her, made her friends seriously wonder about her and most of all, made her look ridiculous and lose quite a few friends. After that, I was done. I got my revenge and now she can go to hell and the horse she rode in on.

M-G (dumped her sorry *ss in the animal shelter as well)

That's a bit vengefull! haha
well what i did was just, broke-up and ignore her completely. Said Hi if i ran into her, but thats it. It drove her mad...

Best medicine, take always the high road

leave that rundi and get yourself a good wife

Did she sleep with you?

maybe shes polish so theres a sheet with the lenght of my arm with all the names of the men she slept with

Yeah everyone but you :P

lol well my point exactly you can count the ammount of men this girl hasn't slept with on one hand

her outlook towards life is very different from yours... u need commitment and she is happier without commitment.. so forget her and please move on.. am sure few years down the line u'll look back and thank urself for moving on.

like i said leave that eastern european rundi and find a decent woman

Hello Mr. Ram Prasad,

Acctulay i m not that kind of person who involve's in every one's matter but after reading ur all story what was happend to u with a polish girl abt that my comment on this is may be you dont undrstand her feeling may be she is doing all this earlier also like going pub making new friend or having ralation ship with other also but at that time may be u r not knowing it but i am sure if she is with u frm past 5 years then it seems to me like this that 100 % she like u but due to her habits like going pub talking to new friend & all the other things which u dont like abt her now you have to understand that all those & give her company in the parties & u have to show interest in her liking & disliking + put ur opinion side by side what all u like or what u dont like belive me in a very few time she will be fulluy yours only

Regards
pammy

same to you.