Look, is there a moderator on here somewhere, i can't get any sense outa you lot!
I have a real big crush on this man, but want to retain some English pride and not look like a complete tit
As others said, Polish guys are no different than guys from other countries (except fo Michal and Harry who are stupid).
Still, I understand your hesitations and to that I would suggest what I do myself in situations where I am not sure about proper reaction/behavior - just tell them that you are not sure if you are approaching a given situation in an acceptable situation. That will cover your ass (not that it's bare) for a lot of mistakes, and that will also tell the other person that you care, are aware and sensitive to the possible differences in customs and habits. Life's usually good from that point on.