my love for a polish girl against all odds

hello everybody
i know that you read this before but i'm in love for a polish woman we have been together for 3 years now but our relationship cause just problems to each other and dont know what do to....i met her online 3 years ago,i'm from Mexico and one day i met this beautiful woman and i felt in love since the first mail on jenuary,we start to exchange mails,she is from warsawa and 3 months later i decided to travel to my beloved,i fly from cancun(my city in mexico) to munich germany(12 hours¡¡¡¡ in the plane),then catch 1 train to berlin and then the warsawa express(another 13 hours¡¡¡) to finally get to warsawa,kind of scary journey not because of you polish people,just me away from my country get to a city late night but my beloved was there and since i saw her i knew she was my "soulmate",i spend 3 weeks in warsawa but then i came back to my country.......few months later i asked her to come to mexico and get married start a new life,she got her on august she never been to the ocean before and she was more then happy to be here,we made lost of plans,find a job for her,get married,have children but then we start to have problems with **** inmigration laws here.....but that was nothing compare what happened on october 21st,the biggest hurricane "wilma" stroke this area,causing destruction and taking down all our dreams,i lose my job and situation was really bad,my beloved affraid to see all this around here,nothing but....destruction and she went back home because that was the only way for her to be safe,i stayed here and tryed to start from cero,then we wait for another 5 months when thigs got better and i brought her back and she was so happy to be here but again,**** inmigrations laws,no possible to find job and when she was close to get one,she got very ill a serious "salmonela" infection and she was at hospital for a week,after this she was affraid to eat or drink something and she lose 20 punds,i felt so powerless when day by day i used to see her to eat nothing but a piece of bread and tea,then she got ill again and that really break me down and she went back home in order to protect her.......i know that all this sounds like a soap opera,but its in a very short msg our history....and i need your advice,i cant live with out my gf and i'm planning to move to pl with her,no matter the situation if i stay here in my country i'll die.......how difficult could be to move there for me? i meant i've been there but its not the same to be there like a tourist .....but im seriously planning to be there to try against everything¡¡¡

Can your girlfriend assist you with this ?
How long does a tourist visa last for ? 90 days ? How many times can you renew it ?
If there is a will there is a way - you could be in the country illegally?

you can do it man.. man ypeople are doing it and seem to do ok. polish language should be much easier for you then english speakers so you're ahead of the urve already. good luck