Why english men like polish women ?

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typical misguided fool. I am happily married to a wonderful guy
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yes, but with your pompous attitude and the attitude of your like let's see how long that lasts. go home, have a drink and ruminate on why the divorce and single rate of london women is so high.. food for thought.

Polish women are 1000 times less likely to divorce than English women.

the closest you have been to a english womens is a ladyboy in soho

ladyboy? Is that what you have been reduced to? Don't give up poor chap.

can you respect the english womens idiot?
poor chap?
a very happy guy married with a english rose!!!!

I've found that the world is full of wonderful women regardless of thier origin, language, social, economical, cultural, or educational background. of course there are always a few bad apples everywhere. ( and you just gotta know when your being played)

They are the best things god ever made.

( the ryme was an accident, really!)

it is so heartening to hear a man who has things properly in perspective ; )
thank you on behalf of the entire female population of the world.
personally I worship the ground men walk on, so it's nice to see that might be reciprocal ... but oh no, do you think you're the only one to think like that??

Of course not, I don't profess to be the only enlightened one. (-:

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How can you call me pompous?? I'm lovely....

I seriously reckon that you've been hurt by a girl in London, hence you are tarring me with the same brush by the way that you refer to "the attitude of your like". There are millions of women in London, and they're not all the same.

Get yourself a Russian mail-order bride who'll worship you and fail to see the fact that you are a rather bitter and screwed up individual who can't handle the women in his own country... as long as you give her access to your bank account and credit card, it'll be a win win situation :)

I'm not misguided... far from it. Who says I'm to get married?? I've known some Polish women to cheat on their boyfriends so I believe you're misguided. A woman is a woman. With your mentality you would never get an English woman. I'd rather have an English girl than a Polish girl due to English girls having the same culture as me, they understand my language crystal clear whether I speak fast or slow and they actually go out.

It's my preference.

Feminism.

Totally screwed up British Women.

Yeah, feminism and Sex and the City screwed up women from the states too. Men are starting to get really fed up with these women acting like men everywhere I go. Feminism is an epidemic. The argument that its good for keeping the population down, is a very bad one. So, the muslims will win if we keep up that one. And they are...

You know, I make enough money to take care of a woman well. But there are no capabale women worth being taken care of, is the problem. Women chase me all the time, cause I am the right age, have money, dress well, but I can't take them anymore. I am living like a monk now. They just disgust me too much. I started to see them now as men in business. Yes, "Kimberly" and "Susan" are now mens' names too...

The truth is that why would I want a mom like Carrie Bradshaw or one of her friends who works all the time? I want a sweet woman that I can come home to, that can be loving to me, and my future children. I don't want a nanny named "Svetlana" to raise my future children.

I don't want to control women or want a stupid uneducated woman. I mean the midwest has plenty of them. Just what happened to people like my grandparents, who stayed happily married till they died? Where did they go? That's what I want.

All the arguments women make about why they need a career are so pathetic: (1) What if the man leaves me? (2) What about equality?

First of all women are not equal to men and why should they be? Specialization is an advancement in life starting with the separation of the sexes. The man is there to defend the home, provide for the woman. The woman is there to take care of the household, raise the children. I won't leave her if she needs me to be there, but if she starts acting horribly, like a feminist, of course I will leave. If I die, my family and insurance will take care of her very well I am sure.

So, anyway, glad I can rant somewhere...

it is strange that women don't complain about feminism, but men who are not catching up with it:)

Yah, and on top of that we have to read to rants.

As for women who are career oriented blame it on the economics since the household cannot be supported by one income in most of the countries, so since men are apparently better with economics, I am surprised that such an important factor is missed.

The tendency for male names to become female is strong (such as Lindsay, Ashley, and especially pet forms such as Jo, Charlie, Ebeneezer... forget about that last one). I've never met a boy named Sue. Where's Johnny Cash when you need him?

There are enough men in the world for women to not need to act like men. The vast majority of those who do will probably suffer the consequences - trying to be something you're not won't make you happy or contented. However, different people have different perceptions of what gender-roles are. If someone wants a woman to stay at home and bring up children, how can that always be possible? My mother had to work when I was a child, albeit at night so she could still look after my brother and I when we weren't at school. That's not exactly the recipe for a happy life - it's a recipe for insomnia.

Feminism is the opposite to the preceding social order, not a balance between the two essential sides of humanity. Balance is not an easy thing to achieve. Humankind is a dynamic rather than a static force.


Some do. It has bad connotations, even amongst women. Read what I wrote about balance.

why don't you read what I have written about the economy and maybe you will understand why women have to work.
I think that the problem is more complicated than that, however I don't have the time to elaborate on such complex issues.

What kind of bad connotations does the feminism has and for whom?

Stop watching TV and buy a book.

I recommend Susan Faludi. I'm sure you would enjoy her stuff :-)

Dont confuse feminism with female emancipation.

Because you hadn't asked me to.

I thought it was related, but anyways, most men and a lot of women don't know much about feminism. I have a major in women and gender studies and even though it is linked to feminism it has moved much beyond that. It is about equality for everybody and if it wasn't for the influence of feminism, many people would be in much worse shape that they are now, which is a good thing.

That may very well be true. The first country to allow the same voting rights for both men and women was Finland, not long after they had escaped from the Russian Empire. There were no suffragettes in Finland. Some of the countries that had the strongest feminist movement in the early 20th century were actually some of the slowest to change.

Just thought I'd throw that into the mix.

Anyway, on the subject of this thread, I'm English, and I like Polish women because they laugh at my attempts to say things in Polish.

So you want a woman to be financially dependent on you but you don't want to control her?


What does Sex and the City have to do with feminism?


Do you realize that working women are not something that feminism and emancipation came up with, but it was something that have always happened? Haven't you ever read of maidservants, seamstresses or governesses? Who were they, if not working women? Only the women of the highest social status didn't work. Neither did their husbands, but these were the husbands who owned the money they inherited and had the right to use it.

Man, go to a library and stop making a fool of yourself.

I also like communism.

if you knew anything about communism that you would not say it. You have no idea what I am talking about so maybe you should keep quiet for a change.

thank you amen!!

southerns form of communism is making people stay within his barbed wire fence by force to be his friend. cause he doesnt have any!!

I have idea.Feminism is about how to exploit men's hormones in the most profitable way.However now men react and they tend not to marry or they find international wives,mail order brides etc.

They are related; feminism had to develop to avoid stagnation. What is classically viewed as feminism (from the 60's to the 70's) became a dead end, a one way street. 18th century thinkers such as Mary Wollstonecraft recognised the potential for this dead end.

The problem in the late 60's and much of the 70's was that socialist thinking that spawned the new womens liberation movement was too insular it also ignored women from the right. Writers were obsessed with countering the argument that feminism was trying to replace the traditional engine of change (the proletariat) with a new force (women). This led to dead end arguments and absurd positions.

Female emancipation was probably helped more by Margaret Thatcher than most people realise. Victorian values and traditional roles espoused by Thatcher counterbalanced by her job and the way she did it, demonstrated to the population at large, that women could play both roles.

The idea is to change minds. Ask a teenage girl about feminism and she may talk about dungarees and unshaved women.

So I prefer to talk about female emancipation rather than the politically charged label of feminism.

Barney,

great post. I will comment on it tomorrow.

cheers

yeah, well then you need to seriously talk to the rest of the world because there is alot of deadbeat daddies out there just avoiding paying or helping their ex's and children.. lots of women doing what they have to do to keep food on the table.. while those sad feks are off doing drugs, drinking, abusing, or whatever to appease.. so what does a woman do for food? money? wait for a guy who doesnt exist to come along and wisk them away from all of it?

now a days you have to worry if the next guy who will come into your life will be a child molester so you have to watch who you date.. lots of weirdos out there!!

we do what we have to .

i couldn't agree more, good post patrycja

All these men are monsters and pigs.Angel women suffer all the time by the bad men.

True.

There are a lot of Mothers out there restricting Father's access to their children.

I don’t think that family breakdown should be used to advance an argument for female emancipation because the classic breakup scenario is that men use money as a weapon and women use children as a weapon. Weapon may be a bit strong but both are used for leverage.