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Are Polish girls charity workers?


JustysiaS  13 | 2235  
25 Aug 2009 /  #31
And on an unrelated topic...why do hot girls visit the toilet more often than less attractive girls? There're two girls sitting nearby...the hotter one is off every five minutes.

probably reapplying make-up or something like that, hence why she looks hot ;D. or her phone is set to vibrating mode and she's nipping out to the loo to txt the other girls boyfriend ha ha
tornado2007  11 | 2270  
25 Aug 2009 /  #32
you know the funny thing sometimes in clubs its so hot the make-up goes all over the show, that could also be another reason for them going to the toilet, well that will teach them for putting fifteen layers on won't it :):)

However i'm still going for the drinks theory i posted earlier
JustysiaS  13 | 2235  
25 Aug 2009 /  #33
with make-up, the golden rules goes: less is more. i see very young girls with pretty faces and flawless skin (makes me jealous cos my combination skin is driving me crazy sometimes, so difficult to find the right cosmetics and foundation to keep it all in check) (sorry for the rant lol) wearing so much slap on that they look like their own mothers! what's the point of that?
tornado2007  11 | 2270  
25 Aug 2009 /  #34
with make-up, the golden rules goes: less is more. i see very young girls with pretty faces and flawless skin wearing so much slap on that they look like their own mothers! what's the point of that?

I know, thats the point, i do not understand it either. Surely the whole point of make-up is to accompany what is already there, not completely change it?? Its also not good for your skin as you grow up if you continually drown it in make-up and fake tan to the max, just look at some of the 30/40 somethings now!!!! OMG its enough to give you nightmares. Its ashame to see such beautiful, attractive and pretty girls/women spoiling themselves by throwing it on by the bucket load.

(makes me jealous cos my combination skin is driving me crazy sometimes, so difficult to find the right cosmetics and foundation to keep it all in check)

Just think of it this way, there are many girls who are in a much worse of position than yourself, i know it does not help directly at the end of the day. What it should do though is mentally lighten your task when you think how lucky you are :)

(sorry for the rant lol)

everybody has a rant now and again, i mean take me for example!!!
beckski  12 | 1609  
25 Aug 2009 /  #35
beckski:
Correction, Polish-American (and proud!)
a cute one too ;)

Thanks dude.

i think its because the hotter girls have more drinks bought for them

I was thinking the same thing torny.
southern  73 | 7059  
25 Aug 2009 /  #36
I think about it this way.The czech woman told me that polish girls
1.Want to marry
2.Are shot in the head
3.Some of them give it for small money

So if you think it is more normal for them to choose either an ordinary man who they will marry(like you are not looking for the hot model when you decide to marry),or an ordinary guy who can give them some money.

Shot in the head means that they are unstable and have some peculiar opinions they persist on.

I just witnessed a foreign guy getting picked up by a particularly bold Polish girl. A soft, unsure looking guy

I was also picked up by my first polish gf.She told me she liked extremely the fact that I looked very shy and that my hands were shaking while talking to her.

Now my current tries to turn me into total pantoflarz by giving orders.Buy me a lighter,buy cigarettes,buy water.Let's leave etc.
scrappleton  - | 829  
25 Aug 2009 /  #37
Buy me a lighter,buy cigarettes,buy water.

..you need to buy her a muzzle.
Lodz_The_Boat  32 | 1522  
25 Aug 2009 /  #38
Polish girls instead seem to want to do, date or "help out" the losers, retarded, weak, ugly, lazy and guys of a lower status))

You describe yourself well. As all those qualities are present in people who think of others like that.
southern  73 | 7059  
25 Aug 2009 /  #39
As all those qualities are present in people who think of others like that.

So if I think that polish girls date stunning men of high quality,it means that I am one of them?

There is also the factor of their friends.Polish girls maybe afraid that if they date a hot guy,her friends will be extremely jealous,cause problems and very likely sleep with their boyfriend too.So they end with a much less attractive guy.They are generally afraid when a hot guy approaches them and her friends may trie to separate you from her if they see you a a threat.There are lots of dynamics with friends in Poland,that is why many times I prefer the private character of things in CR.Because in CR you can be very individual,you do not have to conform and go with the trend.

Mediocre guys can fit in every environment while guys having an edge appear as ridicule in a long macro environment involving mediocre guys and polish girls look to mediocre guys to help them wih jobs,directions etc.

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Lodz_The_Boat  32 | 1522  
25 Aug 2009 /  #40
polish girls

Where the hell do you ppl get such ideas really :S
southern  73 | 7059  
25 Aug 2009 /  #41
What are your ideas?Do not tell us about goodness again.
OP LukeXX  4 | 75  
25 Aug 2009 /  #42
You describe yourself well. As all those qualities are present in people who think of others like that.

Elementary Dr Watson!

... so if you think that those oldish ladies with red high heels, black leather miniskirt and blong wig walking the streets past midnight are wh*res ... you are a male wh*re!

Right?

I suggest you stick to plumbing for a career.

Mediocre guys can fit in every environment while guys having an edge appear as ridicule in a long macro environment involving mediocre guys and polish girls look to mediocre guys to help them wih jobs,directions etc.

Plus Polish girls will keep their mediocre loser boyfriends as emotional safety nets .. while sleeping around with all sort of other guys.
Lodz_The_Boat  32 | 1522  
25 Aug 2009 /  #43
Do not tell us about goodness again

When you said that it sounded like a pest who dont wanna hear about insectisides again.

Polish women are sensible and smart women. They can also be foolish, but as much as women in any other part of the world.

Perhaps Polish women find other darker races attractive too. But that is not unusual. The rate of such incidents are maybe not completely neglegible, but its not as high as you guys stress.

A man can have many edges. Perhaps beyond just ordinarily accepted good looks, there are other factors like responsible, caring and affectionate. Someone reliable, someone who loves in a special and higher or more assuring manner. Someone who gives you more value, than in the general way.

Good looks are and have always been an arguable/debatable topic. There is no perfect look, and every look has its own edge over the other. Be it height, complexion, hair or eyes, ethnicity or accent etc. There was never a perfect judge of beauty, and the only definition of the Greatest beauty we get is of the Mysterious and Unseen beings 'God'. 'God' is also the most ancient definition of 'Love'. In such a situation, its not hard to realise that beauty lies in beyond ordinary definitions... its something too big to be conceived in a mind.

For the SELF PROCLAIMED beautiful men (or women) here... its just a statement of an ignorant. Or someone who wants to defend his/her remaining frailties, under false-statements or masks of fakeness.

True beauty lays in true love. And true love is too pure to be found in something (or a certain time) which is not eternal, which is subjected to decay, which is supposed to be gone oneday...

... so if you think that those oldish ladies with red high heels, black leather miniskirt and blong wig walking the streets past midnight are wh*res ... you are a male wh*re!

First of all, calling someone a 'wh*re' no matter what she needs to do is not a gentleman thing. You or no-one has any idea what pushed her in that life.

Plus, my quote is not about this. Its about speculation, doubt, falsfinding and backbiting nature of people. Those who blame others with the help of those tools, are themselves the carrier of the vices they claim others to have.

Plus Polish girls will keep their mediocre loser boyfriends as an emotional safety nets .. while sleeping around with all sort of other guys.

I have met better people. I am a Pole. You are someone desperate who couldnt get a girl in his or any other country. Due to being the personality you are.
southern  73 | 7059  
25 Aug 2009 /  #44
it sounded like a pest who dont wanna hear about insectisides again.

Mr. Gentleman have I called you a pest?

man can have many edges. Perhaps beyond just ordinarily accepted good looks, there are other factors like responsible, caring and affectionate. Someone reliable, someone who loves in a special and higher or more assuring manner. Someone who gives you more value, than in the general way.

So you suggest that all these low value guys have the above qualities?Maybe it is just wishful thinking to suppose they posess them.
Lodz_The_Boat  32 | 1522  
25 Aug 2009 /  #45
So you suggest that all these low value guys have the above qualities

some statement... low value and qualities. I suggest that PEOPLE can posses such qualities. And you can never classify that on race or nationality.

Mr. Gentleman have I called you a pest?

Its something I remembered... like the fly of Mortein... Why you get offended :-o :)
southern  73 | 7059  
25 Aug 2009 /  #46
that PEOPLE can posses such qualities.

Yes,but Luke claims that polish girls choose guys with obvious disabilities and obvious handicaps independant of race.
Alx123  - | 180  
25 Aug 2009 /  #47
I was also picked up by my first polish gf.She told me she liked extremely the fact that I looked very shy and that my hands were shaking while talking to her.

I've had similar experiences. A girl I once had a thing with told me that she didn't like me at first because she thought I was too sure of myself, but later she realised that I had 'insecurities' and wasn't such a confident person....that was when she started to become attracted to me.

After reading that comment of yours I stopped two girls in Krakow today and did like you did, pretended to be shy. I even told one girl that my Polish was worse than usual because I'm very shy around pretty girls. Well...you seem to be right. They were both very friendly - got one number (from the hotter one), the other told me she had a boyfriend but was friendly nevertheless.

A man can have many edges. Perhaps beyond just ordinarily accepted good looks, there are other factors like responsible, caring and affectionate.

It is not about looks - not for me. I accept that some girls will not find me good-looking while others will. It's about the whole package, including humour, lack of neediness, independence, uniqueness, ambition, coolness, etc. Of course a low value guy is going to be 'caring' and 'affectionate' with a high value girl.

As for your statements on 'love', there is a difference between love and attachment/dependency. A low value guy in a relationship with a higher value girl is obviously going to be attached - his self-esteem depends on it - without the girl he's gonna feel like a loser/nobody again. IMO, 'true love' can only exist between two people of equal self-worth.
scrappleton  - | 829  
25 Aug 2009 /  #48
Plus Polish girls will keep their mediocre loser boyfriends as emotional safety nets ..

Well yeah, she finds it tough going to brow beat a man with self esteem. Strange and sad to find your jollies that way.
Lodz_The_Boat  32 | 1522  
25 Aug 2009 /  #49
independant of race.

My comments are also of a wider margin

humour, lack of neediness, independence, uniqueness, ambition, coolness, etc.

Who is the judge of these qualities. Maybe they exist in the other person more... maybe you dont want to accept because you were not accepted.

IMO, 'true love' can only exist between two people of equal self-worth.

First of all, all God's creatures are equally special.

Secondly... love is most intense of with people of different balances. Otherwise, Jesus have no love for us.
southern  73 | 7059  
25 Aug 2009 /  #50
First of all, all God's creatures are equally special.

Secondly... love is most intense of with people of different balances. Otherwise, Jesus have no love for us.

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Is this the way polish girls think?Because it may offer an explanation.When Jesus gets involved,hands up.
Alx123  - | 180  
25 Aug 2009 /  #51
First of all, all God's creatures are equally special.

Secondly... love is most intense of with people of different balances. Otherwise, Jesus have no love for us.

This is where our communication ends.
Lodz_The_Boat  32 | 1522  
25 Aug 2009 /  #52
It doesnt mean that I am suggesting that those people who you feel threatened by are the low people ... thus the lower balance. It may be that there is something there which the Polish girl dont have... or you dont have. And there is something in the girl which they dont have. And then they complete.

Its not just about a Polish girl... but any girl who is matured and clear.
mvefa  5 | 591  
25 Aug 2009 /  #53
again one of this threads hehe
Maybe you should admire that polish girls can see beyond the facade that guys with fast cars, good paying jobs or so-called intelectual ability, put in display to atrack chicks.

And thats a good thing right? or would you like your girl to be after your fast car or just wad of cash?
aphrodisiac  11 | 2427  
25 Aug 2009 /  #54
Maybe you should admire that polish girls can see beyond the facade that guys with fast cars, good paying jobs or so-called intelectual ability, put in display to atrack chicks.

so far, no girl is after him, regardless of his stunning looks, intelligence, charm, fast car (fast computer). It is really a mystery why they are not successful.

To be honest, those 3 guys have no idea about the cultural differences. What are they? It depends what culture they come from and what values they were thought at home.
mvefa  5 | 591  
25 Aug 2009 /  #55
regardless of his stunning looks, intelligence, charm, fast car (fast computer). It is really a mystery why they are not successful.

NAAhhh they are just a threesome of butt ugly, beer-bellied, acne-filled, matherfakers, with no cent to even lend a book at a library :P
aphrodisiac  11 | 2427  
25 Aug 2009 /  #56
hey, I was trying to be nice to them:) and create a charity post, so I could stay on topic;)P
mvefa  5 | 591  
25 Aug 2009 /  #57
yeah we should be charitative, you are right

Oh my gosh, those 3 are such winners, loaded and so handsome, damn! i wish i had their looks!

sniff..
aphrodisiac  11 | 2427  
25 Aug 2009 /  #58
sniff

who said that life is fair;P
mvefa  5 | 591  
25 Aug 2009 /  #59
Life is bytch! hahaha
Alx123  - | 180  
25 Aug 2009 /  #60
again one of this threads hehe
Maybe you should admire that polish girls can see beyond the facade that guys with fast cars, good paying jobs or so-called intelectual ability, put in display to atrack chicks.

And thats a good thing right? or would you like your girl to be after your fast car or just wad of cash?

I never said it was a bad thing that they are not into succesful guys (in materialstic terms). I have always said that it can be a good thing. But I do not believe that they 'see beyond' anything. I wasn't saying that they should only go for successful, wealthy guys. Hell no. There are plenty of cool guys who aren't flashy. I'm just trying to figure out why many of them make the strange choices that they make, like dating guys that their less-attractive western counterparts wouldn't touch.

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