Need advice re: Polish man. What can I do to make him interested?

southern 74 | 7,074

11 Oct 2008 / #31

HOW DO I KNOW IF HE IS INTERESTED!

Tell him to wear tight jeans and observe carefully his crotch while talking to him.

OP Caro_Ireland 1 | 11

11 Oct 2008 / #32

my polish boyfriend says...ask his name, say that he seems like a nice guy, and would he like to go for a coffee with you. Say he looks interesting and it would be nice to talk to him more. Say you are interested in learning more about the Polish culture as there are a lot of Polish people here.....and remember to speak slowly so he understands you. Sounds simple...!! Good luck.

Thanks for that doubtfullove! I'm just waiting to get an opportunity now! I did go to the local church last Sunday for Mass and BINGO! He was there too. I met him after on the way to the car park and I said wadno gen (polish for nice day, sorry don't know how to spell it), he thought I said vodka gin! Unfortunately I was on the opposite side of the street to him so that was kinda the end of the conversation but I gave him a dazzling smile .... even if I say so myself - lol! and he gave me one back. I can't go to that mass for the next 2 sundays either :-(

I saw him very briefly in the shop yesterday while we were both on our break and I went to join the queue behind him but an old lady asked me to help her get phone credit from the machine and opportunity missed!

I will update ye if anything progresses! Here's hoping!

SeanBM 35 | 5,797

11 Oct 2008 / #33

Hello Caro_Ireland
And welcome to the Polish Forum.
Good luck with the romance.

opts 10 | 260

11 Oct 2008 / #34

get him interested with a vodka and polish sausage

Filios1 8 | 1,336

11 Oct 2008 / #35

Tell him to wear tight jeans and observe carefully his crotch while talking to him.

LOL, what the hell are you on man??

Stardust186 - | 2

12 Oct 2008 / #36

Maybe you could ask him out to lunch. It just seems like something nice you both could do and get to know each other better. Having lunch also doesn't have the same amount of pressure a dinner date would have.

OP Caro_Ireland 1 | 11

12 Oct 2008 / #37

I need to find out if he's single first and unless i can get chatting to him I can't find that out :-(

THEN I can progress if he's not got a wife and kids at home in Poland.

Seanus 15 | 19,672

12 Oct 2008 / #38

Remember, he's away from home. He may not even tell u if he has a wife and/or kids.

It was a Stranglers song that said, 'if you don't ask, you don't get'. My mum often used to tell me this too. 'If you don't know what you want, you'll never get it'. The thing is, u've passed that stage as u know what u want.

Don't let a chance slip through ur fingers. Use ur Irish charm :)

OP Caro_Ireland 1 | 11

12 Oct 2008 / #39

hey seanus we have a saying here in Ireland, " A dumb priest never got a parish" ....means the same as the Strangler's lyrics :-)

Seanus 15 | 19,672

12 Oct 2008 / #40

Ever so true that, unless his relatives/contacts got it for him, lol

southern 74 | 7,074

12 Oct 2008 / #41

Tell him about the battle in Grunwald.

Filios1 8 | 1,336

12 Oct 2008 / #42

This might make him go on a rant about Polands glory years, instead of flirting with her.

sapphire 22 | 1,241

14 Oct 2008 / #43

Im assuming you are a Catholic? If so then its perfectly normal for you to go to Church, but if not then he will think you are stalking him at church. Since Im assuming the former I think just keep going to church and show him you are a good catholic girl.. maybe go for a coffee after.. God can maybe show you the path to true love.

OP Caro_Ireland 1 | 11

14 Oct 2008 / #44

Yep, I'm a catholic, not that regular a church going one but I have seen the error of my ways - lol! Haven't seen him since last friday now :-(

Thanks for the kind words Sapphire!

Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535

14 Oct 2008 / #45

Catholics believe in Jesus too...like the Christians did ...isnt it? :)

Bartolome 2 | 1,085

14 Oct 2008 / #46

She's interested in a Polish guy, not Jesus.

Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535

14 Oct 2008 / #47

Polish guy

Bartolome 2 | 1,085

14 Oct 2008 / #48

Yes, yes, Jesus was a Jew.

Lodz_The_Boat 32 | 1,535

14 Oct 2008 / #49

Jesus was a Jew

No... He was a founder of a Faith which was called Christianity.

irishdeano 5 | 304

14 Oct 2008 / #50

You're all Brits you just come with different flags.

shut your face F*g im IRISH

No... He was a founder of a Faith which was called Christianity.

no he was king of the jews

caro to tell you the truth im actually the same with a lativan girl. shes the most beauiful girl i have set eyes on and her smile would make your mouth water...i had a great chance to ask her a few weeks ago and i slipped up now i have not forgiven myself for it lol and i think i have losted my chance..so dont you slip up