Americanpole don't be a man whore. Be a man and embrace the pain then let it go. You can't bury something in sex or alcohol. Just go out with some friends and have fun. Move on.
Do you all think I'm a jerk for saying what I want?
Here is another question... Do women want guys to lie to them? What I mean is do girls ever just want to have sex but feel guilty about doing it outside the realm of a possible relationship?
Some women want casual sex. There is a possibility of guilt with both parties honestly, even if they both want this. This is partially why I don't hook up. That and the prospect that I may never have a healthy serious relationship if I do. Instant gratification is what can lead to many types of unhealthy habits and addictions.
However women who do have casual sex do so knowingly whether intoxicated or not. They don't need a guy to say I love you. Saying I love you is something jerks do to get laid by non sluts or non sexually liberated, w/e you want to call it.
You have two types of girls-"in this situation"
1. Is a hedonist for casual. Easy but picky, or just plain easy.
2. Nice girl, may be sexually experienced or not, responsible, only has had sex in serious relationships or perhaps has never even had a serious boyfriend. May fall head over heels for a douchebag and get dupped into sex, "if naive or if the guy is a good liar".
If you want to whore around please go for 1. Stay away from 2. If you want to fool around don't destoy someones heart in the process. Personally I stay away from both. I have no time for a wonderful 2. No time to date :-(.