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Help, Polish men are very complicated!


OP Angielski 1 | 11  
20 May 2009 /  #31
Thanks db! As you are male and Polish, know any good jokes that may break the ice?
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
20 May 2009 /  #32
Aha, so maybe all the non-Polish forum members should stop posting because they aren't Polish, right? Relationships are more universal than you think.
cable 3 | 42  
20 May 2009 /  #33
Why not break the ice with a simple Dzien dobry :-)
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
20 May 2009 /  #34
Shelleys! you are so harsh.

Im being honest. What do you want me to say? Fact of the matter is some guy comes in a couple of hours a week and you have a crush on him..You could start humming the wedding march next time he comes in and see how he reacts?
Lir  
20 May 2009 /  #35
Some Polish men are very friendly and he gives you a lovely greeting and makes you feel very welcome :) but it does sound like that's all it is ? Sorry :(

I think any female would be flattered by that :) just be very friendly back and smile a lot and wait for him to suggest if he wants to ask you out. In the meantime relax and enjoy his friendliness :)
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
20 May 2009 /  #36
I think any female would be flattered by that :) just be very friendly back and smile a lot and wait for him to suggest if he wants to ask you out. In the meantime relax and enjoy his friendliness :)

Best bit of advice yet! (apart from mine of course ;0) )
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
20 May 2009 /  #37
Sounds advice from Lir. The common prescription that emerges from almost all discussions on relationships is 'take it slow and easy'. A progressive approach usually yield the most positive results. Also, giving breathing space is becoming more and more important these days :)
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
20 May 2009 /  #38
Thanks db! As you are male and Polish,

He's not...look at his profile pic, it's quite clear to see! He is however possibly related to Little Richard!
King Sobieski 2 | 716  
20 May 2009 /  #39
try:

Wyjdziesz za mnie?

or

LubiÄ™ duzy kielbasa
z_darius 14 | 3,968  
20 May 2009 /  #40
Look, is there a moderator on here somewhere, i can't get any sense outa you lot!
I have a real big crush on this man, but want to retain some English pride and not look like a complete tit

As others said, Polish guys are no different than guys from other countries (except fo Michal and Harry who are stupid).

Still, I understand your hesitations and to that I would suggest what I do myself in situations where I am not sure about proper reaction/behavior - just tell them that you are not sure if you are approaching a given situation in an acceptable situation. That will cover your ass (not that it's bare) for a lot of mistakes, and that will also tell the other person that you care, are aware and sensitive to the possible differences in customs and habits. Life's usually good from that point on.
OP Angielski 1 | 11  
20 May 2009 /  #41
Ok, thanks to everyone for their help and advice, even the silly stuff. Could someone translate this for me ( preferably not King Sobieski), and then someone else double check it for me ..........- it really WOULD NOT be funny to wind me up on this....

" Hi Dude, did you miss my cake this week? I hope you are looking after yourself, don't forget to have a shave!"
theblueenigma 3 | 188  
20 May 2009 /  #42
" Hi Dude, did you miss my cake this week? I hope you are looking after yourself, don't forget to have a shave!"

'Dude' ? You didnt say he was American, in that case language doesnt matter. Just wave an American flag, chant freedom and show him your feet
lexi 1 | 176  
20 May 2009 /  #43
a picture of some wobbly-looking house in Poland - some kinda new age architecture or something, but no message with it!

Thats the crazy house in the centre of Sopot, is he from Gdansk? Great place is Sopot.
Sokrates 8 | 3,346  
20 May 2009 /  #44
And can you tell me how 'przytulic' translates, would this be a nice thing to say to him??

He hates you, in fact he's using you to hook up with your thin pretty girlfriend, being nice to fat best friends never fails.
theblueenigma 3 | 188  
20 May 2009 /  #45
BLUENIGMABOY - THIS IS SERIOUS - get a grip and help me out!!! Are you Polish? you are funny too!

I know it is serious, you have no idea how worried about you I am pumpkin. I am Irish, so unfortunately it takes more than a 'cake' to entice me :| Can you buy jaffa cakes anywhere near you. Its an old Polish tradition that if you like a man you stick a jaffa cake on your forehead, then when the object of your desire you sees this he has to politely lick all the chocolate off it. Many a Polish couple have got together in this way, beautiful culture
OP Angielski 1 | 11  
20 May 2009 /  #46
YOU ARE ALL SAVAGES!!!!! I need help here, i'm off to find a proper Polish forum that actually works......
fred_chopin  
20 May 2009 /  #47
YOU ARE ALL SAVAGES!!!!!

That is what makes this place special. Suck it up, I am sure some of the answers provided so far are relevant.
Sokrates 8 | 3,346  
20 May 2009 /  #48
YOU ARE ALL SAVAGES!!!!!

Only if i manage to get the little ones into the backseat of my car O.O

I need help here, i'm off to find a proper Polish forum that actually works......

Dude just go up to him "hi i'm starving for a bit of penis, would you like some coffee?" Dating is not rocket science ffs all it takes is to ask.
theblueenigma 3 | 188  
20 May 2009 /  #49
YOU ARE ALL SAVAGES!!!!! I need help here, i'm off to find a proper Polish forum that actually works......

'Dude' dont be listening to no punk biatch Savage tree crunchers here ma sister from another mother. Holla out to ma Polska homies on the left side, soaking up da rays on the C side, neva gonna let ya inta ma B side. Peace home girl
Grzegorz_ 51 | 6,161  
20 May 2009 /  #50
YOU ARE ALL SAVAGES!!!!!

Ayeee !!!!!11

Seriously... we can't really help you...
gumishu 12 | 6,082  
20 May 2009 /  #51
Angielski - I think the guy's got a crush on you too, at least a bit. You just have to make sure he is really single.

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