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southern 74 | 7,074  
26 Aug 2009 /  #91
Guys I will give you an advice grom my experience.If you want to lean how to pick up polish,czech girls,travel to Ukraine.Ukrainian girls will tell you everything you have to know,they will correct you as to adjust to slavic environment and expectations.Polish and czech girls will not correct you.Either you have what they want or you do not.

For example an ukrainian girl will say to you:''If you buy me a mobile phone,I will sleep with you.''A polish or a czech girl will never say that.Instead a czech girl will say:

'I have problems with the mobile,I cannot send sms I am very embarassed.''The polish girl will say ''I lost my job,I am in terrible condition,had to sell my mobile.''You have to complete the rest.

The above is a gross example,there are many nuances but in all cases polish and czech girls do not say fully the sentence,you have to complete it.You learn the sentence in Ukraine or in Russia.
tornado2007 11 | 2,270  
26 Aug 2009 /  #92
Well then explain yourself. Why is it wrong? What are your observations? Polish girls don't tend to go out with crap guys? (I just couldn't resist using that phrase again LOL)

The term 'crap guys' or whatever term you wish to use is a personal point of view, just because somebody is 'crap' in your or anybody else's view, does that make it so??

Why do you and the OP and probably others feel the need to pick at Polish girls specifically for their choice of partners?? What is it to do with you if Kasia 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8 and Karolina 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8 go out with guy 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,910?? Everybody is different?? right??

I just don't see why somebody would suddenly think, 'ow don't Poish girs go out with such losers, i think i'm going to post about it' how does it come to that, what process goes through an individuals head??

I have no problem explaining mysef at all, i'm simply saying that it is the choice of the girl/guy who they are partners with, whatever other individuals may think. Every guy has lost out to another at some point in his life and you may think 'i can't believe she has picked him over me' does it make them a loser?? crap?? etc etc, i just can't see any other reason for posting this unless there is some underlying bitter past behind it. Or maybe its just simply having a pop at Polkas??

Or do you think sticking up for Polish girls is going to get you laid somehow?

what?? that is such a childish thing to say, why would i come onto a forum, defend a group of people (as you put it) with any thought what so ever about getting laid?? Sex, relationships, girlfriends was not on my mind when i replied to the op. Maybe your the one obsessed with all of the above

(I have news for you...well, hmm... better not)

I could not care less, if i want to hear/see the news i wil turn the box on and listen to Peter Sissons, John Snow etc etc.
Alx123 - | 180  
26 Aug 2009 /  #93
Guys I will give you an advice grom my experience

You have a point there. Good observation. About 8 years ago many Polish girls used to talk like the Ukrainians you are describing. I remember being in a club with an American friend of mine. We were at the bar and a hot girl said to him "You are very handsome" and then kissed him and said "I want chicken McNuggets". That would not happen now.

I just don't see why somebody would suddenly think, 'ow don't Poish girs go out with such losers, i think i'm going to post about it' how does it come to that, what process goes through an individuals head??

Because it's peculiar and funny that people notice the same thing. And the topic clearly more edgy and interesting than 'Polish girls are the most beautiful in the world'. Ok, it's negative, which is unfortunate..but isn't the slogan of this forum "Poland: the good and the bad"?

And believe it or not...I like Polish girls. I don't approve of a lot their choices, but there are positive sides too. It's just not as fun to discuss them.
OP LukeXX 4 | 75  
26 Aug 2009 /  #94
[quote=tornado2007][/quote]
Damn you are still here? I though you said your night shift was starting at 12 and that makes you late for work. Need to get some kip myself now.

Not much to say in reply except that you don't have a clue about what is going on.

My posts may come across as heavy but there is some truth in them if you bother looking around ... ;)
tornado2007 11 | 2,270  
26 Aug 2009 /  #95
Because it's peculiar and funny that people notice the same thing. And the topic clearly more edgy and interesting than 'Polish girls are the most beautiful in the world'

Wel you know, i cannot disagree with that one bit, i'm actually pleased not to see another 'the polish chicks are so pretty' :)

Ok, it's negative

listen to be honest i don't mind if its negative or positive, i just think that in this case they are being pigeon holed!!!! I also think the guy who posted the thread did not do so in the correct manner, i think he should explain himself a little more.

Let me explain...

Polish girls instead seem to want to do, date or "help out" the losers, retarded, weak, ugly, lazy and guys of a lower status))

you think that is a good way of writting it?? what part of the population is he taking about here?? what light is he trying to place polish girls?? Why would he write something like this if he himself was not affected in some way??

what he thinks he is an 'alpha male' 'quality man' lol :)

So far so good but the problem here is that this leaves guys of real quality thinking: "how can I go out with these girls when they ... just ... go ... for ... anything?"

that is what he thinks to himself!!!! Really, well maybe his view is founded on his OWN expeiences and is not built upon research of any exstent.

I'd call it a defeat of natural selection))

looks like to me as he speaks trying to be one of these 'quality, alpha, male men' :) you've got to be kidding me right.

So just because this guy feels he has lost out in the past, he feels the need to post on a public website that Polish girls are this and that and go for losers?? why is that?? not really the behaviour of a quality man is it?? Bringing down a whoe population to validate his own downfalls

Damn you are still here? I though you said your night shift was starting at 12 and that makes you late for work. Need to get some kip myself now.

no no i said i was going to bed at 12am, not starting work. I see now why you asked if i was a taxi driver.

Not much to say in reply except that you don't have a clue about what is going on.

thats because there is nothing going on, you are just wrong about whatever your silly little conspiracy is.

My posts may come across as heavy but there is some truth in them if you bother looking around ... ;)

i don't mind people speaking the truth, there just needs to be a bit of 'backup' if your going to make sweeping statements about groups of people.
aphrodisiac 11 | 2,437  
26 Aug 2009 /  #96
Bringing down a whoe population to validate his own downfalls

amen
Alx123 - | 180  
26 Aug 2009 /  #97
what?? that is such a childish thing to say,

Yep, I know. Guilty as charged.

can't see any other reason for posting this unless there is some underlying bitter past behind it.

Look, I can see why you and others would say that. But, if you look around you there is something there. I mean, even the Polish girls on this forum aren't exactly denying it. But I think I've had my 'fun' and may drop the topic. Apologies to all the decent Polish girls out there.

PS Shelley, you are still a racist fuggly.
tornado2007 11 | 2,270  
26 Aug 2009 /  #98
Yep, I know. Guilty as charged.

everybody has an inner child, therefore will say something childish now and again, its natural TO ALL OF US lol.

Look, I can see why you and others would say that. But, if you look around you there is something there.

as i said before, its about opinions, the guy who posted was stating his opinion based on his own experiences. How does that extend into a full blown truth??

I mean, even the Polish girls on this forum aren't exactly denying it. But I think I've had my 'fun' and may drop the topic. Apologies to all the decent Polish girls out there.

Don't get me wrong, not all polish girls are decent, nice etc etc i just see this as a little unfair.
Salomon 2 | 436  
26 Aug 2009 /  #99
In my opinion some people generalize to much about eastern block girls...

I remeber that when I was living in Germany it was normal when richer parents were talking for their children to take used condoms with them after the sex (to avoid self fertilization by poor girl) and to not believe in pills when it comes to girls from lower class.

Some girls rush on money, some on intelect, some on color of skin some on nationality it is long story... but eastern block is very specific place... and it is another interesting and noticable fact ;-)
Alx123 - | 180  
26 Aug 2009 /  #100
Don't get me wrong, not all polish girls are decent, nice etc etc i just see this as a little unfair.

I'm not dropping it because of anything you've said. I really do not approve of the dating choices that many Polish girls make, and I have observed more of them than you. I just don't want to dwell on it anymore. It was funny at first 'cause it seemed that no one else was talking about it and I felt there was too much kissing up and fairy tales. Ok, the language is a bit colourful but hey, that's satire.

It went a bit far, but again there is a pattern and I do not believe the crap guy thing is a matter of opinion: the inferiority complex exists, and many Polish girls will admit that themselves. You seem to be a little bit naive to deny that there's any grain of truth to it at all...but anyway...to decent Polish girls it's a bit unfair perhaps, to the crap-guy lovers (LOL), well perhaps they'll wake up a bit..

PS Shelley _____________. hmm....fill in the blanks :)
tornado2007 11 | 2,270  
26 Aug 2009 /  #101
I really do not approve of the dating choices that many Polish girls make

why?? what does it have to do with you?? how does it affect you?? what does it matter what the individual Polish girl picks as a partner, husband or boyfriend, i mean damn it even a fcuk buddy???

I have observed more of them than you

you may very well have done, still though my original point stands, what does it matter to 'YOU' personally?? i don't see how it changes or affects you life that much.

I just don't want to dwell on it anymore. It was funny at first 'cause it seemed that no one else was talking about it and I felt there was too much kissing up and fairy tales. Ok, the language is a bit colourful but hey, that's satire.

i don't mind if you have a point of view and state it, or if it is different to mine, all i ask is that you partake in debate, discussion etc etc that does not lower itself to personal attacks and deflecting questions (i'm not saying you have but the OP on the otherhand, thats a different story)

It went a bit far, but again there is a pattern and I do not believe the crap guy thing is a matter of opinion: the inferiority complex exists, and many Polish girls will admit that themselves.

so you think that if a Polish girl likes a guy, who is really nice, polite, friendly, helpful, caring etc etc but has a little bit of a self esteem issue, that makes him an invalid choice?? Or because he is percieved to be 'ugly' by others?? you think that is right??

You seem to be a little bit naive to deny that there's any grain of truth to it at all...but anyway...to decent Polish girls it's a bit unfair perhaps, to the crap-guy lovers (LOL), well perhaps they'll wake up a bit..

its not that i don't believe that there may be some strange choices, i just don't believe in calling out a whole section of the population including the Polish girls and the guys they choose. Whoever somebody chooses as a partner is totally their choice and their choice only and do not deserve to be picked on for that choice.
Salomon 2 | 436  
26 Aug 2009 /  #102
tornado2007

You talk BS. Tornado - bilingual people who can claim both - Polish or forign nationality can tell you the truth about having easy sex in polish club ...

Polish girls have low selfesteem it is proven : dziennik.pl/kobieta/article411546/Polki_to_brzydule.html?service=print

Only Japanese girls have lower self esteem from checked countries. If somebody form Poland wants to conquer female in this way he can always go to Ukraine and have what he wants (it is question if he is really looking for it)
JustysiaS 13 | 2,239  
26 Aug 2009 /  #103
Salomon

feck off you troll. only the ones that shag the likes of you may have a problem with their identity and confidence, otherwise we are perfectly fine, decent people. get a life and get out. oh and learn some English.
Salomon 2 | 436  
26 Aug 2009 /  #104
JustysiaS you are example of girl we are discussing about. It is not the pitty that you exist ... anny guy who is looking for something like you can go to Ukraine or place and get one on the same basis ...

What is more you agression towards me shows one thing - I am right in what I say.

What is more I am more than happy in my private life :) and I've met girls like you in many different countries ... :) Not only eastern block one :)
tornado2007 11 | 2,270  
26 Aug 2009 /  #105
You talk BS. Tornado - bilingual people who can claim both - Polish or forign nationality can tell you the truth about having easy sex in polish club ...

so now its turned from picking the guy, to 'easy sex' i don't think i'm the one talking BS my man!!!!

Polish girls have low self esteem it is proven

stats stats stats, can be turned any which way you want them, don't throw rubbish like this at me again. I don't care for stats, i would rather go on the Polish girls i have actually met and spoke to.

If somebody form Poland wants to conquer female in this way he can alwyas go to Ukraine and have what he wants (it is question if he is realy looking for it)

so what if he can, what a big man he is, wwwwwhhhhhhoooopppyyyyyyyyyyy

You just carry on pigeon holing a whole population!!!

JustysiaS you are example of girl we are discussing about. It is not the pitty that you exist ... anny guy who is looking for something like you can go to Ukraine or place and get one on the same basis ...

so so lost in your silly little thoughts that you've taken to making personal insults to somebody you know nothing about, obviously you have no respect for women what so ever.

What is more you agression towards me shows one thing - I am right in what I say.

No it just shows that JustysiaS is not used to guys being disrespectful, probably more shock than anythng!

What is more I am more than happy in my private life :)

well good for you

and I've met girls like you in many different countries ... :)

how the heck do you know what JustysiaS is like??
Salomon 2 | 436  
26 Aug 2009 /  #106
so so lost in your silly little thoughts that you've taken to making personal insults to somebody you know nothing about, obviously you have no respect for women what so ever.

LOL tornado just don't pretend that you are JustysiaS deffender. I know here as you know her. I read her posts ect. I have got my opinion about her. I know that you provoke the continuation of the show... :)

so what if he can, what a big man he is, wwwwwhhhhhhoooooooooooopppppppppppppyyyyyyyyyyyYou just carry on pigeon holing a whole population!!!

I am not claiming that he is big man. I just notice simple fact. I've been in Ukraine and I've been in the club and I've seen on which basis girls made some choices there... and yeah if somebdoy is looking for the flash it is perfect place to go.

... it is just like with English girls who are looking for sex with balck man on holydays in Jamaica.

No it just shows that JustysiaS is not used to guys being disrespectful, probably more shock than anythng!

:)

You just carry on pigeon holing a whole population!!!

I am talking about specific part of population which in one countries is bigger in other smaller and has some differences in details.
aphrodisiac 11 | 2,437  
26 Aug 2009 /  #107
... it is just like with English girls who are looking for sex with balck man on holydays in Jamaica.

it is called sex tourism and both sexes are doing it. What is wrong with that if you are no doing it yourself:).
Jamaica is poor, western women/men have money - it is an exchange of services. I might not agree with that but it is not my business. I am sure you have done it;)
tornado2007 11 | 2,270  
26 Aug 2009 /  #108
LOL tornado just don't pretend that you are JustysiaS deffender

i'm not anyones defender, i'm just speaking up for what i think is right/wrong, it does not matter who is involved. I'm not out to score points, i just don't like the disrespect towards women, whoever that may be.

Ow and as for being 'JustysiaS' defender, you can drop that one straight away, she hates my guts, why would i defend somebody who does not like me?? Its women i'm defending and in general, the disrespect shown by yourself towards women.

I know here as you know her. I read her posts ect. I have got my opinion about her

to be honest that is not much to go on is it really??

know that you provoke the continuation of the show... :)

what show might that be then, i was/am making a serious point about your thoughts/respect, shown towards and about women.

I am not claiming that he is big man.

no no no, sorry the whoopy thing was a bit silly, i actually did mean 'good for you' Just becuase i disagree with your views/conduct it does not mean i wish you grief in your personal life.

... it is just like with English girls who are looking for sex with balck man on holydays in Jamaica

yeah or lonely middle aged ladies from England going to Turkey for their 18 year old Turkish toy boy!!!
Alx123 - | 180  
26 Aug 2009 /  #109
you may very well have done, still though my original point stands, what does it matter to 'YOU' personally?? i don't see how it changes or affects you life that much.

Never said it did.

so you think that if a Polish girl likes a guy, who is really nice, polite, friendly, helpful, caring etc etc but has a little bit of a self esteem issue, that makes him an invalid choice?? Or because he is percieved to be 'ugly' by others?? you think that is right??

If he's a cool, genuine, decent guy, 'ugly' or not, I'd say she made a good choice. But if he has a major esteem issue then you have to question the choice. Or if he's boring, or too big-headed (I've seen that too), or very shallow and playing the girl, etc. It's nice that everyone has a chance, but some don't deserve it.
tornado2007 11 | 2,270  
26 Aug 2009 /  #110
ok, now that somebody has explained it to me in a more sensible, practical way i understand where you are coming from. This may happen, it probably does, however that still does not mean a tag should be attached to Polish girls, does it??
Salomon 2 | 436  
26 Aug 2009 /  #111
yeah or lonely middle aged ladies from England going to Turkey for their 18 year old Turkish toy boy!!!

You can claim them to be lonely middle age girls ... like some people claim JustysiaS to be vilage girl from pathologic family ...

Anny way without claiming if it is shame or not - everyody knows about famous trips of English girls to exotic countries... not always loney and not atractive ...

It is globalisation - sex in Jamaica, security somewhere ealse ;-) Of course we are talking only about part of the population.

As to ypur other arguments - my speach wasn't sign of disrespect towards female but it was rather sign of disrespect towards person who starts discussion with me from "feck off".
aphrodisiac 11 | 2,437  
26 Aug 2009 /  #112
It is globalisation - sex in Jamaica, security somewhere ealse ;-) Of course we are talking only about part of the population.

that's right. good correction on your part;P
Alx123 - | 180  
26 Aug 2009 /  #113
ok, now that somebody has explained it to me in a more sensible, practical way i understand where you are coming from. This may happen, it probably does, however that still does not mean a tag should be attached to Polish girls, does it??

That is unfortunate, but the generalisation is justified because it happens so often. Of course, it doesn't apply to every member of the female population of Poland, that is obvious. If you read my posts, you'll find that I have been careful to qualify my statements with 'Polish girls tend to', 'many Polish girls', 'a lot of Polish girls', etc.
tornado2007 11 | 2,270  
26 Aug 2009 /  #114
As to ypur other arguments - my speach wasn't sign of disrespect towards female but it was rather sign of disrespect towards person who starts discussion with me from "feck off".

what so that is all it takes to get you going, one 'feck off' come on man you should be bigger than that!!!! Take it on the chin and roll with it, you don't need to reply to it like you did, keep it above the belt and make your point.

You can claim them to be lonely middle age girls ... like some people claim JustysiaS to be vilage girl from pathologic family ...

Anny way without claiming if it is shame or not - everyody knows about famous trips of English girls to exotic countries... not always loney and not atractive ...

i'm not doubting any of that, however i'm happy to let them do what they want to do, if they are open about it (i mean they have been on C4 documentaries) then let them get on with it. No matter what i think about it, nothing is going to change, anyway that is not the discussion topic, lol.

That is unfortunate, but the generalisation is justified because it happens so often. Of course, it doesn't apply to every member of the female population of Poland, that is obvious. If you read my posts, you'll find that I have been careful to qualify my statements with 'Polish girls tend to', 'many Polish girls', 'a lot of Polish girls', etc.

Strange really because i would say the opposite, if i had to say something at all, they go for the other end of the scale. They go out to get what they can, usually that means an upping in status, the man has money, really good job, nice house etc etc.

Its just a game of opinions i think, i still though don't agree with the pigeon hole thing.
Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535  
26 Aug 2009 /  #115
smart women have lowered their usual standards in strange surroundings.

How can you say someone lowered their standards? What a crude judgement. Maybe they have proven that they are better people when it comes to the modern world.

Its onething to have personal tastes, and other to brand/label other people's life and judge their standards. I think the lowest value a person can have is to judge another person's standards in such an illogical, unethical and immoral way.
southern 74 | 7,074  
26 Aug 2009 /  #116
If you notice,everyone here says the same thing.
Alx123 - | 180  
26 Aug 2009 /  #117
I see. Do they have an online payments system. I would like to donate a couple of quid to help them out. May not help in the leg over stakes but a Lech or two to numb the disappointment.....

What a comedian you are. Do me favour...save your money...50p is all we need to get a leg over your girlfriend or wife...beer goggles will definitely come in handy so I'd appreciate it if you could throw in a few Lechs for free :))

[quote=szarlotka][/quote]

Have you contributed anything to the discussion besides that nugget of irresistible wit? Can you do anything else besides jump on the 'I love everything Polish' bandwagon? What have you to do with Poland anyway? You have a Polish girlfriend (gosh, that was difficult) and now you're kissing up to the culture? Shame on you.
southern 74 | 7,074  
26 Aug 2009 /  #118
Alx123

One has to be concrete.Polish girls smell weakness like dogs.If you appear weak,they walk all over you.
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893  
26 Aug 2009 /  #119
You are as racist as it gets lady! And this makes you into a big hypocrite criticizing my satire, doesn't it?!

Why am I hypocrite? What has my sticking up for Polish females got to do with the fact I dont like 3rd world immigrants on my island?

Admin should delete all your pathetic posts, a pair of middle aged men crying on about women because they cant get a look-in, lol..
OP LukeXX 4 | 75  
26 Aug 2009 /  #120
One has to be concrete.Polish girls smell weakness like dogs.If you appear weak,they walk all over you.

haha

But, let me introduce a new insight here. Before settling for a loser (as they always do in the end), some Polish girls may aim higher and, believe it or not, go for a big catch: one of the a cool guys :-0

Of course all that they expect form this guy is that he treats them like dirt, use and abuse them. Pretty much following some scr*wed up recurring female themes: "he is so bad to me but .. I .. love .. him .. so .. much" sob sob.

Now while such guy will naturally look down on a low value Polish girl, he will end up taking pity in her, maybe even developing some sentiment out of hardcore steamy nighttime bed sessions. However, the demands for mistreatment always take a tool on the guy, and in the end the relationship is very short lived.

What happens next is that the Polish girl will go straight back into mercy dating))

Anyone on my same wavelength on this one?

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