he was not as happy as I had hoped
Yep, hes a man.
He said I've ruined his Christmas and his family won't understand
Kotek - is your real name Marge Simpson ? ;-)
dh says the baby isn't real yet
Thats a Homerism for sure.
I can't risk baby's health or my own
You are right, not worth the risk.
Hopefully he will come round, if not hes a dope.