Honestly if it was me knowing that the boyfriend loves her I would leave her be. I did that in Poland...I met a BEAUTIFUL girl who on the last day told me she had a boyfriend(and even introduced us to each other) and later in the day she gave me her address, phone number, etc. After I found out she had a bf I just saw in her eyes a British VISA.. and I'm not the typical English ugly bloke mind you-I was 26 yrs old. However I have to be modest and admit that her boyfriend was better looking than me...;( I never called her and ripped up her note.
My girl came here with her Bf and they were here together for two years, same situation, he loved her, her feelings long gone, but by all accounts he was a b*****d to her..... but she done it and we havent looked back, we are having a ball!
If she wants to leave him for you she will, if its whats she really wants, the hesitation is natural though,even more so if its a her first love and all that blah, but you have to be bold and give her the ultimatum, until you do, she will keep on as is.....
its about how long your happy to play scond fiddle..........
am dating a polish girl 2 and i got a problem can you guys help me 2? here is my problem amd dominican and she polish we both okay with that she in poland at the moment she left because her visa was ending i didnt want her to i even ask her to marry me so she can stay am a us citizen and i make enought for her and me to live but she still left . my problem now is she got denied for a second visa now she stook there and it hasnt been the same since i just got back from poland 1 week ago everything was cool and all her family love me but we had 1 fight there cuz she said am 2 imature about stuff for a 24 year old guy soon 25 in july she is only 20 going to 21 in may. like i really dont know what do do anymore more none of my friends say that imature ever only she has. i dont know much about polish people but us dominicans like to show we care she doesnt like showing her emotions and she think am imature because of that in a way. now she ask me to give her time to think should i end it or give her the time she asked me for. she asked me on fri to give her time until monday but i know she wont tell me nothing tomorrow. so far i havent call her am letting her call me.
we had 1 fight there cuz she said am 2 imature about stuff for a 24 year old guy soon 25 in july she is only 20 going to 21 in may.
but us dominicans like to show we care she doesnt like showing her emotions and she think am imature because of that in a way.
Is she out of her mind? You're showing her how much you care for her and your good intentions, yet she thinks you're an immature guy. Seems to me that she likes cold boys. Give her the time she wants until Monday and if she doesn't call you or anything, she is obviously not taking this relationship serious and it's not longer worth to try and fix things out when she is just being an ignorant. The only one who sounds immature to me is her. Yellow94eg6, there are so many girls out there looking for real love!! If this relationship doesn't work out for you, breath deep and just keep swimming :)
yellow94eg6, shes 20... i think shes a little scared now because of talk about marriage.
mayy be !! I'm 20 but I'm not scared of marriage. I'd love to get engaged ..with my sexy polak ;) omg jj engaged.. ahahahah nice niceeee with a humongous white diamond :D
i dont know much about polish people but us dominicans like to show we care she doesnt like showing her emotions and she think am imature because of that in a way.
I agree with Cropeck. She's very young and maybe she's not ready to become too serious. But I also think her lack of emotions is going to become a problem for you eventually. You're going to miss having a stronger emotional connection to someone.
yeah i was thinking of that maybe she is 2 young to get marry or maybe just never had some1 that really care for her and now she dont know how to take it. maybe i was too nice i send her flowers before just because i missed her at times i called her everyday to c how she doing and if she ever needed anything i was there to help her. if she calls me today ill post up any new info. thanks everyone for your opinions
Personally I'd stay away. She asked you to take her out knowing that her bf is sitting at home thinking she's gone off to work nothing else. Fair enough relationships can go worng but she should break up with him first.
Either way someone is gonna get hurt and if you dont want it to be you leave her before it is getting too hard
ok she just a ***** i guess she hit me up on skype and told me to call her then she didnt even give me some bull **** that she dont know that we talk tommorow now am just **** the f off and i told her that am tired of her **** and she need to know what she want 2day by the time i get back from work or she can 4get about me. i dont know if it was the right thing to say since i care about her a lot but i had enought of her games let me knwo what you guys think
i end it with her didnt want to do it on the computer but i did it since she didnt even want to talk to me on the phone
hi i have been having an affair with polish lady for the past 2 years , she is married and i also,,,,i find polish girls in general very sexy,great in bed, her husband had lost interest so i stepped in , i do not how i managed it but on our first night i made love to her 8 times, she told me her husban usually lasts 3 minutes and then falls asleep, this is normal for most married folk i think , but she kept comming back for more,, so my advise for you is take 2 v and make a beast of yourself
i guess so krysia oh well. things happen for a reason. atleast i helped her out a lil. i cancel the k1 application since i last spoke to her if it didnt work when we was good it will not work now or when she gets here. i liked her but i just cant be with some1 that try to change me. or who to hang out with and what to do or not to do and i know thats what bother her the most. ill just keep looking maybe i give it another try with another polish girl
I fell for a younger Polish girl (27 , I am 57) , who lives with my friend's mother ( she came from Poland after WW2). I has known her for some 2 yeras, and built up courage to ask her out.
We had sex, after 4 dates. and as she could not go home , spent Xmas and New Year with me . She is very pretty, and is very affectionate and tender in bed, and thinks far less of herself than she deserves . .
She is married ( separated) with a young son, and is terrified of loosing him, if she seeks divorce. She only sees boy 2/3 times a year.
I would dearly love to marry this woman , but fear that there are too many obstacles, including age difference.
I am dating , and sleeping with a pretty 27 year old Polish girl. I am never 100% sure of her feelings, because of her poor English, but she is very affectionate in bed, although somewhat restricted in what she wil do. She will give me a blow job, but does not like "French" as she calls cunnilingus.
My problem is that she is married ( separated) with a child in Poland, and will not seek a divorce, for fear of loosing the boy to her ex, who lives in same village as boy.
As such our marriage is out of question, as is living together and having children. I am 57 and do not really have so mich time left .
I see no way out of situation, as I love her deeply, and want to spend the rest of my life with her.
