So if a Polish woman refuses to conform to your standards she's a heart breaker? Despite the outwardly loose approach to religion its a big thing for many Poles, if you're willing to drop it all for her, get a divorce, convert to Catholicism and try from there.
try to read clearly plz, i am not offerring a religious fight here. I am not loosing my religion but i have no issues with hers, and i really really dont want to start on poles and their religion. who should i get divorce from? i am not married anymore, why shud i convert when i can adjust to both religions, my religion fortunately has the flexibility to absorb both jew and christianns, unlike poles.
entire posts screams "if she conforms to my standards i'll love her" which is typicall of the muslims really.
Its not true I never asked for any standards, I already love her a lot and even so many times she broke my heart and killed my passion i am still in love with her and trying to makeup. and please for God sake if you are an educated person use decent language, i am not here to fight but to share different opinions. mind it!
Leave her, leave Britain and get back to your country where you can find a woman who will accept you and everything you carry in your head, i sincerely doubt any civilized European girl can be happy with you long term.
You judge too fast. You have to know first what is civilization really is!, is sleeping with different people is civilization? is changing partners like clothes, filling self desires is that civilization? where people get drunk every night and make fools of themselves and others, where mother can be naked in sauna with her son is that civilization? where people think that sex is the purpose of life is that what you call civilization? My friend Europe is no more civilized, where people are living lives like animals surrounded by big buildings like cages, having all sorts of animal desires. If all this you call civilization then i really doubt your state of mind. Grow up think mature.
f you indeed come from one of the goatloving states with arranged marriages et cetera then for a civilized European woman you could as well come from Mars
As i said before many times that i never forced her to change her life style, so it really doesnot mattter how is my culture cuz i adjusted to her because i dont want to loose her.
Then why chase after a European women? You seem to have a very low opinion.
well my friend love can do wonders, I never wanted to date a eurpeon girl, we were just friends and i fell in love. cant come out of it easy
so why not leave the UK and do that.
Well i wud try my level best to keep her happy and stick with her as long as possible, atleast i wud not regret that i didnt tried for the woman i loved the most! :) she is love of my life.
Generalizing people like that shows that you're biased and closed-minded. Do you really think all polish women are the same? So are all muslims the same too?
You maybe right a bit but as i said i changed my self a lot and adjusted to her very much and i am still trying. I am not saying i am asking other polish woman that wud they have done the same to me if they were her. besides I am not the first case there has been many.
secondly, why even whining about personal stuff of this sort on a public forum? It's pretty childish to me, since clearly you don't want to share your experience, but what you want to do is make people think that everyone in Poland is like your ex. And man, this is just wrong.
I agree i am a bit whinny at times and this is post is quite childish, but when you dont have ears to listen to you do things like that, sorry about that. i dont want to say that everyone is like that i want to know is it always like that whenever diff religious people meet?
My advice is: accept the fact that relationships sometimes fall apart, that's just life. Don't try to look for excuses and don't go around placing blame on Europeans (oh, bad bad europeans.. why did you go there then, huh?), their cultural or religious background, stats, or whatsoever. Be a man and take it as a man,k?
Look at the bright side.. at least you're not a virgin anymore :)
Pity though, they say if you wait it out till 30 you can do magic ;)
Well i have accepted it already, but i am just analyzing the reasons why she freaked out when i was giving everything. so i came to think about eurpeon standards and i really found them like that and i guess i discussed them here. i am not saying that they are all bad but at most the euorpeopn culture is like that and has certain flaws. having said that i am not defending my culture either it has its flaws that we can discuss in a different topic.
and about virginity i am not happy to loose it, i cud have done it when i was 18. :) i am not ugly :)