I am gay
I thought so
I've been to a couple of gay bars with friends
When you're not posting messages about it that is
There are success stories out there of gays getting cured of their condition
Quite possibly. Or if not cured, at least they changed their preferences from gay to straight - there are after all plenty of pop culture references to husbands and wives suddenly becoming gay and running off with someone of their own sex. Remove the gay behaviour (leather chaps, crap music, flamboyant haircuts etc ) and what do you have left? A person, not a gay person.