Love / Foreigners in relationships with Poles - do your in-laws accept you? [66]

I am English born but my Mum is Black and Asian (Indian) and my dad is Asian (Indian), but from South America. The country they are from is also in the West Indies called Guyana. My boyfriend is Polish. His brother is rascist and was actually deported from the uk for his views after racially abusing a London Underground employee. He has no respect for black and asians at all and Im glad he was arrested. He was allowed back. I have met Gregs father who was polite and even said that I was very nice, but who said why cant you get a white girl. I was supposed to go to Poland, but his mum was worried about what the neighbours and guests at the wedding we were supposed to attend would say about me being black, so we didn't go. I didnt want to anyway. The fact I am not Catholic doesn't help as his mum is very religous although his father isnt at all. So no, they have not accepted me. Greg thinks if we had a baby, which he really wants, that his mum and dad would be really happy as they have no grandchildren and it doesnt look like they are getting any soon from the other siblings.

When he first met me and he returned to Poland for another wedding, his mum asked him if he was with anyone and he told her about me. She was shocked, but happy and was smiiling and laughing. Greg thinks his brother has said things to his mother to scare her.

My mother has not accepted Greg and is very rude. She doesnt even say his name. I think that is to do with jealousy on her part, because he loves me so much. She said that 'Eastern Europeans are riddled with desease and that I dont know where he has been so he might have TB (Tubercolosis)' Yes I hate my mother for saying that. We have an awful relationship anyway, so it is no loss to me that I dont repsect her ignorance. She is a nasty *****.

Despite all of this I am so happy and in Love.

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First of all I do not being called a creature. It is disrespectful and you use the term with the upmost disrespect to me. Secondly, why the hell would I lie about where I am from ???? What is so unbelievable about where my parents and I come from ? Why have I made fools of people ? You are bizarre !!

I am totally bored by you Puzzler, so this is the last thing Im going to say on this. You are a waste of space. You have no sense of reason and constantly contradict yourself.

I am ready to talk constructively about something else, when the next topic pops up.

Love / How can a black man get a Polish women [248]


First of all I already have two children with my ex-partner who I was with for 13 years. He was English and Italian so I already have children people look at. However, when people look at them they are thinking how beautiful they are. I have had men and women who are strangers come up to me in the street and in shops just to tell me how beautiful they think my son and daughter are. When I flew to St Lucia, the air stewardess on Virgin Atlantic Airlines came up to me and asked me if the two children in the seats on the other side of the aisle were mine and I said yes. She said you really are the beautiful family, which was very nice of her to say. I have also been complimented on their intelligence and good manners. I have never had bad looks regarding my children, never. Only smiles and compliments.

Also, my Polish boyfriend wants children with me 100% and he said that he will be the happiest man in the world to have a brown baby. He said it would make him proud. I don't know where you live, but I am lucky enough to live in a nice area and most of London has couples like us everywhere. So I have already experienced having mixed race babies and what you are talking about has not happened to me. Even if it did I wouldn't care. You don't need to be tough. Thats got nothing to do with it. It is about loving who you are and your family. No one else matters.

Love / How can a black man get a Polish women [248]

God this is so immature.

!. I did not say I could read peoples minds. You are fully aware that I did not say that, but you are putting it into your post as you have no reply for my point.

2. I don't give a f**k about people who think there is a problem with mixed race children. Im just saying where I live in London most people don't have a problem, that is most English and cosmipoliton people do not have a problem. Other nationalitites who are not in tune with the way we live may have a problem and if they don't like the culture of this country, they should go back to whichever country the came from.

And dont quote the last sentence out of context without quoting the rest of what I have said as I am pretty sure someone will be tempted to do !

Love / HOW CAN POLISH WOMEN KEEP A BLACK MAN? [84]

How to keep a man (regardless of his colour). He has to want you. And want you the way you are, so you are always yourself and that is enough for him. Thats how you keep him. If he thinks your are second best, its doomed. He'll look for it or find something better elsewhere, or if he stays, he will be miserable with you. He has to love you.

Love / Polish interracial dating [333]

Love has no colour. Some people never experience true love in their lifetime. When you find it, grab it with both hands. Don't let go of it. When you are lying in your bed at night and you know that you are at peace in the arms of the person you are with, that is all that matters. No amount of money can buy that. No amount of hate and dissaproval can break it.

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Love / Polish interracial dating [333]


You're absolutely right. Real love is definitely a two way street.