Hello Everyone,
I am in dire need of your opinion and 2 cents..lol. I am transitioning from romanian relationships which I have known for the last 5 years and exploring relations with a polish girl only I am confused. Here is the situation: I am a 29 year old american male.
I have started seeing a polish girl. Well she's been in the states for 6 years and she's expressed she would like to start off as friends first. We've been out quite a few times, mostly movies and if I don't call her early in the week she'll text to see how I am. Now here is the comparison in my head.
My previous relations with romanian girls were relatively easy into entering a relationship. They expressed early on that they either wanted to be friends or they wanted to try a committed relationship to avoid the awkwardness of "are we just friends or are we more yet". I would describe my past romanian encounters as the women are very agressive in a "egyptian queen" kind of way...hope I'm not making you laugh but thats my best explanation. We spent a lot of time together early on and attempted to bond.
Now this polish girl I am seeing will usually go out with me once a week or twice a week. She works in retail which I can understand the hectic schedule and she spends time with her family as well. Its kind of awkward because I can't get a feel for the situation....I mean we have a great time together but no hugs as of yet. Now can you help me on indicating whether I should pursue her for a romantic relation? I mean if she was romanian she would have made a move already to indicate whether we are permanent friends or trying a relationship. In this case I am still at square one and I'm confused. Am I suppose to make the first move in polish culture? Is it normal in this culture to start as friends first? Does a girl date many guys as "friends" first and if so should I do the same? I want to avoid miscommunication and I can see there are deep differences in romanian and polish culture. I do know in romanian culture that when you start seeing a girl....she had better be the only one or else she might go ballistic...don't get me wrong...I find jealousy kind of cute and since I am use to being a one woman guy.....dating a few at the same time is foreign to me because romanian girls have made me fear my life should I even think about it..lol. Additionally, I learned intermediate romanian to speak to my ex's friends and family but I want to make sure there is a possible relationship before learning the polish language. Your thoughts are much appreciated!
Thanks everyone and sorry for my long story!
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Hey, i would have prefer if you can give me your private email address so i can mail you better......... either yahoo/hotmail.
Awaiting your response..............
Belinda
The girl probvably has not sexual interest in you,she just sees you as a good friend.Polish girls move quickly if they like you,sometimes very quickly.
However if you decide to keep in tough with her,she may present you a girlfriend of hers who may want a relationship.And in the long run she maybe available as well maybe for a short time if she breaks up with boyfriend or sth like that.
If I were you,I would try to kiss her and if she refused I would ask her if she knows any beautiful polish girls to introduce to me.
