im falling in love with a polish girl ive only just met

i was walking down the street and passed a group of three girls and began chating one of them was polish and georgeous , i began to speak with her in polish that i have learnt from some of my polish work mates , i spent all of new years day with her chating and getting to know her , and i have totally fallen head over heals for her , i could see myself spending the rest of my life with her , she has told me she doesnt want to do the boyfriend thing because of her x , who has mistreated her , i want to prove i am a loyal kind and loving guy , can any body give me some advice , i want to let her know that she is the one for me .....

Well, I think you got a lot of good pointers from her - if she REALLY hates her former boyfriend, simply don't be like him ;). But seriously, try to be yourself as in the end that's what counts. Also, regarding her previous boyfriend again, there must have been things she did like about him since she started dating him -- maybe he liked sports, or had an original hobby? Try to get to know her better and I'm sure you'll start up a good relationship.

Also, don't try to be a 'loving wimp' - I think few women like it when their partner shows too much of a feminine side. Stand by your beliefs. Good luck!

she has lost her trust in guys cus of her x, it will take time for her to be able to trust and open up to u, u must be patient. when she sees that u care and understand, she will start opening up to u. and i disagree with the last post

" don't try to be a 'loving wimp' - I think few women like it when their partner shows too much of a feminine side" there is no such thing as too much of a feminine side- its just called being an understanding human being, wich is prob wat this girl is now looking for since her last boy was such an ass

Understanding men can quickly be relocated to "friend status", if they are not careful. In the end he is not her psychiatrist, and if she is not emotionally available he should not get his hopes up.

The way for a loving and long lasting relationship is to be patient and really interested - willing to make the necessary effort. Don't get fooled by the other person's games (maybe she's just using the 'boyfriend thing' as an excuse?), be serious and intellingent. Don't compromise your beliefs and personality, but show that you turly care and that you can give her as much time as she needs.


I don't understand what this person was trying to say. You don't tell a person that you love him/her the first day you meet him/her. But showing affection is essential for any feelings to develop. They do have to be appropriate, but they do have to be present. A flower, a little message, a little good morning over email... just watch the response of the other person. If she responds the same way, means that she reciprocates your feelings, if she doesn't - don't push. She might need more time to get used to this or sort things out for herself. Be appropriate in your love messages.

I've known many cases in which the girl didn't like the boy at first, but he proved over time that he's the best person she ever met and she madly fell in love with him - thanks to his patience, appropriate-ness, not being pushy, but giving her as much time and space as she needs, while making sure that she knows that she can count on him.

dude be carefull i met ma polish wife like from a glace in da corna ov my eyz it was like we shulda spent our hole livez toghetha we culkdent spend 5 seconds whithout each other uMMMMm we got marrid and had kids and 55 rows still i love her and she loves me aint togheter presently it was like a dream da only thing ya gotta remember iz never let her go bad on ya keep her like a jar of suger even if she thinkz she a tomboy type polish gals kinda built up like russianz only harder hearts still i wulda moved to poland and become cassonova don if i new polish galz existed somewhere in da e.u used to live in england then naw im liveing in pakistan whith my lil gigerish single father kinda be prapered to play games whith dis woman possibly fa da rest of ya life i met bare polski galz and dhey like da lager loutz in england poskiy me dupa diz and spipshy dhat still we all have dreamz make em polish ;)

yes it's CHATTED <<<<<<<<<<<<<<

just wait until she cleans you out of $$$:)

Mak.. why are you speaking in that kind of slang?.. not wanting to sound like a school teacher here, but it took me about 10 mins to work out what you were saying.

Best not to bother reading that sort of gibberish.

Thiz be da fekkin annoying way a chav speaks.

You can pour out your emotional side when the time calls for it, like, some people are clearly put off by so much emotional intensity when you're just getting familiar with the feel of the ball in your hands, you throw a little too hard or soft and you may not land a second date.

It's a matter of compatibility. Most importantly stick to your guns. Be you and the right one will like you for who you are. But on showing your real feelings, well definitely wait until she is ready to hear about it. Some people are rather sketchy when it comes to it. I prefer a guy to get to know me before he tells me he loves me. You can think you love someone because of their basic image, or even personal aura but these things will change over time. The core of us hardly changes at all. Getting in touch with that side of a person is the real test.

mak from the ghetto yes bro kill the chavs i type the way i speak iz all bou ma x don days got marrid had a child settled down stoped trying to get shot stabbed and knoked around in accidents at 140 mph whith coppas on ma tail.