I saw your profile and notice you have same interests as me (drama, music)!! Did you study drama at uni?
Anyway. you can see some of my situation in the subject "advice (preferably from women) on stressed/depressed boyfriend" on the Love & Relationships forum
Just to summarise, I'm in UK, my Polish b/f is in Netherlands and currently in the midst of fall out of divorce (wife in Poland). I have a son who's 8 (who he hasn't met) and we'd been planning to live together and for me possibly to leave UK, but everything has gone a bit pear-shaped right now.
where abouts in the netherlands is your boyfriend? what does he do, how long has he been there? my situation is becoming complicated-how long have you known him
he's been there at least 6 years........................I met him a year ago and started dating him in May.............
I know how you feel about complicated situations!!!!
what about your situation - do you want to tell me some details...........if it's easier I coould give u my email address to correspond?
have been reading some of your earlier posts about your situation................what is happening now? Does he live in UK or just come here occasionally for work?
When he's in Gydnia does he have his own place?
My man lives alone and is going thru divorce proceedings - if you read my earlier posts you'll get more of the story!
Wha's killing me is he's gone silent on me through all the stress of his divorce, feeling he's not worthy etc. And I need to know if he can see a future with me, amonth ago he sent an email telling me I'd always be the one, but he felt he didn't deserve my love (possible as his wife has guilt-tripped him and laid a lot of blame on him)
Well, had thought of showing up on his doorstep - that way I'd get a geunine reaction, but then not sure the timing's right.... and has he had enough time to sort out his head?
Keep chopping and changing my ideas........
then I thought I should just make no contact AT ALL with him for next month (will be damn hard) finding it hard already.... wonder if my silence would illicit a response, since I haven't really tried that "option" yet.........so far I've been making some contact (email or text) about once a week.
Wot do you think?
Wot's latest with you - did you still want to email me?
no i have a polish boy at my school i liked a boy from slovakia at first then he moved away :( and now i like a polish boy called maciek (is that the polish equivalent of matthew)
