Is She Doomed to be miserable and have her marriage fail?

It was more the translation than the spelling :)

Nil Desperandum <-- Pass me a grape stranger :)

u r throwing me out in left field.. lol bring me back!!

ty for translation though, I really didnt have time to explain i have my own
language lol..

so we have been talking this week, and she told me that she has not missed him at all since he has been gone. Not even shed a tear. She really needs to check herself.

she is planning to break up with him when he gets back because it is not polite to break up when he is in the other side of the world at the moment. Why does she drag it out.

oh get this... they have been living together for a year, and since he has been gone, he has made her pay 100% of the rent/bills while he is out of the country working and making good money. great guy eh? top notch.

mmm better done and dusted this one.

update today.

On Friday of last week, she met with her ex bf from 4 years ago. He walked into her workplace. Completely by chance. they were together 7 months. They had beers and pizza in the evening after work. I don't know if they did anything. Don't care.

She is now thinking about getting back together with him.

Even tho she is engaged, has been unfaithful, her new plan is to just pack her bags and go travel the world.

I've given up on our friendship. I don't need to be her Dr Phil.

Nauczyciel I have a married one who tells me she loves her husband.Anyway I do not care what she does with him,since I get along with her.Friendship to women is a waste of time.This is for losers who cannot get girlfriends.(now I prepare for the feminazi attack).

Oh boy!! This one is a no brainer, she broke his heart already only he doesnt know it YET!!!!!!!! If she cares about him so much,then let him find someone that wont cheat.There are still people like that, Really!!! Doesnt sound like they have a whole lot going on anyhow. Split and find someone else to be happy with and at least give him that opportunity as well. He doesnt sound that compassionate towards her either.

I agree with wilderwaif.....sounds like the best thing for everyone is to go on living there lives separate.....something tells me, she may be creating drama for some attention.....she obviously doesnt care about her "fiance" and I doubt too much he cares about her.

LOL. I am convinced that you have to carry your little black book around on a trolley to avoid the danger of a hernia.

Szar, I'm waiting for the day when some she-devil snares him, ropes and ties him, marries him, and he will be her slave for-ev-er! Karma is due to be paid someday....

:)

He he. Maybe that day has come already and his only escape is to post here......He could well be just another hen pecked husband.