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Polish Girls Reputation


Nika 2 | 507  
15 Aug 2009 /  #31
Like it or not, people who come from a certain cultural background do share particular characteristics.

I find it ridiculous to think that women are unfaithful or easy because they are Polish.
In my opinion these are personal traits of character and not national ones...
johncardwell 3 | 110  
15 Aug 2009 /  #32
Personal traits of character are shaped by genetics and social forces.
Therefore, national (geographic location) is a determining factor geographic location determines many genetic and social factors.

But it is not definite.
Only probabilistic.

Here is an example:
Americans are more likely to be obese.
why?
Genetics and media encouraging them to consume more than is necessary.

Are all Americans obese?
No.

But an an American picked at random is more likely to be obese than say a Pole.
That is, for now:)
Nika 2 | 507  
15 Aug 2009 /  #33
I simply disagree with it, sorry...
OP LukeXX 4 | 75  
15 Aug 2009 /  #34
You're getting some negative comments because your original post implies that you are British. English can be a strange language.

The negative comments and toned down reactions are about having a Polish girlfriend. Which unfortunately is because young Polish girls abroad have a bad reputation.

It seems many people know of some stories ... , and e.g. English girls are the most judgemental about this matter.

I wander if that is to do with East European girls' infatuation with foreign men in the transition from communism.
Nika 2 | 507  
15 Aug 2009 /  #35
and e.g. English girls are the most judgemental about this matter.

in your opinion, why it's mostly English girls and not English men?
After all, it's not the English girls who sleep with the Polish girls, so how would they know?
Alx123 - | 180  
15 Aug 2009 /  #36
I find it ridiculous to think that women are unfaithful or easy because they are Polish.

Where do you think the reputation comes from then? As Luke says, during the transition period (the so-called 'golden times' for ex-pats in E.Europe), Polish girls were infatuated with foreign men and 'gave it up' a little too easily.
Nika 2 | 507  
15 Aug 2009 /  #37
Polish girls were infatuated with foreign men and 'gave it up' a little too easily.

oh because with a non-Polish girl it is extemly difficult maybe? as if with e.g. English girl you'd have to go out for 10 years before having sex????

Anyway, this reputation is wrong.
Alx123 - | 180  
15 Aug 2009 /  #38
I wasn't talking about how quickly they went to bed. I meant that it was very easy for almost any foreign guy to attract and sleep with a girl at that time.

Right or wrong, the reputation is what it is. You can't change that. All you can do is just not take it seriously. Personally I don't really think about it till a girl reveals to me her complexes, saying stuff like 'I'm not easy'/'don't think I'm easy', etc. But if a girl is confident in herself, unaffected by what other people think of her nationality etc, then I don't think about her as 'a Polish girl' and the 'negativity' that goes with it.
OP LukeXX 4 | 75  
15 Aug 2009 /  #39
in your opinion, why it's mostly English girls and not English men?
After all, it's not the English girls who sleep with the Polish girls, so how would they know?

Well, I guess it's about girls being _bitchy about others girls in general. But the bad reputation was about Polish girls being an easy catch, or going out with more then one guy at the same time.

I remember a lot of British ex work colleagues and friends who had a Polish girlfriend in the UK.

Many of the did not have a girlfriend in a very long time, and having a relationship of course made them happy. It seems like Polish girls could seem in them qualities other girls could cold not see.

The PF is full of thread about every aspect of Polish girls - no need to start another!

I am a new member. If you have done and seen it all, should't you perhaps take up a new hobby? ;)
Nika 2 | 507  
15 Aug 2009 /  #40
I wasn't talking about how quickly they went to bed. I meant that it was very easy for almost any foreign guy to attract and sleep with a girl at that time.

going to bed and sleeping with a girl is equal, so it seems to me that we are talking about the same thing.
It is easy for you to say you can't change that, don't have to take it seriously because you are not personally concerned - you are not a Polish girl and you will never understand how it hurts...
osiol 55 | 3,922  
15 Aug 2009 /  #41
The Polish Forums Anthem may enlighten some people about Polish girls and how they are perceived both by themselves and by others.

w754.wrzuta.pl/audio/06DsniQa5LS/pf_anthem - Polish Forums Anthem
Alx123 - | 180  
15 Aug 2009 /  #42
ou are not a Polish girl and you will never understand how it hurts...

I realise that I can never understand. But I have met Polish girls who are either unaware of it or unaffected by it. Of course, they live in Poland, so I guess it's different for Polish girls living abroad.
Nika 2 | 507  
15 Aug 2009 /  #43
Well, I guess it's about girls being _bitchy about others girls in general. But the bad reputation was about Polish girls being an easy catch, or going out with more then one guy at the same time.

Luke you should ask yourself a question - is it only Polish girls being an easy catch/going out with more than 1 guy?
I don't think so, I know PLENTY of girls of very different nationalities (you'd be surprised) that do exactly the same, so don't pay attention to the others' opinion, it's with her that you have a relationship and not with "some people back home" :)
OP LukeXX 4 | 75  
15 Aug 2009 /  #44
I realise that I can never understand. But I have met Polish girls who are either unaware of it or unaffected by it. Of course, they live in Poland, so I guess it's different for Polish girls living abroad.

Nika is right. How can you know anything about it?

You seem to be a 'sad git 'on autopilot, looking down on Polish girls at all times. Exactly what I was talking about in my initial post.

Though I still wonder whether there is some substance to the bad reputation.
Nika 2 | 507  
15 Aug 2009 /  #45
I realise that I can never understand. But I have met Polish girls who are either unaware of it or unaffected by it. Of course, they live in Poland, so I guess it's different for Polish girls living abroad.

exactly Alx, I never realised it until I moved abroad and I'm now really sick of it you know. I never thougt of Polish women as being easy, unfaithful etc although I know them very well, as you can imagine :)
Alx123 - | 180  
15 Aug 2009 /  #46
Nika is right. How can you know anything about it?

You seem to be on autopilot, a 'sad git' looking down on Polish girls at all times. Exactly what I was talking about in my initial post.

Hmm....here is an extract from one of your posts in another thread:

'What you are saying sounds just like what I have head 100 of times from Polish girls. And yet each of them failed to prove Alex point wrong: that in many ways THEY ARE "all the same".'

Does that not contradict everything you have written here? LOL
OP LukeXX 4 | 75  
15 Aug 2009 /  #47
I was making a different point there, mate. Whoever you are!!!
Trying to discredit me will not work.
SzwedwPolsce 11 | 1,595  
15 Aug 2009 /  #48
Right or wrong, the reputation is what it is. You can't change that.

But it will change itself when more peope come to Poland and see that it's not true in Poland.

I lived in Poland for 2 years now and I can tell you that the average Polish girl is not easier to get in bed than the average European girl. But as well as in other countries there are some girls in Poland that are easy of course. But that applies to all countries.
OP LukeXX 4 | 75  
15 Aug 2009 /  #49
But it will change itself when more peope come to Poland and see that it's not true in Poland.

It started when people saw Polish girls abroad, that's something different.

Hold on tight here. I don't agree with most of what this guy Alex123 says.

However, kissing up so much as you do is just not right. Polish girls may have changed their ways also as a result of the bad reputation. And this is not much of the case abroad.
Alx123 - | 180  
15 Aug 2009 /  #50
I never thougt of Polish women as being easy, unfaithful etc although I know them very well, as you can imagine :)

I don't know the Polish scene outside Poland very well. I can only comment on the opinions of foreigners in Poland. But I can tell you it has changed over the past 8 years. A lot of tourists from UK and other places who have been coming here expecting some 'action' have been returning home disappointed.
SzwedwPolsce 11 | 1,595  
15 Aug 2009 /  #51
Polish girls may have changed their ways also as a result of the bad reputation.

Read what I write!

I did not say that Polish girls are still "easy".
But other people on this forum say that Polish girls still are relatively easy to get in bed in eg. UK.

A lot of tourists from UK and other places who have been coming here expecting some 'action' have been returning home disappointed

Very true.
Nika 2 | 507  
15 Aug 2009 /  #52
I don't know the Polish scene outside Poland very well.

I know both...
johncardwell 3 | 110  
15 Aug 2009 /  #53
Nika: I know both...

So when I came to Krakow I wasn't looking for sex.
I just wanted to have a relaxing time.
So I couldn't really say if they were easy or not.
But the girls treated me very well.
They were really helpful and made my trip much better.
Very professional and friendly.
At a much higher level than I ever experienced in Czech Republic or USA.
And they didn't ask anything from me.
Even though I offered a small gift a couple of times.

On the other hand, my personal experiences outside Poland are quite different.

Girls trying to get me in bed when they already had a boyfriend.
Strange impulsive reactions.
Threats of suicide.
Being used to make another guy jealous.
Trying to move out of a boyfriend's flat into mine.

Really weird stuff.

So for me it is two different cultures.

Probably if I went to Warsaw it would be three different cultures.
Nika 2 | 507  
15 Aug 2009 /  #54
Girls trying to get me in bed when they already had a boyfriend.
Strange impulsive reactions.
Threats of suicide.
Being used to make another guy jealous.
Trying to move out of a boyfriend's flat into mine.

and it's only happened to you with Polish girls?
The non-polish ones would never do that?
The non-polish women are perfectly stable, never make their men jealous, never move-out. They date a guy, they get married and then have kids with him and they live happily ever after?
johncardwell 3 | 110  
15 Aug 2009 /  #55
True.
But I had higher expectations from Polish Girls.

Careful.
Now you are supporting the point that Polish Girls really do this kind of stuff.

But I would rather know the truth.
Because I don't have so much time left.

And I have options to live other places where I might be able to trust a woman more.

So if you know both sides, maybe you could tell us some Polish Girl Stories from your perspective.
niejestemcapita 2 | 561  
15 Aug 2009 /  #56
And I have options to live other places where I might be able to trust a woman more.

you can run away JC but you can't escape yourself
johncardwell 3 | 110  
15 Aug 2009 /  #57
I think that is pretty obvious.
Who said I could?
And why would I want to?

I don't think I am any better than anyone else at being successful with Polish Girls.
So if other guys are failing more and more, I want to know why.
Certainly if other guys are having a hard time why would it be different for me.

It is the same in Czech Republic.
If divorce is 70 percent, why would anyone think they could beat the odds and why would anyone trying?

Like gambling when the odds are against you.

Not my thing.

Love does not conquer all.

If number one did not make her happy why would number two or three or four?

In fact, she will probably become more unhappy with each one.

This is how things are in the USA.

Most guys are just too ashamed to admit it.

I think it is a very reasonable position.
Nika 2 | 507  
15 Aug 2009 /  #58
So if you know both sides, maybe you could tell us some Polish Girl Stories from your perspective.

sorry but my private life stays private...
So, what are the other places where a man could find some more trustworthy women - we didn't discuss this in my geography classes ;)
SzwedwPolsce 11 | 1,595  
15 Aug 2009 /  #59
Strange impulsive reactions.

Polish girls can also be impulsive, that's for sure. And change their mind often.
johncardwell 3 | 110  
15 Aug 2009 /  #60
Nika:So if you know both sides, maybe you could tell us some Polish Girl Stories from your perspective.

Wasn't asking about your private life.
Stories that you may have heard and think are credible.

Also if you know of any good stories that would be nice also.

So much of the time only the bad gets talked about.

ShelleyS: That would make a nice change than having to read about your sad pittyful attempts at pulling women.

Ive been to CZ many many times and if you cant pull there, then you must be either really ugly or a right retarded yank who's still wearing a baseball cap and dodgy lookin chinos, so even the cheapest wh*re wont let you near here until you flash your cash. In fact, imagine you to be one of those sados that even the postitutes shut up shop when they see you passing, ever wondered why they've got the "out for lunch" sign up at 11pm?

Back for more, huh?
I though you were at your castration squad meeting.

How's that diet coming along?
How about those new dentures?
Don't worry, a new girlfriend for you is just around the corner.

And please don't fight her over who gets to wear the strap.

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