Life / I AM BLACK. SHOULD I MOVE TO POLAND? [107]

Greetings to Everyone. I have read a few Posts trying to educate myself about Poland and its people. I am a Jamaican considering moving there since my Fiance' is Polish

I have concerns about racism. I grew up in a country that was not my own. I am from the Caribbean and grew up in the caribbean. I experienced alot of hatred growing up from fellow black people. I guess wherever you go you will always have people who hate you because we are all different from each other. We are all inividuals you see.

I read a post that was entitled "Black People in Poland" It spiralled into a discussion of many things like how people hate black people case they are rude and how black people mixing with White haired blue eyed women is recessive for them and how we get with white women so we can use them as trophies and for citizenship.

Well all these things are true. We as black people are very retrogressive, ignorant and warlike. I study my people and if you look at the black countries of the world, they are either a third world poverty stricken nation or just simply war torn. Thats a given. As a black man I have come to terms with it so all the things said about black people are true. These traits exist even within me. I sometimes have to relapse to those traits to protect my self in certain situations. The thing with me is that I am concious of it and fight to be a better person. Being ignorant and unaware of your ignorance is more detrimental.

When I met my fiance' I never was attracted to her. I never had a white girlfriend before. I lived with white people and have white friends but never a girlfriend. Still, I never look at a person for their outer appearance so I am not surprised that my wife to be is white. Before I thought white people were just white people. But everytime I look at her I notice how beautiful she is and unique. These are the traits I read about in a forum here that men from Africa and other parts go crazy for. I will be stereotyped as being with her for the wrong reasons but am prepared to deal with it.

This thing about race is so f***ed up that when we are in my country we cant go anywhere without being looked at or bothered. And I mean this is from Black people. Sure I we will get it when I move to Poland but I guess the idea is that no matter where we are we will be stared at.

I thought at one point that maybe the world would be better off if all races mixed together and had sex till there was just one race. But reading your thoughts have shown me that diversity is important and much better than just one race. Its the way nature intended. And yet, All human kind originated in Africa from one people. If you disagree with that, we know that we came from one race of poeple till we got to where we are today. So I dont think we ever have to worry about mixing back to one race. I dont see why nature would all of a sudden reverse itself.

On the point of My fiance having recessive traits like the blonde hair blue eyes, she said that no one else in her family is blonde and blue eyed. She says she got it from her Grandmother and that it is not decided who gets blond hair and blue eyes. Therefore, I don't see how you could really try to preserve something like that when even black women get blue eyes and sometimes green eyes.

The previous was just to introduce you to where my mind state is at right now.

My Question is whether it is a good idea to move there (WROCLAW) and how can I get in touch with other black people if I move there.

AND PLEASE NO BULLS***